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The last day before winter break this 8th grader (he's odd and acts like a freak, butI don't really judge people like that)and his best friend told me on the bus after all of my friends have gotten off that he likes me. I said "That's cool" and went back to my book. The whole week after winter break they were bothering us, but when it got to the wednesday of that week, they were harrassing us. The kid's best friend was the one who was doing the harrassing, but the kid who likes me was just bothering us to annoy us. The kid's best friend was calling us sexy, telling us that he loves us, and he even fell on my ex-best friend. She told the bus driver and it stoppped. the next time we had a substitute bus driver his friend really harrassed us. He sat on my best friend's lap, and then sat on my lap and said things like "give me a kiss". Then I said "you touch me, you die" and he said "i would rather die baby." That got me really pissed off. I pushed him off of my seat and he went into another guy's seat. We got to school and we all got up in the isle. The kid harassing me and my best friend was standing behind me in the isle. He was pushing me forward and I was pushing him back. Then when I pushed him back he grabbed onto me and made me slip and fall on him. My best friend and I reported him and now he can't sit next to or talk to any girl on the bus. The kid that likes me was just bothering us, so we didn't report him. They were both nice to us and talked to us before, but now they hate us and they were harrassing and bothering us. Why do i feel guilty?
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you shouldnt feel bad they were harrasing you. You should be happy with yourslef cuz they could be still harrasing you if you didnt say anything. Plus it could of gotten worse. Know they cant do anything to you and know they'll think twice before harrasing anyone.
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Your concience is probably kicking in big time, but don't fret. I had a friend like that once. I was in the 7th grade and we had become pretty good friends. He asked me out and i was shocked. I hadn't thought of him as anything more than a friend. So I said no, and figured that things would go back to normal. But hen he would put his arm around me, sit next to me constantly, ect. Not as serious as your case though. Anyways, we're not friends anymore. I told him to back off and didn't talk to him very much after that. I don't hate him, but I think what he did was wrong. I felt bad abou tit for ages though! I thought, maybe I should go out with him. I mean he isn't that bad. But the truth is, guys manipulate themselves into cute, lovable, sexy guys that we girls find irreistable. You'll know when you find the right guy. In the meantime, try one of these:
1) Ignore him
2) Go out on a group date to get your mind off him
3) Send him a letter explaining how you feel
4) Hang out with the girls at the mall and go hot guy hunting. Hey, it's a lot of fun!
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I know how you feel because I am in 7th grade and I know how much boys can be such perverts.You probally feel guilty though because you are a very nice girl and you probally feel a little bit sorry for him, but you should not feel all that sorry because you did what you had to do before he started doing some really naughty things to you!I suggest you just try to ignore him and just move on and if you go out with a guy you like I promise you will forget all about this guy and you will not feel guilty anymore!!!
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i don't know why you feel guilty and that's becuse there is no reason to feel guilty. Those guys were harrassing you and getting to the point of sexual harrassment big time. you couldn't not report them, that's wrong for them to do that. so don't go feeling guilty hun cuz you did exactly the right thing and if all this happens again, do the exact same thing. good luck to you.
--Ally
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there perverts dont feel guilty..
-BriannaxXo
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