GiR_RoX_mY_SoX answered Monday January 24 2005, 4:27 pm: If you cut you should get help before you cut in the wrong place and kill yourself. It would be good if you went to a counselor to talk about why you cut, and instead of feeling your pain with a blade you could just tell someone that cant keep it confedential. hope i've helped and good luck
*K@K* [ GiR_RoX_mY_SoX's advice column | Ask GiR_RoX_mY_SoX A Question ]
twynelyne answered Monday January 24 2005, 12:31 am: Just get the help, you need to find some other kind of release, take up writing, exercising, or listening to music or something. Anything is better for you than physical abuse. hope i helped, and good luck! Amanda
ps please rate [ twynelyne's advice column | Ask twynelyne A Question ]
mdd1192 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 9:20 pm: i think you should get help because that is very bad and if you think that it is good then you need to go!!!! [ mdd1192's advice column | Ask mdd1192 A Question ]
XxKaTiExLeIgHxX answered Sunday January 23 2005, 7:25 pm: dont deny it....tell the truth you dont want to get caught up in cutting its not good...my advice to you is tell the truth and get help so you can stop cutting....good luck...
BabyBlue848 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:13 pm: I dont think you should you need to tell soem one you can kill your self even though O dont know you I really wouldnt like you to die plz stop :( [ BabyBlue848's advice column | Ask BabyBlue848 A Question ]
Shelbyjune answered Sunday January 23 2005, 3:23 pm: I read all the advices and the "ayes" have it: DO NOT DENY IT. GET HELP!!! You should thank your luck stars you have a teacher who cares about you enough to ask you about it and will send you to a counsellor. Even though they are required, by law, to report anything like this to the school counsellors, it is amazing how many teachers tend to turn blind eyes because they "don't want to get involved" or "don't want the retaliation factor." Rather than worrying about the denial factor, talk with the counsellor, and go and thank your teacher. Kudos to your teacher!!! [ Shelbyjune's advice column | Ask Shelbyjune A Question ]
MyPainIsReal answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:54 pm: The one thing you DO NOT want to do is deny it. If you deny it, you'll continue doing this. From personal experience this is not a good thing to be doing at all. If you want to talk about you can IM me on AIM or drop a message in my inbox. You need to tell them the truth and seek help. Don't do anything you are uncomfortable with but however, get help. This is a habit that can last a lifetime if un-noticed. Do you really want to continue this and one day when you're older have ugly scars about your body? That's no way to live sweetie. Please for the sake of your own good, get help and try to stop. [ MyPainIsReal's advice column | Ask MyPainIsReal A Question ]
swimprincess026 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:52 pm: Whatever you do don't deny it! If you admit to it then maybe somebody can help you! I know that is probally not what you want to do but it is the right thing! People die from these things and it isn't right to do that to yourself! Hope I helped! xoxo -*Carly*- [ swimprincess026's advice column | Ask swimprincess026 A Question ]
AKSherma answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:34 pm: Is it a school counselor? Is it an outside counselor? Either way, although I'm not sure about the school counselor, they are required to keep things in strict confidentiality.
I worked with a lot of people who were cutters, and usually the cutting is a sign of something else. Its a defense mechanism of some kind sometimes. It may just be cutting now but it may lead to more behaviors that you may not want or even consider ever doing until you're older.
It is best to get help now and you'll feel much better in the long run. ALso, if you're afraid of being hospitalized or things like that- you won't be. that is not a fear that should prevent you from getting help.
If you have any other questions- please don't hesitate to e-mail or drop a line.
XoXoBeachBumXoXo answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:33 pm: Get help!!!!!!!!! What you are doing to your self is hurting you physically, and you are doin this because your hurting emotioanally so you should get emotional help.
PrincezPeach08 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:03 pm: I say get help. Don't try to deny it because this situation will just blow up in your face. Going to a counselor isn't bad, so I say deal with it now so that you won't feel nervous or scared or embarrassed when other people start to notice it.
Hope I helped!
~PrincezPeach~ ;) [ PrincezPeach08's advice column | Ask PrincezPeach08 A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:01 pm: Don't deny it hun, it'll make things so much harder. Just tell your counselor everything. She'll help you out as much as possible.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
*LaLa* answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:00 pm: GET help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.