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E-mail: als2388@excite.com
Gender: Female
Location: Upstate NY
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: Aminem2388
Member Since: July 25, 2004
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hey this jonathan.. I wouldlike to know if a gynrcologist could tell if my girlfriend is a virgin?? how could they? if they would tell her parents?? bc she is 15.... if you aim me at babyjonathan16 or her at palmbeachgurl612.. her name is shannon... nad if you also can email me the answer asap at babyjonathan16@hotmail.com
thank you for your help,
Jonathan Farina (link)
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they cant tell if youre a virgin or not... and plus, anything that goes on at the gynecologist is confidential. it's against the law for them to give out any information. don't worry about a thing...
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Okay, this may sound really stupid, but I'm serious about asking this question. I'm a girl, I'm thirteen, weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5 foot seven. I'm so tall, and I HATE it! I wish I could stop growing! No offense to tall females, but I think that tall isn't really that flattering for me. My mom is always complimenting me on how tall I am, and I hate it so much! I don't want to be tall! She won't even let me drink coffee to stunt my growth! My doctor said that I might even grow to six feet! I don't want to be that tall! I hate my height already! I'd be happy to be 5 foot four! ARGHH please, is there anything I could do to 'appear shorter' or to stop growing?? (link)
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Im 15 and im 5'7", 115 lbs... My whole life ive been tall and i kind of always hated it too. I think theres some kind of steroid u can take to stop growing. but i dont suggest doing that. you are the way you're supposed to be.
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I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!
Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!
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Alot of teens question their sexuality (secretly, usually not outwardly) because it is a confusing time in your life and your hormones are all messed up. Girls get embarassed in front of guys, and vice versa. Its normal. It doesn't mean youre a lesbian or gay. In my opinion, you choose youre sexuality. So if you think youre a lesbian, its because you have chosen to be. But I dont think youre a lesbian. I think youre probably just confused and not sure what you're sposed to be doing in life right now. Hang in there, don't worry!! Everything will turn out okay, doll.
If you need to talk more, my AOL s/n is Aminem2388
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Hey Im 13 years old and im going into 8th grade in 3 weeks and im friends with this guy who is 12 and he wants me to give him a blow job. I think I want to but i really dont no how to go about doing it I really need some advice !!!!! (link)
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Youre 13. You're in 8th GRADE. Don't do it. Youre too young. I was in the same position with one of my guy friends, but i didnt go through with it because he was just using me. Seriously.. you could get aids, herpes, ANYTHING. And he's DEFINITELY using you. he's 12 too, gross! trust me, im alot older than you and i know the way guys are!!
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OK, me and my best guy friend went out a few months ago and he broke up with me and we went out again like 2 weeks ago n i found out he had two other girlfriends and had sex with someone else..so i broke up with him. Now, we're just friends but, we're having sex. I want the relationship to be more than just screwing around because i love him so much. But, he's a player. I don't know what to do. I mean we like each other but I don't wanna go out with him and I don't really like us just being friends with benifits. I don't know what to do. Should I stop this and just be best friends like we used to be or keep messing around with him?? -cOnFuSeD** (link)
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Chances are, if youre having sex now, things will never go back to the way they used to be. Now all he wants from you is sex. And if you continue doing it then you're just hurting yourself.
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This summer while in Canada I met a really awesome girl, however I really really really..... screwed up our relationship. I cheated on her once, guilted her into a lot of things I shouldn't have, and I lied to her so many times. It was just in the last week that I was with her that I started to straighten my act up and realize how wonderful she was. I want to say sorry so bad, but I live 1600 miles away from her and don't have a planned visit there for 2 more years, also I want to do something bigger than just write her an email and hope for the best. We are kind of friends now, we talk every now and then online, but I still feel like this is still keeping us apart. If anyone has any ideas on how to say sorry for being this horrible I'd love to hear from you. Also, flying up there just to say sorry isn't out of the picture, its about $700. I really need something big that says I'm sorry and I'm willing to do whatever it takes to have you trust me again. (link)
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I think you should fly up there. Right before you do, tell her you have a surprise for her but dont tell her what it is. keep her guessing, and then show up to see her the next day when she doesnt know!!!! then tell her you came all that way to apologize for all the things youve done, and you wanna start over again.
