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So yesterday this girl and i were standing and talking and lunch and she sees the guy I like walking over with his friend, so she runs over and starts asking him why he randomly danced with another girl right after he had stopped dancing with me and had told me he wanted to find his friends. I hadn't wanted her to mention anything because it did bother me but i knew that he probably didn't like me but i didn't want to make a big deal out of it. So after she talked to him she came over and she's like yea sorry he likes the other girl he danced with. Now i am afraid that he thinks that I told her to go over and ask him stuff about the dance, when I didn't. His friend says that he is really mad now, and i don't know if its at me or my friend or what. I just wanna be his friend now, even if he doesn't like me. What should i do? it also seems like he is avoding me but i don't really know. -Sorry this is long.. (link)
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First, I love detailed questions. It gives a lot more to work with. Here's what I'd do:
1) Confront him verbally and tell him the truth... that your friend was on high pills and just got out of the looney bin.(J.K.)
2) Send him a letter so you don't have to embarrass yourself.
3) Have your friend confront him.
4) Confront his friend
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okay i think i may like a guy...the bad thing is he is a freshman and im a junior i know i said this to my self a thousand of times that i would never date a freshman but he is really nice, sweet, cute and all of the above things that guys could be...i mean what should i do...im really confuzed on this one can any one help me... (link)
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I can relate. I like a guy who's a year and half younger than me, but he's ever more mature than me. Here are some suggestions:
1) Follow your heart, and if this person can enrich your life, don't miss out on the opportunity.
2) Find a new love (blah!)
3) Put yourself in his shoes. What do you think he'd do if he was you?
**Tell me what happens! That way I'll get some advice for the guy I like!**
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I am really depressed. I just feel like every one thing that is good in my life, there are three bad things. In other words, the pros outweigh the cons. I really need help, but don't want to ask my mom to go to a shrink. So, I'm waiting for someone to notice. I don't want to cut myself, but it's the only way for people to notice. So, I just take a pin and scratch myself so that it will make slight cut marks on my wrists. I know it's stupid, but I just need help beyond my stupid friends' advice.
I hate these bribe things, but I do rate high, if that will help you to answer me. (link)
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Oh my goodness! Please, please DO NOT cut yourself! It does no good. Try one of these solutions:
1) Talk to your school counselor. Ask for a private disscussion to only be shared between each other.
2) Write a letter to your mom, so that you don't really have to talk to her.
3) Talk to your friends. They give out the best advice possible because they know you the best.
Hope you find a way through all of this. K.I.T.!
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I have this problem, I really like having guy friends, and I can do stuff around them, like be my stupid self, and they can act the same. But if I start dating one of them, I get all shy. I hate this. What can I do to change it? (link)
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I totally understand. I get the same way. When a guy and I are just friends it's so much confortable than dating him. Here's what you can do:
1) Take drama!
2) Pretend you're still friends when you're around him, that way it'll be more comfortable.
3) Don't date "guy friends"
Hope I helped!
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To all you guys...what do guys like for valentines day...like in general? i have no idea what to get my guy...like chocolate? flowers? hats? what? please help!
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Okay, I'm not a guy but I'm sure that they'll love:
1) A framed photo in a cute, but simple frame.
2) An "I love my GF (put your name here)" shirt with an ironed on picture of you or both of you together.
3) A giftcard to their favorite place (Gamestop, Chili's, Barnes and Nobles, ect)
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Ok, heres whats going on, I have A computer and everytime I hook my screen up to it it says "Please check signal cable" and I move the cable around and it still doenst seem to work, it was working the last time I hooked it up but its not working now, so does anyone know what the problem is or what I could do to get it to work? I'll rate HIGH for anyone who can help me out with this, Thanks! (link)
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Here's what I think you should try to do:
1) Twist the 1 or 2 circular things into the moniter really tight.
2) Unhook it and check the little knobby things to see if any are bent.
3) Call the troubleshooting hotline for your computer type. (It should be in the manuel)
4) Call the cable guy and ask him to help you out.
Hope I helped!
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what if your not a good reader and you really want to get better what should i do.
tutoring?
help please (link)
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Try Sylvan Learning Centers or Kumon. I know for sure that those places are pretty cheap and work great!
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See I just moved in the begining of summer, and moving means leaving all your friends behind and basically starting out a new life. And it's not like I could've stayed there, because my dad's in the military...so we move a lot. Like I thought it would be fun at first...but I don't like my school. I like the school, but the people is a different story. Everyone's nice and stuff...but the friends I have ....well the ones I eat lunch with and stuff are....to be honest...are losers.They don't talk about fashion, it doesnt seem like they care about it either, and they don't talk about boyz or anything. Like I seriously don't want to be mean at all, but sometimes they act too immature for me. I have other friends too but like...I don't want to go ditch the people who talked to me first, my "loser" friends. Please help me out! (link)
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I'm about to move too! Here's what I say:
1) Decide who you have a better time with
2) Hang with them more
OR
1) Change your loser friends into cool friends AKA go shopping!
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i've been really depressed lately and i cut myself and i really really want to tell somebody because its been getting out of control and i don't want to do something i am going to regret so should i tell a counselor teacher friend or what? (link)
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Definetly go to a counselor. Teachers tend to be more like a "Lets go tell her mom and get it over with" while counselors are more like "Lets see how she feels about the situation first. Tell your good friend(s) too. Tell the friend(s) that you know won't gossip about it. Tell the friend(s) that will help you through these tough times. And rememeber: You're the best person you know.
