ok well theres this new girl in our school and me and my best friend have known her sence we were in third grade and now we're in 7th and like shes a really big flirt and shes really annoying and like everyone talks about her and pretends to like her..and she flirts with everyone! like my boyfriend plays football..and everyday he has practice right after school cept on Fridays and like she'll walk home with him and shes been over his house and stuff and I'm afraid she is like gonna try to do something with him..like I've talked to her about it and stuff and I trust my boyfriend..(-she has a boyfriend to and I dont think he would like her over my boyfriends house-)am I just paronode or should I worry about it..please help!
Additional info, added Saturday October 9 2004, 12:22 pm: she only walks home with him on Fridays..and I think shes only gone to his house once or twice..and its not just my boyfriend she flirts with its everyones..!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? ~*Annie*~ answered Saturday October 9 2004, 7:41 pm: No, you are not being paranoid. Your boyfriend is in a commitment with you, and if he was really doing something with that lil' slut, he would be avoiding you or talking nonstop about her, or simply dump you. Boys who are worth your time usually aren't into girls who sound that skanky. Just walk up to that girl and be like "Hey, back off. (Name of B/F) is MY boyfriend, and NOT yours. So stop trying to flirt with him, he's not interested." No need to be polite, since she's already being extremely bitchy. Good luck with all you do :) [ ~*Annie*~'s advice column | Ask ~*Annie*~ A Question ]
gUeSsHoO278 answered Saturday October 9 2004, 1:05 pm: Well, no matter how old you are, what school you go to, where you live, you will ALWAYS come across girls that will make moves on your boyfriend. The thing is, you have to decide if you really think she's a threat to your relationship, now if your boyfriend is loyal n all, then you shouldn't worry and don't be paranoid. You should talk to your bf and let him know even though you trust him, you know she has a bad reputation, and he will most likely understand your view. [ gUeSsHoO278's advice column | Ask gUeSsHoO278 A Question ]
xokaylanicoleox answered Saturday October 9 2004, 12:31 pm: well i think you do have a reason to be paranoid bc i probably would be too but trust your bf ... you dont have to trust her bc she is who she is but if your bf didnt like you and wanted to do stuff with other girls then he wouldnt be with you. so talk to him about all of that and see what happens in the end. try to think positive ... he is yours ... not hers. i hope i helped! -kayla [ xokaylanicoleox's advice column | Ask xokaylanicoleox A Question ]
lil_AnGiE answered Saturday October 9 2004, 12:19 pm: Well yeah..you definetly have got some situation there!! What exactly did she say when you talked to her about it..? When she "flirts" with you boyfriend..are you sure thats whut she's actually doing?? Maybe she just likes him..as a friend? Well..you've already talked to HER about it...try talking to HIM...your b/f...see what he has to say.
MissEmmyBoo answered Saturday October 9 2004, 12:16 pm: Well I would talk to my boyfriend about it. Tell him you don't like that she walks home with him and goes over to his house all the time. To me it seems like this girl may have a crush on your boyfriend. So talk to her too. And if all else fails I would totally tell her boyfriend what's going on! Hope I helped!
-Emmy- [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
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