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What Should i say?
So yesterday this girl and i were standing and talking and lunch and she sees the guy I like walking over with his friend, so she runs over and starts asking him why he randomly danced with another girl right after he had stopped dancing with me and had told me he wanted to find his friends. I hadn't wanted her to mention anything because it did bother me but i knew that he probably didn't like me but i didn't want to make a big deal out of it. So after she talked to him she came over and she's like yea sorry he likes the other girl he danced with. Now i am afraid that he thinks that I told her to go over and ask him stuff about the dance, when I didn't. His friend says that he is really mad now, and i don't know if its at me or my friend or what. I just wanna be his friend now, even if he doesn't like me. What should i do? it also seems like he is avoding me but i don't really know. -Sorry this is long..
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First, I love detailed questions. It gives a lot more to work with. Here's what I'd do:
1) Confront him verbally and tell him the truth... that your friend was on high pills and just got out of the looney bin.(J.K.)
2) Send him a letter so you don't have to embarrass yourself.
3) Have your friend confront him.
4) Confront his friend
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Take a deep breath and relax a bit, look over the situation carefully. Your friend was a bit concerned and I could understand her doing that, though in truth she really shouldn't of. If he seems to be avoiding you, let him cool off a bit and see if he gets better, if not I would suggest trying to talk to him about it. If he figured out you like him and doesn't like that and can't accept it, your a little stuck, though a true friend should be able to deal with it. I just really hope things will work out for you.
- Kai -
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