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Is it okay?
Okay I am 14 and a girl.. and The guy I am with is 22 and a guy.. He works at a jail.. Do u think it is wrong for us to 'be together'
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um...YES there is a large age difference. you are still in highschool and he is WORKING!!!!!!!!!!! AT A JAIL whihc i think, is not that great.
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Well, in all honesty, yes it is wrong for you to be together. Morally and legally. He could get arrested for "being with you" because it's endangering the welfare of a minor. Especially if he works at a jail, he should know what he's doing is wrong. You're 14 years old, how do you end up with a 22 year old? If anyone finds out about it, know that his ass is going to end up in the very place he works at- Jail. But, I still think that if two people really love eachother, that nothing can matter between them, be it age or distance, but at such a young age, it's just not right. I just wish you the best and I hope he doesn't get caught.
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Well, when you are older like, say twenty something, I don't think it would be a problem. My grandma is 60 and my grandpa is 83 so, I think theres an even bigger age difference there. But what i'm trying to say is that if you and him REALLY love eachother, he'd wait until you were at least legal. You know? Hope I helped!!
..*..Cowgirlie..*..
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Yes, I definitely think that. He's 8 years older than you are. Maybe you think that you are in love but really now. Be sensible . Be reasonable and for heavens sake honey use logic. This is not good and healthy. And worst of it is, if someone were to discover "this/your being together" then you could get yourself and HIM in major trouble. If you care for him, you wouldn't risk it. And if you care about yourself, you'd see that it's too much trouble and pain future-wise. Sorry if this is harsh but I have to be honest with you. Have a nice day.
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hey yes there is a big age difference.
love kim
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Umm.. yes... it is wrong... the guy is 8 years older. Thats twice over the minimum age for being a minor. So basically it's wrong /and/ illegal.
♥EJ(ST)
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its illegal but age shouldnt matter its the person that counts my grandmother is 11 years older then my grandfather and he would die without her my motto on this subject is "its the who the person is not hteir color of age that counts." good luk i hope your parents know ur datn him if nit they can put him in jail
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