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i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel? (link)
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Of course you did the right thing. You'll never know how somebody feels about you until you tell them. You may have put him in a bit of an akward position since you are friends. But if he likes you back, he'll snap out of it quick and everything will be fine.
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Ok..volleyballl tryouts are almost over and the first day was really hard. Our coach yells alot and if we drop a ball without goin after or something we run or do pushups. But shes still a good coach. Well i take alot of things personally. I feel like its all my fault. also im super nervous wen i get out there and mess up. Wat should i do? HELP
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Don't worry so much. Sports should be fun, not stressful. If she yells or makes people do pushups, dont feel like its all your fault. Other people will screw up too, its no ones fault. Just have fun, do your best and try to relax.
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does anyone know anything fun to do the rest of the summer? (link)
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I've been wondering the same thing. Just go places. Do cool things like have campouts with your friends. Or see if you can stay with a friend for a few weeks at their house. Sorry, i probably wasnt very helpful but i hope i helped at least a little!
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Ok this question is for all the sexy ladies out there. Why is it that when a guy looks at a girl and makes a sound or says something about it, we get yelled at or lectured? I mean you can't tell me that you girls don't look at guys and mention something to your friends everynow amd then. I'm single and I still get yelled at for looking. So please answer. (link)
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Cause men say vulgar things when they look at women!!!! Seriously.. when girls see a hot guy in the mall, they dont scream out their opinion. they say it quietly to their friends, not the entire world. thats why you get lectured!!!!!!
Amber
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I am twenty one years old and have been married for over a year. My husband and I recently discovered that we are pregnant. Though it wasnt planned, we are both very excited and happy about it. So is everyone else... my friends, my family, even my mom. Everyone, except for my father.
When I told him the news, he was completely shocked, which I could understand. I called a few days ago to see how he's doing, and he said some very mean things that made me pretty upset. I dont understand this reaction, because he also got married and started a family at a young age.
Its been about two weeks since we broke the news to him, and he just seems to be sad and disappointed in me.
I just want my dad to accept this and to be happy for us, but at the same time I dont understand why I am so strongly seeking his approval.
Any advice is greatly appreciated. (link)
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First off, you are seeking your fathers approval because you love him and you want him to support you. That is very normal and there's nothing wrong with wanting his approval. But, at the same time, you dont need your fathers approval. Chances are, he is probably just a little scared because his little girl is starting a family of her own. He may have said some things that hurt you, but remember, these things he said may just be out of fear. He probably doesn't mean any of it. My dad freaks out whenever I bring a guy home, but he gets over it as soon as he gets to know them better. It will be the same way with your baby. Once your baby is born, your father will fall in love with having a grandchild and he will think differently. Just watch.
Hope I helped.
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my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me.. (link)
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You cant make your friend stop doing whatever she is doing. This is who she is and you have to accept it. But at the same time you should really talk to her and try to make her understand that what she is doing isnt right, and she could really end up hurt or in trouble. If youre that worried about her, talk to her parents or a trusted adult. Hope I helped.
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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant? (link)
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No, youre definitely not pregnant if you have your period. Next time make sure you wear protection, please.
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Hey I was just wondering what kind of shampoo's work the best, I wanna have a nice, straight look with not that many frizzy's if its possible.. lol thanks! (link)
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Alot of the people on here are telling you to use Pantene. DONT! My mom is a hairdresser, and pantene melts your hair after a few weeks. At first it feels really nice, but after a while your hair will get dry and break off EVERYWHERE! And then you'll have more frizz then ever.
My mom buys Back to Basics Shampoo & Conditioner, and Dove which both work GREAT! And they are great for your hair. Dont use pantene, i wouldnt want your hair to get fried!!! lol i hope i helped!
