ok, the other night, I stayed the night with my best guy friend. We have been flirting and hugging and things like that with no problem. But then we were laying together and we were doing a little rubbing and touching on eachother and then I started feeling weird like I...or we did something wrong?? I dont know why either....does any one know why that might be?
TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 4:31 am: Well, if I spent the night with a guy, I'd feel grossed out and weird because first of all, young girls should not be spending the night with boys unless they have a baby with them. and its because it was your GUY friend, the stuff you and him did is something a boyfriend and girlfriend do, you guys should have at least hooked up, what if he was doing it just to "get some?" you never kno, he may be your friend, but you just never know. But, you should try talking to him about it.
Sparky answered Monday February 14 2005, 2:31 am: You didn't do anything wrong unless you say it was wrong. The weirdness is from the fact that he is your best guy friend and it sounds like you haven't done anything like that before so it is new to you and the whole feeling makes you think about it and you are trying to figure out what those feelings are. Don't let it stress you out though. Let things kinda settle and then see how you feel about it in a few days a and then you will be able to understand a little more why u felt weird and what you are going to do now. And if all else fails and you are willing and want to know how he feels about it you can talk to him, but i would use that as a last resort cause that can make things akward. [ Sparky's advice column | Ask Sparky A Question ]
CuTeBlOnDeXo answered Monday February 14 2005, 1:44 am: Well this probably means that you arent ready to go any further with him and you should date him a while untill you are completly comfortable moving further with him. Hope I Helped. [ CuTeBlOnDeXo's advice column | Ask CuTeBlOnDeXo A Question ]
_annessa_ answered Sunday February 13 2005, 10:21 pm: well.. mabye you see him as more as a brother than someone that you would be romanticly touching each other. There was nothing wrong with touching each otther unless you did more than that.
so stop feeling weird
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sPicYx0hoTt answered Sunday February 13 2005, 6:14 pm: Well if you've never done anything like that before, thats might be why you felt a little weird, oh maybe because you like him and you'd rather do things better with him knowing you like him. Hope i helped<3 [ sPicYx0hoTt's advice column | Ask sPicYx0hoTt A Question ]
hopelessnlove answered Sunday February 13 2005, 5:36 pm: prolly cuz yall have just been freinds, so moving onto the next steps always a lil awq-werd! But iono exactly the feeling ur talking about...maybe you were jsut horny..tight shit:)
-goodluck wit that [ hopelessnlove's advice column | Ask hopelessnlove A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Sunday February 13 2005, 2:48 pm: If it's the first time you've done it, it might feel weird. Or maybe you just like him as a friend. Try talking to him about it, and see if he felt the same way.
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
GiR_RoX_mY_SoX answered Sunday February 13 2005, 2:47 pm: You might feel wierd because he is your best friend and you doing more than being friends and it feels wierd that your doin new things too but if you like this guy keep doing w/e and you wont feel as weird any more.
*K@K* [ GiR_RoX_mY_SoX's advice column | Ask GiR_RoX_mY_SoX A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday February 13 2005, 1:33 pm: It's probably because you though you'd just be best friends with this guy and nothing more. But feelings change and it looks like you both have some feelings for eachother, feelings that are more then friends. I don't think you did something wrong at all. You just wanted to see what it was like. Maybe you like him, that could be the reason you're feeling a little weird about it.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
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