HeYy!! I uMm..>Im JuSt HeRe ToO hElP kiDSs lYk MySeLf WiTh PrObLeMsS!! uM..iF yOu DoNt WaNt YoUr QuEsTiOn pOsTeD jUsT e-MaiL mEe.. XoLePetitoX@aol.com !!!! SeRiOuSly.. FeEl FrEe To AsK nE tYpE oF qUeStiOn.. YoU dOnT hAvE tOo LeAvE yOuR nAmE!!!
BY THE WAY THATS ME ON THE RIGHT!! (with one of my closest friends..michelle!!)
E-mail: XoLePetitoX@aol.com
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Member Since: July 25, 2004
Answers: 19
Last Update: December 8, 2004
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Alright well I'm rather skinny..I'm 5'1" and and I weigh about 90 lbs...I'm 14 years old. Well I have like really skinny thighs and I wish they were bigger. It's so hard finding pants that are tight around the leg and it makes me so mad. I always find pants that are tight on my butt because my butt is kinda big and it doesn't fit well with my skinny legs. Does anyone know what I should do to make my legs bigger or what pants I should buy. Most likely I'd like to know about making my thighs bigger. Thanks. (link)
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Hey..omg i have the same problem!!!! 14/f.. EXACTLY 5'1...and 87 1/2 pounds! LOL!! umh..just try whut i do.. i have skinny legs too!! ummh... usually l.e.i. pants are like a lot lot skinnier fit for me.. they are like the only pants that fit me well..very well.. try that! nd please im me sometime!! from whut i can see so far...were a lot alike!! SsO x qUrLii ...
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hey angie! well, i really need help, okay, im in love with my best friend! we dated for a couple days and he realized that he didnt want a girlfriend, i dont want a boyfriend either, but at the same time i really do like him! hes ALWAYS there for me, hes funny, and we do everything together...what do i do?!
Signed...
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why dont you try telling the guy you like how much you like him.. how much you care about him.. maybe even tho he said he doesnt want a girlfriend..maybe you guys will end up hooking up, you no? like just tell him how you feel, and, go from there. everything happens for a reason.
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hey angie..whut do you do when the advice coloumist has a problem herself... (link)
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ok well theres this new girl in our school and me and my best friend have known her sence we were in third grade and now we're in 7th and like shes a really big flirt and shes really annoying and like everyone talks about her and pretends to like her..and she flirts with everyone! like my boyfriend plays football..and everyday he has practice right after school cept on Fridays and like she'll walk home with him and shes been over his house and stuff and I'm afraid she is like gonna try to do something with him..like I've talked to her about it and stuff and I trust my boyfriend..(-she has a boyfriend to and I dont think he would like her over my boyfriends house-)am I just paronode or should I worry about it..please help! (link)
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Well yeah..you definetly have got some situation there!! What exactly did she say when you talked to her about it..? When she "flirts" with you boyfriend..are you sure thats whut she's actually doing?? Maybe she just likes him..as a friend? Well..you've already talked to HER about it...try talking to HIM...your b/f...see what he has to say.
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Angie hay ummh i have a problem ~
okay listen i really like this kidd how the hell do i tell him???
CG
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heyy!! lol i thinkk i might know who this is..
but ne way, yeah!! if u think that u like him that much, and you've liked him for a while, definetly tell him! he probly already knows, and he might like you, too!! chances are, he's probably too nervous to make the first move. again, if you really like him, and think u have a good chance, just go for it!! ask him who he likes.. then, kind of inch the conversation onto who YOU like..have him guess, and give him veryyy obvious hints...if for some reason he doesnt gett it..just straight up tell him!! but thats a really good way of starting...
please im me some time! .. tell me if/how i helped u!! i really hope i did!!!! SsO x qUrLii
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Hi, my name is colleen and i just transfered from normady to parma, my first day is this monday. I'm really afraid to go bc i have no friends. What should i do? (link)
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...first of all parma high school started on a tuesday lol..and..if you want my advice..
people at parma are pretty friendly!! you'll meet/make new friends probly the first day!!
just be yourself, trust me, there's tons of kids in that school, im sure you'll find yourself a handfull of people to hang with!!
dont be nervous..you only got one life..live it up!! you'll do fine.
