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There is this guy...
There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other.
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Well if your uncomfortable meeting him by yourself, just do it at a public place like the mall and go with a friend that shuold really lighten things up
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Do not meet him. Thats very unsafe. Most people make up ages, gender and where they live. Who knows he might be a 40 yr old male rapest. You NEVER KNOW
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ok well u can never be sure that he is really who he says he is. i personally don't think it's a good idea. never meet anyone online in person.
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i dont think its safe to go out and meet sum1 that u met on the internet. i saw this episode of degrassi [teen show] and the girl is just like you, met a guy on the internet and he acted like he was her age but was really like 15 yrs older. he tried to get her on the bed and almost raped her but she ran into the bathroom and locked the door. her friends went to go get her parents, and they went to the hotel they were at, and then the cops came to arrest him. do u want to get raped or killed? i dont think so. dont take that risk. how can you really trust that person? do what you want, but i dont think its safe. if you do decide to go, make sure you take a friend. -PA
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Hi,
I have a friend that had the same problem. The truth is, as much as you think you know and love this guy, it is not safe. My friend met this guy and he is a bully and smokes pot. He beats people up and threatens them. My advice is to just stay online buddies for a while and try and find out more about him. If he seems anxious to meet you, this could be bad. If you do decide to meet him, either bring friends if you are older, or bring your parents and have them watch at a distance in case of trouble if you are younger.
I hope everything goes alright for you.
Good luck -xox-
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wait till you are older like such as 18 or 19..-trix
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well i like a guy that i met online and we have not set a date to meet or anything and i really love talkin to this guy also
umm does this guy have a webcam if he does then u know it is really the guy u r talkin to but if he does not have a cam then do not go and meet him i have been talkin to this guy for a long time and we might set a date to meet in the future but not right now.
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if u both really like each other go ahead and meet but make sure yur in a place with lots of ppl and bring a friend hope i helped
xoxo britt
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even though you may love talking to one another,you dont kno whether or not he is a woman or a man.and even tho that sounds rele crezie n mess'd up..its true..b/c you have never cn them..so you dunno if they could be lieing to you or tellin you the truth,so no, i wouldnt meet up with him,and if you ever do,make sure it is in a public place with a lot of people around you, and that you have yer mom,dad or sumone else that you trust with you that could protect you if something bad was to happen.
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If you do meet... make sure u take a friend with you to meet him so he cant pull n e thing on you ... ya know? ALWAYS be safe...
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i don't think you should do it becuz he could prolly be giving you some pictures of his self when he is young and he could be like 20-30 years old and he could rape you so i don't think you should go becuz it could be VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY ERY VERY VERY VERY VERY (alot more VERY's) DANGORUS so i don't think you should go at all!!!!
--hope i could help--
xoxo shortlilcutie xoxo
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dO nOt gO And meEt hIm!! beCuz wUt iF hE is A phycO mAniAc!! u dOnt wAnt 2 tAke thAh riSk Of geTting kiLLed Or uBduCkdeD pLz dOnt dO iT itS sAfe nOt 2 n dOnt teLL hIm wEre u LivE Or AnythinG
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OK. well if you are worried about safty maybe you can bring a friend with you1 or you can meet somewhere, where there is alot of people then if you need help there asre alot of people there. Or u can bring a friend and so can he or something like that
hope it helps
Ashley
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You should never meet anyone you talk to online! They probably are not who they say they are. There are so many cases of rape eTc` when people met each other through chatrooms or online. It's very dangerous and could be life threatening. Just continue talking to him online if you want to keep in contact. But don't meet him in person! Be careful!
xoxo
ali
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hey..well i think you shouldn't do it..because like u said it's not safe..i dont want anybody to get huRt..but its youR decision..also..pplz lie about there lookz online..dont tRust anybody fRom a chat Room!!
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idk if i'd go, but here's wut u can do
either bring a HUGE group of friends, and like go to a public place(as in lots of ppl)
or have both of u bring ur 'rents wit u
if ur an adult, or like 17, then just go with ur friends, also if ur an adult, then go to a club, where u kno that there will be LOTS of people
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well if you want to meet him...dont go alone whatever you do!!! go with like 2 of your friends....also meet him in a publice place where there are lots of people
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i am all the way against online dating. Despite who anyone says they are you never know. You have NO proof and I wouldnt go risking my life just for some guy i THINK i know. But if you really do insist on going, bring some friends so nothing terrible can happen and tell your parents, if your still living with them. And i would say if your under 14 definetly dont do it... but best wishes
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he could be a perverted rapist
he could be a great guy
if ur a kid or a teenager, then bring a parent wit you, and then u can find out for sure
or like u can have the parent hangin around but not near u, so if sumthin happens, then the guy doesn't kno ur 'rent is there, ur rent can either call the cops, or step in
if ur an adult, then i don't really kno wut to say, does he have ur pic? if u don't have a cell, then buy 1, if u do, make sure u paid ur bill, and bring it
also make sure u have pepper spray in ur purse, or pocket or sumthin
meet in a public place like a mall, don't go to the movies or out to eat, shop, or go to a fair or sumthin like that
play it safe for the 1st few dates
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I'm not sure... he could be this old perverted rapist, and you wouldn't know until you met him. I wouldn't meet him unless ur COMPLETELY sure who he is... maybe you could like send someone to see who he really is, or like (lmao) secretly stalk him for a day and just make sure who he is b4 u really meet him.
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I dont think you should go meet him because he could be some crazy rapest or something. But if you really think u wanna meet him bring a parent or go with a group.
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If you were to do so, make sure you bring your family or a large group because he might not be who you think!!! Hope I could help!
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if you decide to meet, bring more than one person with you so you are safe
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If you do decide to meet this guy, make sure you take a friend and your parents know exactly where you are and at what time you'll be there. You always want to be on the safe side when meeting someone you dont know in person. People can always pretend to be other people so be prepared for anything! Good luck sweetie!!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!!
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if you do dont go alone! bring a friend or a family member! cause he could b dangerous! ppl online r just so crazay!! lol *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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