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HEYS! I don't really know what to say about myself...
I'm 15 years old and I'm from TEXAS...cept i dont live there anymore! I like to sing, ride horses, dance, go to the movies, and pretty much anything with my friends! mmmhuhz! I love to give advice to anyone that I am able to so if you need help on ANYTHING at all...it doesn't matter what it is that you need help on...POST!! And I'll help you (or try my best at least) So, hope to have ur posts on here! Love y'all!

-Cowgirlie
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Hi,
I am trying to convince this girl called Zoe to stop saying i'm gay. I can take it, usally i just stand there and take it without a reaction. I have explained to her I don't and told her which celecs I fancy but she still says i am gay.
Is she trying to get a responce out of me and if so what? (link)
Well, I'm guessing that she's just mad because you don't have feelings for her.


Well, Leanne does fancy me, I told that I don't feel the same way. She knows that I didn't fancy her thats why she didn't tell me. What do I do now, carry like this never happened or what? (link)
hey...Well, I think that you should just act like it didn't happen in a way...but not to where she notices. I mean, don't treat Leanne differently just because she liked you. Treat her the same as you would have before you knew about taht. You know?
Hope I helped!!!

..*..Cowgirlie..*..


I really want to get my fake nails taken off. Does anyone know how you can remove them other than chipping them off and going to the nail place (not an option as of this moment)? (link)
go buy acetone at Sally's beauty Supply....then put it in a bowl and stick your fingers in it...soak until your nails are just ready to come right off!!!


Okay I am 14 and a girl.. and The guy I am with is 22 and a guy.. He works at a jail.. Do u think it is wrong for us to 'be together' (link)
Well, when you are older like, say twenty something, I don't think it would be a problem. My grandma is 60 and my grandpa is 83 so, I think theres an even bigger age difference there. But what i'm trying to say is that if you and him REALLY love eachother, he'd wait until you were at least legal. You know? Hope I helped!!

..*..Cowgirlie..*..


Several people have said that leanne fancy me, they said that she has fancied me for a least 2 months. Something she has kept quite for a while. What should i do, wait for leanne to tell me or confront her?
But if she does, how am I going to tell her i don't feel the same way? (link)
Well, I think that if I were you, I'd confront her about it. Just Tell her that you have heard from several people that she fancies you and then ask if that is true. Then if she says yes, just tell her that you're very flattered but that you see her as more of a friend. I mean, there's not exactly an easy way of breaking that to a girl but I think that'd probably be the nicest way to do it. Or if she says no, then you can ask her to get Zoe to stop asking you out for her. I hope I helped!
..*..cowgirlie..*..


Thanks for thte advice but I'd did that 3 times before and she says we are good for each other but there lies the problem, I don't fancy leanne or anything like that, she is just a friend. I keep telling her that and thats way I end up shouting at zoe.
I don't know what to do what to do. (link)
Well, maybe tell Leanne to tell Zoe to shut the hell up? lol Sorry the first one didn't work though hun...talk to leanne if you haven't already.
..*..Cowgirlie..*..


Hi,
One of my friend called zoe is trying to make me go out with leanne. Heres the problem, I got fincy leanne, she is nothing more than a friend. So how do i stop zoe trying to make me and leanne go out? I have told her, hell i even shouted at her but she is still keeps on trying to make me go out with leanne. (link)
Well, I am not positive what kind of person she is but the thing that I would do is, sit her down and have a calm talk with her. Ask her why she wants you to go out with Leanne so badly and then tell her why you don't want to go out with her. Do not shout at her or anything or else she may keep doing it just to agravate you. If this does not work, you can ask again and then I will try and help you as much as I can!! thanks...

..*..cowgirlie..*..


I am 14,female.i dated this guy for 4 months(my first relationship. at first i didnt like this asshole at all but as the months passed i started to fall for him crazy. not experiouncing these feelings Ever, i was confused and depressed because i knew he would never like me as much as I did. so when he found out i liked him that much he started to take advantage of me. now im usually not the type to let ANYONE push me around but since i went gaga and stupid everytime i saw him i let him.so my friends forced me to break up with him but i got back with him in the next day. but then HE broke up with me just to laugh at my face. i still really like him(god knows why).i would still really like sweet revenge on this guy.what is the best revenge on this guy?making him jelouse?or just embaressing him? (link)
Do both...do something totally crazy that would make him like super jealous and then...embarass the hell out of the sucker! haha...hope I helped!

-Cowgirlie


my younger sister is turning thirteen in like two weeks, and we are still trying to come up with ideas for what do do at her birthday party. she knows that she wants to have a sleepover, but we dont know any stuff to do so that it doesnt get boring. any ideas? (link)
Well, ALWAYS have TONS of junk food like icecream and stuff...not just cake! And rent tons of SCARY movies...and some comedies too that way you could...well you know, go to sleep that night...or morning or whenever all y'all get tired! lol! And, umm... Take the stereo into the living room, and empty out all the stuff besides like 2 couches, stereo, and television! Cuz that way...you guys can dance and all that junk! You know what I'm saying? And if she wants to have a big party and then have only a few people spend the night, she can do that too...just tell them to be early so no one will get their feelings hurt! lol! i hope I helped you out lots!