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okay..angie i have known u fer a rele long time now, and i kno u kan help!! okay, i havent been eating fer the past two days just drinking water. I have sorta starved myself a few weeks ago, and i have noticed that within one month i have lost 4 pounds..i wuz at 94 now im at 90. some of my friends kno about it and they tell me that they care about me and they dont want anything bad to happen but i just kant stop! i thro up almost everything i eat! any ideas how i kan stop!? (link)
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wow..yes.. starving yourself is a definte problem. is there a reason your so self-concious about they way you look?? 90 pounds is very dangerous. VERY dangerous. im only 85...and people come up to me asking me why i dont eat. i do!! i just cant help it..i would do any thing to weigh at least 94 pounds. your very close to my weight, and..i dont no who you are...but im guessing your about my age and thats very serious to weigh that less. if you starve yourself, your body will just take in extra or ANYTHING that you consume and..it will take that in as fat. so starving yourself is just going to make your body react in a sort of way where you'll just gain pounds. trust me, im not making this up. i've read about it....
throwing up is very dangerous too. that means that your not only not getting the energy that you need...but your also not getting any nutrients or any vitamins whatsoever in your body.
now sense you've already started...and it seems as if your used to this already..its going to be very hard to stop. I honestly think that even tho it may be tough, you really do need to go to a doctor, or tell your parents...someone that can do something about this...this isnt good... there are different ways that you can lose weight if your worried about that...
1)excerising. the main thing. crunches, running, jogging, push ups..ect.
2)eat not-fattening foods. yogart, salads, health bars, ect.
3)a professional diet. look into one.
i realllyyy hope i helped, i wish you all the best of luck...but please find some help. e-mail me any time to tell me how/if i helped you...rate me if you can too. thanks for asking, your questions are welcome any time!!!
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my hamster just died...and on other thought i wanna be held by you tonite help me? (link)
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im so sorry about your hamster..two of my pets died in the same year. even tho the're dead..i still pray for them both. just think about the good times you had with your hamster..?? again, im really sorry..i really dont know what else to say. get another that really remindes you of the other one that died.
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as far as holding you?? lol um...yeah.
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dear angie,
i have been having problems with one of my best friends. she just seems to spend WAY to much time with her boyfriend, and she has this new friend named Josie that i totally dont like, i mean me and josie were really good friends, but now it seems like she hates me. and whenever i talk to my best friend, the conversation is ALWAYS about her boyfriend, and what he says, and its really getting annoying, ive tried to tell her this before, but she takes it the wrong way. This school year is going to be so much more different because all her freshman friends are now coming to the highschool...and shes been ignoring me, and a couple of my other friends...just i can't even have a conversation with her anymore, especially now that her boyfriend is coming to our school, i feel so selfish, and sometimes i just get so annoyed that i want them to break up....what should i do?
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wow. you sound exactly like me. yeah, its really hard just to look over, and see your bestfriend with..HIM. lets see..you've tried talking to him..and she takes it..the wrong...way. hm...this is tuff.
i say that you really take your bestfriend and really..have a deep, thoughtfull conversation with her, about how you feel like your losing her as a friend, which is what seems to be concering you...
now about josie. i know you dont like her, but try...just try to get along with her. maybe she really doesnt hate you? maybe after a while try talking to her, too. im sure that she realizes how you and your best friend were really close. maybe try inviting josie along, with you and your bestfriend. i know you dont like josie, but..at least you'll be spending some time with your bestfriend.
now...about her boyfriend. yeah, i had a friend that was very, VERY caught up with her boyfriend, so i definetly know how you feel. he really seems to be the light of her life right now, and even though it gets awfully annoying to hear about him, thats oviously all she wants to talk about inthe period of time. i say, so you and your bestfriend can even hold a little bit of a conversation, maybe just try, or even pretend (lol) that your interested in hearing about this kid. ask questions, and..maybe..after she answers them, and getts to talk about just about all there IS to say about him...just maybe she'll find something new to talk about. i really hope i helped!!! if you have ANY more questions..dont be affraid to ask another!! i love helping people...please PLEASE e-mail me..telling if/how i helped you..!! YOUR OPINION REALLY COUNTS!!!