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It was about 11pm and i called my mom at the train station when i was walking home. I asked if she was even home, she said she was at her friends house. Okay, that was a lie. I have never seen this women go out 4 times a week with the SAME people. So being a smartass i am i said, "Oh, are you with your boyfriend?" She was in shock! She dosnt know that i know she has a bf:
Actually i guessed. It was obvious. Reason 1) Look at her Cladagguh Ring 2)I see her sneeking out after midnight way to many times 3)When i told my brother, he said he met the guy.
Anyways, when i got home she was nowhere in sight. This morning when i woke up, i was waking downstairs when something outside caught my eye, there was a red car in my driveway. "Oh shit, they're in my grandparents room!" I froze staring out the window and hearing a footstep downstairs.
How should I Confront my mom???
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Tell her how you feel about her boyfriend. Do you want to meet him? Do you want your mom to act more her age? Decide what you want from your mom's relationship, and remember... she's a lot like you. She wants to be young and have a good time. Seriously, just talk to her- one on one. Or if that's kinda weird for you, than send a letter, text message, or email. Just find a way.
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my mom is sick n its getting really bad n shes in the hospital...
ive been told by my sundai school teacher to keep on praying no matter wut n its been a long time since i started n...nothings happening...
im getting really impatient n starting to think that God doesnt love me.
wut should i do?
^$SiCknSaD$^ (link)
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Don't give up! Remember, God loves everyone and he may need sometime to get to your prayer. Think of it as an inbox. You go through the older ones first, then the newer ones. Most importantly, never give up. Then your prayer will be held back more and more. Get your friends to pray too. I for one will. Email me if you need anything: darkchaos_42@yahoo.com
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hey, does anyone have any good ideas for a band name? theres like 4-5 s in it and all i thought of is "strength in scars" but it sounds kind of like my firends band so i dont think were gunna use it.. thanks so much [i'll give you credit or whatever if we do use it lol just give me your first name of somthing] (link)
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Dark Chaos
It's my email address too! My name is Payal Amin.
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How do you know when you're in love? And I mean really in love, not lusting after something you can't have, not loving someone, IN love, with 'the one'. How do you know?
Thnx,
Hallie (link)
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You'll feel like you're floating on air everytime you see the guy. You'll feel actual "waves" of happiness flow through you each time you both touch. It's really special, but hard to realize. Your heart will be your guide.
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The last day before winter break this 8th grader (he's odd and acts like a freak, butI don't really judge people like that)and his best friend told me on the bus after all of my friends have gotten off that he likes me. I said "That's cool" and went back to my book. The whole week after winter break they were bothering us, but when it got to the wednesday of that week, they were harrassing us. The kid's best friend was the one who was doing the harrassing, but the kid who likes me was just bothering us to annoy us. The kid's best friend was calling us sexy, telling us that he loves us, and he even fell on my ex-best friend. She told the bus driver and it stoppped. the next time we had a substitute bus driver his friend really harrassed us. He sat on my best friend's lap, and then sat on my lap and said things like "give me a kiss". Then I said "you touch me, you die" and he said "i would rather die baby." That got me really pissed off. I pushed him off of my seat and he went into another guy's seat. We got to school and we all got up in the isle. The kid harassing me and my best friend was standing behind me in the isle. He was pushing me forward and I was pushing him back. Then when I pushed him back he grabbed onto me and made me slip and fall on him. My best friend and I reported him and now he can't sit next to or talk to any girl on the bus. The kid that likes me was just bothering us, so we didn't report him. They were both nice to us and talked to us before, but now they hate us and they were harrassing and bothering us. Why do i feel guilty? (link)
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Your concience is probably kicking in big time, but don't fret. I had a friend like that once. I was in the 7th grade and we had become pretty good friends. He asked me out and i was shocked. I hadn't thought of him as anything more than a friend. So I said no, and figured that things would go back to normal. But hen he would put his arm around me, sit next to me constantly, ect. Not as serious as your case though. Anyways, we're not friends anymore. I told him to back off and didn't talk to him very much after that. I don't hate him, but I think what he did was wrong. I felt bad abou tit for ages though! I thought, maybe I should go out with him. I mean he isn't that bad. But the truth is, guys manipulate themselves into cute, lovable, sexy guys that we girls find irreistable. You'll know when you find the right guy. In the meantime, try one of these:
1) Ignore him
2) Go out on a group date to get your mind off him
3) Send him a letter explaining how you feel
4) Hang out with the girls at the mall and go hot guy hunting. Hey, it's a lot of fun!
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What are some good teen sites... Like sites that has quizes, quotes, surveys, place to meet ppl, games and stuff for teen... please hellp..thanks (link)
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bored.com it has it all!
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My best friend always copies my looks! Like if i tell her ive found a certain store that i like to go to, she'll just one day start shopping there and tell all our other friends she found it first! And its not just like materials..she said that she liked matt -our crush- way before i did. But when i told her i liked him last year she said oh i think hes kind of ugly. I mean is she really my friend?? shes so annoying ..what do i do? plz help!! (link)
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I understand what you mean. I have a friend who takes all of my brilliant ideas and makes them her own. Here are your options:
1*Don't tell her who you like anymore
2*Dress really weird and see if she copies you (:
3*Tell her it bothers you a lot and you would feel better if she stopped dressing and acting just like you. You could also help her find a look that's right for her by going shopping together.
I personally like 3* better. And remember when someone copies you it's like they really look up to you.
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