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so depressed
i've been really depressed lately and i cut myself and i really really want to tell somebody because its been getting out of control and i don't want to do something i am going to regret so should i tell a counselor teacher friend or what?
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When I cut myself I told a friend and without realizing we were standing with our backs faced to this one teacher, that teacher told guidance who told my parents. If something is risking your life then confidentiality doesn't not work in guidance. But before I told my friend about me cutting I had confided in a different teacher, anonymously though, but she eventually (after maybe a month or so of e-mails) found out who I was. Lucky for me she's kept my secrets (I hope) Confide in someone, whoever you feel most comfortable with. I had anonymously e-mailed my teacher, I used a yahoo e-mail adress because they're free, and I just randomly e-mailed her one day. You could write something like If you had a student that cut themselves what would you do. My e-mail was a lot longer because I'd e-mailed her previously with a problem because I had felt guilty about a friends death, and so I just added stuff about now how I cut and stuff like that. She isn't my teacher anymore, so I don't really talk to her as much, just like say hi everyonce in a while. But ummm, definitley tell someone!! If you want a good website to go to, here's one that I recieved when I asked a question on advicenators about cutting... [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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i would tell somebody.. preferably a friend because its easier to talk to them.. then if that doesnt help, just go to someone confidentialy or in person.. whatever is most comforable.. and just remember.. everything wil get better... and just be as happy as possible, but if you truly care about stopping cutting yourself.. then stop.. and it will feel great afterwards
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Definitally tell a friend or an adult you can trust cuz cutting wont solve your problems and you could get a visious infection which would just make things worst so tell someone and they will try to help you get throught it, mmk?
katie`~marie
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You should tell the person you trust most. You just have to make sure that you can REALLY trust them! It doesn't matter who exactly ...just get it off your shoulders. If you do, it will get a little bit easier with someone to help you through it all.
-Cowgirlie
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tell a friend and a councelor who ever you think would help themost but do something anything !! i cut myself now and i cant stop cause im so depressed all the time !! dont let cutting take over your body !!! see evry time i get depressed i cut my self and i cant help it i cry after i do it and i cant see why i cant stop !! hurry and get help before it gets too late !! dont make the choice i made !!! hope i helped !! good luck
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You should go see a counselor.If you tell a teacher they'll probably tell your parents, and if you tell a friend it might be all around the school within 24 hours.A couselor is your best bet.
*ashley*
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deff. tell A counselor because they can help you lso tell your parents so they know whats going on in your life...if you want to tell your best friend then do that...but make sure you tell sombody who can get you help...need to talk just leave one in my inbox sking 4 my screen name
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any adult you know..and trust
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Definetly go to a counselor. Teachers tend to be more like a "Lets go tell her mom and get it over with" while counselors are more like "Lets see how she feels about the situation first. Tell your good friend(s) too. Tell the friend(s) that you know won't gossip about it. Tell the friend(s) that will help you through these tough times. And rememeber: You're the best person you know.
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ya-u reely should go to a counselor-but first tell your parents. they can reely help you. its important that you do this.
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well first of all...u told the ppl who r reading this! and second of all...cutting made mee feel better...but it didnt help the pain it juss made mee hate myself more. dont do nething that hurts urself or others....trust mee it doesnt do ne good. juss tell a couselor and ur friends..let them know wutz going on. hope i helped ya! ~Aimee
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Yes. Of course you should tell someone. You dont want to do something your going to regret. And if people get you so pissed off and depressed that you want to cut, fuck them. You shouldnt let people bother you hun.
Hope I helped
Riley
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Wow... I really think that you should tell an adult that you trust!! This could really get out of hand causing near death experiences. I would recommend telling your parents!!
Hope I helped....Remy
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You should definetly talk to a counselor or a fried/parent. A minor depression may lead to something very serious, it can even lead to a suicidal situation. Talk to someone immediatly!
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i suggest a youth pastor. mine really helped me when i was in that situation. or if you don`t attend church, try a Christian friend or teacher/counselor. don`t keep this to yourself but only tell someone you trust.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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Yes you should go see a councelor, because if you dont your depression will get to the point where it causes and in-balence of chemicals in your brain and you get a prolonged depression one that needs professional help, and trust me you dont want to get that, i have it unfortunatly.
Good Luck.
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Try a guidence councler!
♥ Michelle
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YES you dumd go tell a couselor, you have a disease!
Kay
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