I am getting sorta tired of the way everyone is so rude on here! There was this girl who was pregnant and scared and crying and this guy came along and told her to shut up! Whats with everyone? When someones mother dies you dont say "Stop complaining bitch" thats absolutely digusting! So my question is...why do some people on here be complete assholes when there are people who need serious answers and have serious questions?!?!?
KtBuGxOxO9 answered Monday January 24 2005, 2:14 pm: i think bc they arent satisfied with themselves and thye r the ones who need the advice..i think that they think its funny..but its really not [ KtBuGxOxO9's advice column | Ask KtBuGxOxO9 A Question ]
c_assi_e_x_12 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 9:53 pm: I agree. It pisses me off. This is a place for advice not critcizem. Hence the name ADVICEnators. The people who think it's funny to taunt a person in need should be kicked off the site. Thats my opinion and I'm not changing it. Thanks for speaking up about this. It's about time!! Peace and Blessings...
xO_Natalie_Ox answered Sunday January 23 2005, 8:49 pm: I know how you feel. I posted a question simialr to thi sabout a week ago. The administrators told me the same thing everyone will tell you. They want attention and they can't ban these people unless they do something like.. offensive I think it was or something. I think this is offensive and these people should be banned cuz thi scould cause a serious problem or someone might do somethign really bad. It's nice to know other peopel feel the same way. [ xO_Natalie_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_Natalie_Ox A Question ]
tExAsCoWgIrLiE15 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 5:30 pm: I think that even though you have probably heard this a million and one times in your life...they only do it to make themselves feel better. I don't know how it makes them feel better but...apparently it does.
monkeygirl answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:58 pm: I absoulslty hate when people are so rude.. and I always make sure they know I don't like it... I asked a question about suicide once and someone told me to do it and just get it over with... how retarded is that.. Some people are way to immature and need to grow up and get a life. I agree with you people do not need to be so raunchy and horrible on here. I think they should come up with something that will kick you off if your rude or will not let you anwser the quesiton...... [ monkeygirl's advice column | Ask monkeygirl A Question ]
advicequeen answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:48 pm: I guess some people take advantage of their "anonymity" on advicenators which is completely out of hand and they definitely should not be doing that. They are simply not mature enough and there will always be people like that no matter what you do or where you go, which is very sad, but you CAN prove them how stupid they are acting by acting mature yourself. Glad to know you're not another one of them =) [ advicequeen's advice column | Ask advicequeen A Question ]
XxKaTiExLeIgHxX answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:43 pm: Because they think they are being cool but they are really not..i hate that too..its horrible...if they arent here giving advice then why are they here? this is not the becomplete@$$holenators.com so the people who sit here and give stupid " advice " should just go...cuz its not helping anybody...but if that makes them feel atleast an inch bigger then w/e they have problems... [ XxKaTiExLeIgHxX's advice column | Ask XxKaTiExLeIgHxX A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:40 pm: Well people think they funny i think..i mean i love to help people but sometimes i get a lil rude and i know it but some of the questions are really stupid like some girl wanting to tell her friend how she should wear her hair and stuff..but like people with serious questions i'm for real serious as well.. but i think people like to waste time and hurt people's feelings..hope i answered that question..~*DEZ*~...thuggirl041790 [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:17 pm: If you don't like it use abuse reports. The level 2 mods can ban them but sometimes it's just annoying and a lot of time you can tell if their serious or not. They won't get high ratings anyway. But as I said before make an abuse report about it. ♥ good luck [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:14 pm: i agree but i dont think this is a question that you need advice on. so if you dont like something, send it to the makers of this site and complain to them, not us. then dont ask us for advice. [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
1MANSONFAN answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:13 pm: That's right people shouldn't be assholes their just asking for advice not something big. If you dont have anything nice to say then don't say anything. Not you the assholes. [ 1MANSONFAN's advice column | Ask 1MANSONFAN A Question ]
Okay, and now to answer your question. This answer may sound rude, and sorry if it does. It was stupid of you to post this question. That flat out says it. And to say why it was stupid... BECAUSE... people on this site that are rude do it for attention. Posting this 'question' bring the attention they seek right to them. If you are a new memeber, then I understand, but if you'be been on this site for a while now, then you should know better. Advicenator_admin is doing the best she can. Us moderators are doing as much as we can. That's why we have the abuse reports. We don't just ban people for being rude, they have to be REALLY bad. And you have to try and learn to ignore these people, I know it's a hard thing to do, but the more attention you give them the more they are going to be asswholes. You just have to learn that there is freedom of speech, and unless it gets too out of hand then we don't have much power over it. I'm sorry that what I am saying isn't the nicest, but it's true. Personally I try and give the best advice I can, but there are people in this world that are only in this world because it's illegal to kill them. I think there are/were funny columnists that were rude, such as NinthGradeGuy, and yet there are TERRIBLE columnists, like there used to be one.. snakeeyes or something like that. When you stop giving them the attention they seek they get bored and move on. You just have to try and ignore them. Sorry for the rudeness, I'm just sick of people giving the 'jerks' the attention they want. If you have a complaint about them file an abuse report with the link I gave above. Oh, and don't send a mean message to their inbox, or do questions on the main page about it because that just makes this know that they aren't being ignored by everyone and that people are reading what they say and are getting pissed off. Just IGNORE THEM!!!!!!! And again, sorry for the rudeness. Bye now! [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
BabyBlue848 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:10 pm: I know what you mean they can be really rude if you every ask a question and they give you a rude response jsut go to suggetions at the tope of the page and when you get there it will say report abuse just click it and put in the columns name and put what they did to you I wish the rude people would get bandthey are just trying to be funny but they are mean and they can get some one hurt [ BabyBlue848's advice column | Ask BabyBlue848 A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:05 pm: Some people are stupid like that. And your right, that is absolutely digusting. People come here for help and if they don't want to help, they should keep there mouth closed. I'm totally on your side here. Some people have no life, so they have to put down others. But there should be a stop to all the people who leave rude answers like that!
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:03 pm: Well, I think to answer your question specifically would be hard. It's really to each his own. You can't alwayus control the thoughts, words, and actions of others. Only yours. I do agree with you though. Often times people are way to harsh. Personally, I enjoy giving the best advice I can possibly give, and I take it pretty seriously. Some people probably enjoy just being insensitive and rude. I don't think they are trying to be totally malicious, but they probably get annoyed because some of the people ask pretty dumb questions. But the Advice Admin does the best she can. That's why there's an abuse system, banning, and moderators. A site of this is bound to have issues such as these. You yourself are probably going to get some comments. But I guess just you should just give the best advice you can and outdo the bad advice. Good luck! :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
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