i am doing a weight loss program and i told my friend and i think my other friends know and are making fun of me. what sould i do?
how do i know if there my true friends?
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X0O_d0lL_faCe_O0X answered Sunday January 23 2005, 11:10 pm: if they are you true friend, they wont make fun of you or evan laugh at you .. they will probally say taht you dont need to be on a weight loss program .. hope i helped ya hun
tExAsCoWgIrLiE15 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 5:46 pm: Well, to tell you the truth, if they are making fun of you for taking care of your body...they aren't your friends. If you want to lose weight it's your business...not theirs. I would talk to them about it and if they still don't listen...find someone else to chill with for a while...at least until they realize that you don't like what they are doing.
Hope I helped!
x0oLoViNiTo0x answered Sunday January 23 2005, 4:44 pm: Well, you should just confront them about it. They are probably just teasing you because you think your fat. They probably don't think your fat and that's why their doing that. Good Luck with your program!
vollballgirl answered Sunday January 23 2005, 3:25 pm: if they make fun of you then they are not your real friends. it is fine that you are doing a weight loss program, and if your friends don't respect that then they are not real friends. if you don't want to lose your friends though then you can try talking to them about it. [ vollballgirl's advice column | Ask vollballgirl A Question ]
LexybelNLisa answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:53 pm: Well first of all, congrats on starting a weight loss program - i hope it turns out good lol
as for your friends, maybe they're just teasing you like friends do, you know when you all just kid around and stuff.. but maybe not, i think that you should ask them about it.. b/c in my opinion your friends should be supportive of your descion and be encouraging! [ LexybelNLisa's advice column | Ask LexybelNLisa A Question ]
XoItalianbabiioX answered Sunday January 23 2005, 12:58 pm: Hey
I think that you should just confront them. Ask them if they are saying things about you. Believe them but if you find out that they are lieing (not only about this, but about anything) then maybe you should consider finding friends that would get along with you more and wouldn't talk about you behind ur back
hope i can help [ XoItalianbabiioX's advice column | Ask XoItalianbabiioX A Question ]
PrincezPeach08 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 12:29 pm: I know it's hard, because I have been made fun of too but don't think of them making fun of you, think of how great you'll be in the long run! As for your friends, don't get all mad at them. You just let it be, but I mean don't stay in your corner being quiet. Let's say they said something like "I can't believe she's doing that, she thinks it's actually going to work." Well you can say,"Yeah, it is going to work,and I'll be the one looking great!" So focus on what you want and don't let others bring you down.
Hope I helped! :) [ PrincezPeach08's advice column | Ask PrincezPeach08 A Question ]
BeautifulMadness answered Sunday January 23 2005, 12:23 pm: Just ignore them!! They're most likely either teasing your good-naturedly or jealous that you're out there making your life better!
Talk to them and tell them it's bugging you if it starts to get out of hand, though.
Good luck with the diet!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
Sherry answered Sunday January 23 2005, 11:28 am: Well tell them straight out that you heard that their talking crap about you...and that its totally messed up and walk away! If its true, they wont come to you and talk to you about it. If its not true, they'll probably try to talk to you wether its through the phone, in person, whatever...you'll know their your true friends if they try to talk to you about it! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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