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My dad
i dont live with my dad.my dad is mad at me.I dont want anything to do with him anymore. his friend tim from highschool is his best friend. and he is afraid to stick up 4 me. heres the story.... tims daughter (chelsey) and i have known eachother for 12 years.. just recently, we got in a BAD HUGE FIGHT. bad language was involved. and i got blamed for everything that we both said. and i told my dad its not fair that i have to get punished 4 somehting we both did. so he said he was gonna do something to me. so i refused to go with him. and my mom is stickin up 4 me.she is the only one i have. and like 3 days ago i got a call from my dad. he was tellin me i got grounded and i didnt. he told me to stay off the internet. he also asked y i said i hated chelsey and didnt want to be her friend any more. and i said i hate chelsey cuz the things she does to me. and i also told him i didnt want anything to do with him and he got mad at me and called me names. he also said im never welcome in his house anymore. he told me he would get me someday and hurt my mom.. what should i do? i have no clue. i dont want anyhting to do with my dad he gets into trouble with the law and i dont want anything to do with that or him. i think he hates me and i dont trust him anymore.. what should i do? this girl chelsey has also been tryin to be my friend but i dont want to be friends with her. she is also telling everyone she hates me and all her other friends filled my hole. now i hate her. im so confused and my dad makes my life miserable!!! help me please!
~Confused~
13,female
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you should tell your mom what he said. it`s illegal to threaten someone like that. tell your mom that you don`t feel safe with him. are your parents divorced or separated? maybe he`s mad at your mom about something and he`s taking it out on you because you are an easier target as you are younger. your mom will be able to help you and will in any way she can, i`m sure.
hope it works out
-xOx-elle
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wow this is serious...i kno you said you dont want anything to do with the law but if you dont want anything to happen to your mom you have to tell someone with higher athority about how your dad said that...what he said to you was a total threat! something needs to be done about this a.s.a.p.!! and if this girl chelsey has only messed up that once she deserves a second chance! i got in a fite with my best friend last summer and there was bad language involved too and she showed her mom the conversation and i got in trouble too but we became friends again and i love her ((like friends))...just try to remember all the fun times you and chelsey had together! but if it isnt the first time you got into a serious fite then you need to completly cut her out of your life...especially at a time like this! xox Emily ((p.s get help soon!)) {rate me}
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Well, one, your father shouldn't be threatning your family.
You could get him into serious trouble for saying something like he did. If you don't want to see him, that's fine. But don't forget that he IS your father, and that he does have rights to see you..maybe? Unless your mom has FULL custodiy your dad can do something, he can go the courts and say that your mom is not giving him time with you...ect. He can lie. If he's making threats like that, I would definatly do something about it. As for your friend Chelsea, how is she getting off so freely about everything that went on? She needs to fess up to her wrong doings too. Someone should also tell your father that FRIENDS FIGHT, the best thing he could have done is just stay out of it. But @ the same time.. you say you hate her, 12 years is A LONG TIME, do you really want to let it all go on this one fight? If you do, I'm sure there's a good reason, but try to look past all the hate you have for her and try and remember why you were friends with her for 12 years. If you can't think of a good reason, then it's probably best ya'll don't talk.
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Gosh..thats sad.Your dad seems like a jerk..no offense.Forget him..he said he's gonna get you somedaya and hurt your mom? thats like a threat.you could tell the police cuz thats seriuos stuff!I hope everything works out ok..GOOD LUCK!!
*much love*
*~tasha~* {plz rate}
P.S...w/ chelseay..forget her..you don't need a friend like that.Tell her "you stay away from me and i'll stay away from you" i think she'll respect that...GOOD LUCK!
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