okay i think i may like a guy...the bad thing is he is a freshman and im a junior i know i said this to my self a thousand of times that i would never date a freshman but he is really nice, sweet, cute and all of the above things that guys could be...i mean what should i do...im really confuzed on this one can any one help me...
completelyincomplete answered Thursday January 27 2005, 8:53 pm: I can relate. I like a guy who's a year and half younger than me, but he's ever more mature than me. Here are some suggestions:
1) Follow your heart, and if this person can enrich your life, don't miss out on the opportunity.
2) Find a new love (blah!)
3) Put yourself in his shoes. What do you think he'd do if he was you?
laffintaffy359 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 3:34 pm: If you really like him and he really likes you, then I'd say go for it! Besides, when you really think about, it's only about 2-3 years age difference, which can be a lot in high school but it's not actaully that much. Even if some people like make fun of you for it or sumthin, you can get past that because if you love someone, that kinda stuff doesn't matter:) hope it goes well!
SaRaH:) [ laffintaffy359's advice column | Ask laffintaffy359 A Question ]
marleychik answered Thursday January 27 2005, 11:42 am: hey babe... dont worry about it!! my botfriend is a junoir and i am a freshman and we really love eachother. i cant think of anybody i would be happier with... if he makes you happy and you want to be around him then go for it hun!! besides... the older we get the less age seems to matter... dont miss out on a great guy because of insecurities about age... and if your worried about other ppl giving you shit about it... fuck 'em... if they are truly friends they will be happy that you are happy... [ marleychik's advice column | Ask marleychik A Question ]
martita answered Thursday January 27 2005, 11:35 am: In the big picture, the age difference over time is not that big of a deal, unless you're concerned with what OTHERS think. Follow your heart, and if this person can enrich your life, don't miss out on the opportunity.......
Good luck!! Martita [ martita's advice column | Ask martita A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Thursday January 27 2005, 11:34 am: well if your really interested in him then go for it. you'll never know until you do and who cares if you said you would never date a freshmen. if he has all the qualities that you look for in a guy then GO FOR IT!!! just approach him and flirt with him and maybe even tell him how you feel get comfortable with and get to know him.
NEVERLETG00 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 11:18 am: what i can say, is that when i was a freshman a junior asked me out and weve been together ever since, over a year now. so why wont you date a freshman? does it look bad or something? do you care that much about if someone said something about you and him being together? he seems like a great guy, and you even say hes nice sweet and cute and all.. so why wont you date him? huh? go on, go out with him =) xox [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
BeautifulMadness answered Thursday January 27 2005, 10:14 am: OK, first you've got to ask yourself WHY you won't ever date a freshman...then ask yourself if that is worth losing this guy over. Age means nothing where love is concerned :) Don't let the chance to love someone pass you by! Ask him out - what do you have to lose?
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
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