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I cant figure out what I am doing wrong....Im 17/female, 5'8", nice body, tan, Im not ugly (this is just f.y.i) I love sports, I consider myself to have a great personality and I dont act fake or anything. The thing is when Im in school guys never seem to notice me. What should I do or what am I doing wrong?
Additional info, added Sunday July 25 2004, 8:41 pm: Im not trying to be all into myself Im just giving you some backround info. Im not saying im the hottest thing around so please dont get that impression.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PympintheATL answered Monday July 26 2004, 12:04 am: I am 13, so my opinion my sound different. You sound very attractive. I am sort of the same way. I have been known to be hot, sexy, all that; out of school. At school there is maybe one or two girls that like me, but not the ones I like. Out of school, I am called a "playa" or "pimp" because I am always with ladies. What I have figured is that it is my personality. Out of school I'm a fly, cool dude. In school I try to do it but I can't because of the people around me. First try acting like you do out of school. What I have done is just look outside of school for ladies, or men in your case. Keep trying to get noticed. Dont't change because of a guy, be yourself. If you have any more questions, go to my column and get my screen name. Peace up, a-town down. [ PympintheATL's advice column | Ask PympintheATL A Question ]
iwasherexox answered Sunday July 25 2004, 11:15 pm: Hey,
You seem like a really nice person, a lot like my sister! It took a while for her to find nice guys and now she has a steady boyfriend of 2 years. What she did and I think you should do is aim for guys as friends. They`ll introduce you to other guys at parties and school and everything! I`m sure you`ll find someone who shares the same interests as you as well. You could try talking to some guys in your the same elective class as you, if you have a couple of those. Cause you already have similar interests and stuff!
Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:34 pm: You're not doing anything wrong. Guys are generally stupid (no offense, guys) and never realize a good thing when they see it.
I was pretty and all that in tenth grade, but no guys approached me in a school of over 2000 kids.
One guy liked me this past year, and we're still dating. *Shrug*
You just have to find a guy who likes you. Don't go looking for them - chances are you won't find the one you're looking for. He might pop up somewhere unexpected.
(I found mine in math class...Lol)
Just be patient. You don't have to have guys flocking after you.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Hello180 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:33 pm: You should probably try to be more flirty. You describe yourself as almost too perfect, don't start getting an attitude and talking down to people though. Guys will notice you, if you see a hot one and your all up on him, he will respond, probably pretty good, but you might find out that your not as good looking as you think you are. [ Hello180's advice column | Ask Hello180 A Question ]
ABull answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:31 pm: guys are probably intimidadted by a pretty girl they will get over it. dont worry. just have fun and dont be shy. hope i could help!! and i know i am a girl but i really hope that the advice helped at all!! [ ABull's advice column | Ask ABull A Question ]
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