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*15, Female*
my parents want let me ride around w/ my friends that are like 16 17 18...and it makes me mad...i mean when i go to my friends house i ride around w/ them...and my mom doesn't know...and then i feel like a dork when my friends call and ask if i can go and i have to be like *my mom want let me ride w/ ppl* and it jst pisses me off! ahh!
idk...wat can i do to get my mom to let me ride w/ my friends?? (link)
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Hey. I'm 15 too. I'm not allowed to ride around with my friends in their cars either. But heres the thing. Drivers that are 16-18 havent had much experience at driving. Even if your friends are trustworthy people who don't get into trouble much, your mom is just trying to protect you. I know plenty of good people who have gotten into car accidents, and actually a girl I knew from school was in an accident with her brother in January, and died as a result of injuries. They were good kids and something bad still happened to them. I suggest that you dont ride around with your friends if your mom doesnt know, because if anything ever happened, your parents wouldnt know where to find you. Just give it some time. Eventually you will be free to do what you want to do. Hope I helped!
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i'm dieing my hair at the end of the summer and i was wondering, what are some good hair dyes that won't ruin my hair???? help!! (link)
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Herbal essences is probably good. But never use Panteine dye or shampoo because it melts your hair. ( I would know because my mom is a hairdresser.)
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Ok, My names Mike and I was wondering, I'm a very random person and will do anything to get a laugh from anyone. So. I do alot of random stupid things just to get a luagh, but sometimes the things I do make people think I'm just a retard. So, I'm wondering if anyone thinks that people like me are funny and great to have aound? And what I mean by people like me is, people with no care of what people think and will is unhibited and will act wild and crazy just for kicks. (link)
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Some people are jerks and get offended very easily by someone elses sense of humor. Just be yourself. Dont worry about what other people think of you. Personally, I enjoy being around people like you. If you wanna talk to me at any time my AIM screen name is Aminem2388
Hope I helped.
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i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu (link)
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It is never wrong to cry. You arent being selfish, and youre not a cry baby. I can see why you are sad about this.. You arent able to do the things you love to do. And its okay to cry.
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k, so let's c...i realli like this one dude... and this dude use to realli like me...but now he's all kinda not kewl and stuff, and duzn't even wanna talk to me. and i still like him a whole bunch. i don't even think of any other guy. like if sumbody asks me for a list of let's say... The top 5 guyz I like..., i couldn't even give it to them, cuz it's only him... i don't even think of any other guy. and i kno he's pretty much not worth all the hurt and stuff at all. i mean, he's alreadi broken my heart once, but i still like him just as much or maybe even more than the last time, like wud do i do??? oh yah, he still sorta gives me reason to make me think he still likes me too...
~*NINA*~ (link)
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Just give yourself some time to get over this guy. If he isnt paying attention to you and he acts like an idiot to you, he's not worth your time. You will be able to find someone else who you will like even more than you like him, and they'll be head over heals for you. Trust me.. you will find someone! Just give yourself some time. Hope I helped!
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My daughter is almost 5 and she has a hard time entertaining herself so I can get dressed for the day or do work around the house. She has a lot of toys but rarely plays with most of them and wants to either watch t.v. or follow us around. It drives me crazy and my husband too, because she comes in our room when we tell her not to. I've threatened to throw out her toys, but it does no good. When we get angry she just laughs at us. We tried closing her up in her room but she just pounds on the door and screams that she is scared. We are expecting another child and we are afraid her behaivior is going to just get worse when the baby comes. She does not behave like this for other family that watches her. Anyone got any advice? Preferably parents who can relate to this situation and have some solutions please. (link)
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Im not a parent but I can see what youre saying. First off, NEVER send your daughter to her room just because she's following you around, and its getting on your nerves. Is your daughter in school yet? I know its summer time, and there is no school even if she's in it, so why dont you look into putting her into a day camp for little kids? She would be able to socialize with kids her age and she wouldnt be so bored. I think shes just lonely. Im the same way with my mom and I'm 15. I follow her around constantly and its just because I get lonely, and I like being with my mom.
Hope I helped.
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