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okay you see i have been peeing my pants since i was 3 and now im in the 10 grade and still pee my pants my docotor says nothings wrong with me but i pee my pants everyday i don't even feel it HELP!! ive tried wearing diapers to school but everyone just makes fun of me more thinking i was a bigger ass seriously what should i do!!??????? (link)
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um..i guess tell your doctor how much this bothers you..?? and maybe he'll help??
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Ok, I don't actually have a question! But, I wanted to comment on all the wonderful advice being given. I know "lil AnGiE" from coaching her and can say that she is very caring, supportive and smart. If you need advice, she is a great resource. Keep it up AnGiE~ you're doing a great job! ;) (link)
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aww thanks!!!
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hey my name is mel and at skool im known as the sexy gurl or the gurl who flirts wif all the guys or the gurl who gives blow jobs and more....everyone thinks that im gonna sleep wif them and they all think im a Dumb Blonde even though im a brunette all the guys want to date me only cuz im "sexy" and all the chicks hate me cuz of that i dont no how to change it i mean i have tried but it seems lyk i have to get plastic surgery or sumtin to stop them from comeing to me! please help!
thanks lots ~mel (link)
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Dear "mel",
well.. if i were you i would seriously talk to the girls, tell them that just because people say something.. doesnt mean that its true!! they really need to stop judging you.. that goes for the girls and the guys. i mean..flirting is a natural thing.. im sure all the other jelous girls flirt too!! there oviously crotch heads that need to get a life! maybe what you need to do, mel..is to show not only the girls but the guys, that there is a different part of you thats not like what they see.. you really sound like the type of person that really cares about what others think..and thats fine, just dont gett to carried away. everyone is beautiful, and im sure that you could show them your other side!! but hey.. i really hope i helped.. please e-mail me telin me how or if i helped you at all.. xolepetitox@aol.com PLEASE...YOUR OPINION REALLY COUNTS!!!!
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if you have like one meal and a gadorade or something a day after a month or two is that considered an eating disorder like anorexia? also if you do that does anyone no about how much weight will b lost after a month? (link)
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no..thats not anorexia. anorexia is an eating disorder that consists of strictly eating nothing. and i mean NOTHING. now it sounds like you might be a little self-concsious about your weight..and let me tell you.. not eating any thing or throwing up is definetly NOT the anser to losing weight.. um.. your body will only react by trying to slow down your metabolism, and you'll gain more, actually. now right now your not eating very much, which is ok. just dont start eating less and less, or even not eating any thing at all. now THATS when you have a severe case of anorexia. you dont want to do that!! trust me!! if your worried about losing weight just excersise,eat low fat yogurts,slim fast.. and DONT FORGET THE EXCERSISE PART!!! thats..very important! i dont no your metabolism structure, so no.. im sorry i dont no how much weight would be lost in a month. please... please.. im me or e-mail me at xolepetitox@aol.com ... i will help you with any other sort of problem you have!! i reallyy hope i helped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE E-MAIL ME SOME TIME!!!!!!!!!!!