-Cowgirlie


im looking for a dress for the end of the year dance, which is supposed to be some big thing. we arent supposed to like over do it.. like wear prom dresses and stuff, but we need to wear dresses and look nice. im going shopping to check them out tomorrow. any suggestions? (link)
I am not sure what stores you have in your area but some of the stores that I would suggest you check out are delia's, jcpenny's, macy's, and papaya. I hope I helped!
-cowgirlie


I'm a breakfast, lunch, dinner type of girl. I try not snack inbetween, but I find that many times, after lunch, a few hours before dinner, I am SO hungry...does anyone have some really nutritious snacking ideas? (link)
Well, if you like celery...a really good snack is celery with peanut butter on it. Also there is mini carrots and ranch. I like those and they are both really nutritional. I hope that helped!

-Cowgirlie


i've been really depressed lately and i cut myself and i really really want to tell somebody because its been getting out of control and i don't want to do something i am going to regret so should i tell a counselor teacher friend or what? (link)
You should tell the person you trust most. You just have to make sure that you can REALLY trust them! It doesn't matter who exactly ...just get it off your shoulders. If you do, it will get a little bit easier with someone to help you through it all.

-Cowgirlie


I don't have a lot of money and I'm very small, so where can I get nice kids clothes. (Pant size- 10 or 12. Shirt size 10/12 or 14/16.) Thanks a lot and please don't say K-mart :/. (link)
Well, there is a store called 579. It's usually in the mall. When they have sales, their clothes are SUPER good prices!!! They don't have those exact sizes that you mentioned but they do have XXsmall in juniors shirts and 00 pants. They have REALLY cute clothes...i go there a lot! I hope i was able to help you!

-Cowgirlie


okay i have a major problem

my school has the biggest clique system EVER....like you wouldn't believe how many cliques there are. Its such a big deal....and its really get on my nerves to the point where I can't concentrate on my school work and my grades are slipping. This is because I'm at the bottom of the pit I only have a few friends (1 or 2) but still I wish I had more and theres a certain group that I would like to make friends with and they seem nice but I'm soo shy and people say I'm one of the shyest girls in the grade and that I hardly speak. I know I should speak more but its hard for me and I think I have social anxiety. Please help as high school is starting next year and I don't know whether to switch schools or change my image at the school I am going to (the school I am at has the grades pre-k till 12th). Also my school is one of the best schools in the nation and that is another reason why I am having a tough time deciding whether to leave it simply because of the cliques. I heard someone call me a reject and a loser at school....and to be honest I am a reject, but I know I'm not a loser. Please help, thank you sooo much!! (link)
Just remember...it's a NEW YEAR...you can be anyone you want! Just smile at the people you are wanting to be friends with every once in a while and TRY to talk to them. I know that it might be hard but you should at least try.

-Cowgirlie


i am doing a weight loss program and i told my friend and i think my other friends know and are making fun of me. what sould i do?
how do i know if there my true friends?
HELP ME
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Thanx for your help
always
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Well, to tell you the truth, if they are making fun of you for taking care of your body...they aren't your friends. If you want to lose weight it's your business...not theirs. I would talk to them about it and if they still don't listen...find someone else to chill with for a while...at least until they realize that you don't like what they are doing.
Hope I helped!

-Cowgirlie


Ok, heres the deal...I have liked a certain someone for a year now. We dated before and blah blah but I still like him a LOT and I have been getting the vibe that he likes me too. Well, our school is holding a Sadie Hawkins dance for Vday. And I want to ask him. But everytime I think about it my heart races and I get all nervous and stuff. How should I ask him? Thanks in advance. (link)
Well, the easiest way is probably over the phone. Even though you are still talking to him he can't see that you are nervous and that you are blushing or whatever it may be. If you don't want to do that...just write him a note and get the guts to give it to him. Don't worry about what he says...if he can't see that you are great...he doesn't deserve you.

-Cowgirlie


does anyone know where to get jeans that are a little below ur waist and are about $15-30? someone please help and i may rate you a 5! (link)
Well, depending on where you live there are many different stores. Some of which are:
Wet Seal
579
GenX

There are many more and if you don't have those stores...I will give you some more if u just ask me!

-Cowgirlie


im 13 and female
i went out with this guy cuz my friend told me he liked me and i liked him to we broke up a wihle ago and now i think i like more than i did when we were goin out could someone girl or guy tell me wut to do
thanx
lost n life (link)
I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. I went through the same thing last year. Even though I wish I could give you better advice...I don't know what to tell you besides...just wait. You will most likely get over him. Or, if he doesn't have a girlfriend ask him out or something...apologize whatever you feel the need to do. Just follow your heart...not your head.

-Cowgirlie


my best friend has a boyfriend who she thinks is more important than me. when i say something about him, she gets mad at me!does that mean she doesnt care about me anymore? (link)
NO! That does NOT mean that she doesn't care for you anymore! Not by any means! She is most likely just excited or whatever about having a boyfriend that she hasn't really thought about what she has been doing. Just give her some time to get used to it all and things will most likely go back to normal.

-Cowgirlie


I am getting sorta tired of the way everyone is so rude on here! There was this girl who was pregnant and scared and crying and this guy came along and told her to shut up! Whats with everyone? When someones mother dies you dont say "Stop complaining bitch" thats absolutely digusting! So my question is...why do some people on here be complete assholes when there are people who need serious answers and have serious questions?!?!? (link)
I think that even though you have probably heard this a million and one times in your life...they only do it to make themselves feel better. I don't know how it makes them feel better but...apparently it does.

-Cowgirlie




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