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Can someone give me a site with cute quotes that i can put in my profile?Thanks-Christina (link)
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www.firehotquotes.com
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Hello. My name's Amanda and I'm 15 and from New York. I've loved the spotlight since I was a very little girl and I can't think of a time when I wasn't entertaining someone. My main interests are dancing and acting but I also do a lot of singing and modeling too. I remember being a little girl and singing and dancing around the house and I'm always getting complimented on my acting and modeling skills, haha. Of course I don't want to sound like I'm bragging but it's just the truth and I want you to know the truth before you go and give me advice. Anyways, I've been taking dance classes since I was about 5 or so and when I was in 3rd grade I started singing in a children's choir along with getting vocal training. I sung in the choir untill I was 13 and now I've moved on to other things. I'm searching for an agent right now and I've begun taking acting classes. The reason I'm writing here is because I need advice on my parents. They don't seem to support me as much as they used to. I mean, they're awesome parents but they think I should be more focused on becoming a lawyer or doctor(which I have no interest in) then becoming an entertainer or someone in the entertainment industry. I don't understand why they're acting so cold lately towards my dreams. I know that it takes a lot of work to become something but I'm willing to work hard for it and I just wished they had my back. Also, my friends seem to think that my vocal and acting training and stuff is silly and they don't see why I go on auditions and stuff. It really hurts when they mock me for what I do...I know they don't mean to hurt me but I don't like it at all. Most of my friends are really big jocks and so am I but I'm a very verstile(sp?) person and I like other things too and they can't seem to understand that. Anyone have any advice? I'd love someone to talk with about this! Thanks for reading, Amanda (link)
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wow..you sound..exactly like me. i sing, dance, and act.. mostly singing tho. i no EXACTLY what you are talking about!!! and right, it does take a lot of work, but.. my parents are the same way about it.. maybe its not that they dont support you, they just think that you should have a backup..thats what my parents are like. cuz im mean..think about it: not everyone can just walk right up on stage and become jessica simpson. and if your like me.. and like it says in your question..if your wiling to work hard and really stick to it, you should do fine. but like i said..not everyone who has amazing talent gets somewhere with it... so keep on trying, reach for the stars..but also and ALWAYS have a backup job. i really hope the best for you.. please e-mail me back telling me how/if i helped you.. xolepetitox@aol.com thank you so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I used to always want to be 'cool', 'hot' 'ghetto'
junk like that. Now I am a 12 yr old punk girl, and I changed in less than a month. I started having home problems, and I started listening to rock. I cut my ankles, and make little pictures on my ankles with a knife. I tell myself it's just play, but somtimes I dont know. Really and truly sometimes I scare myself, I like being strange and literly insane. Is that a problem...
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Wow..um..hurting yourself is definetly a problem. No, your not insane. you just need some help..and thats fine. belive it or not there's a lot of girls who have a TON of home problems. like myself!! but yeah.. hurting yourself definetly is not a solution, nor is it "cool" "hot" or "ghetto"..at all. my sugestion is to go to a phycologist, or therapist, to talk about some of your problems. i really hope i helped, and i wish you all the best of luck..please e-mail me back telling me if i helped you... PLEASE. xolepetitox@aol.com
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is it possible to get a firmer stomach in a week? (link)
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yes..but you might want to give it two weeks. depending on your matabolism. the best advice i cant give you is to just to TONS of sit ups, crunthes, or any thing else that you can feel that works your stomach muscles!! PLEASE e-mail me back telling me if i helped you or not. please! XolepetitoX@aol.com
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I want to be a singer.. how do I get like a person to MAKE me one!? PLease answer -andrea- (link)
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ok.. this is a good one for me..i sing too!! but here's the thing.. you cant just decide to be a singer and just well.. you no.. become brittany spears. its a really hard job, and.. it takes a lot of work!! what i do is try to get any type of gig you can.. wether its singing the national antheme for your school, or just opening up a sort of talent show. join the drama club in your school if they have one, and just hope that someone hears your awesome voice!! also sit down with your parents, and look in the newspapper. there's tons of adds looking for voice entertainment!! you also might want to look into some pagents!! please PLEASE e-mail me back telling me if/how i helped you!! Xolepetitox@aol.com hope i helped!!!!
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i was overweight for a long time and now i am only 8 pounds away from my goal weight. but these last few pounds just WONT COME OFF!!! >__< what should i do? (link)
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excersise, excersise, excersise..!!!! forget about starving yourself, or throwing up. that will only make you gain weight b/c anything.. absulutly ANTHING you eat..your body will take in and it will cause you to gain more. so i would just say eat nothing but salads, low-fat yogurt... (NO MEAT), and you might want to try slim fast.. but definetly excersise!!!!!!!! please please PLEASE im me back at XolepetitoX@aol.com to tell me how my anser worked for you!! thanks so much.. glad to help!!
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