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i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel?
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Yea you did the right thing, you shouldn't hold in your feelings about someone because you never know they may feel the same about you. You can try talking to him again and just being like "I know we've gotten pretty close, and I started liking you a lot, and I told you that, I didn't mean to put you in a weird position or anything, if I did I'm sorry." Just say something like that. Hope that helps! Good luck!
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i think you did the right thing if you think your gonna feel that way for a really long time, if its just a fling tho that mite not have been the best thing to do. and he may need time to adjust to the idea you put in his head. it will be awkward but if your really good close hell come around just give him some space and some time. good luck.
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If he is still hangin with you he must not feel that akward. I think you did the right thing.
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Yeah you did..
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Yea u definatley did the right thing by tellin him how u feel. its good to be honest with people and if hes in an awkward position then give him time and see how he feels in a week or 2 hope i helped
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yes u did! itz good that u did that, cuz now he knowz. u shuddnt hide ur feelingz 4 him! u did tha rite thing! and maybe he is in a akward position cuz he likez u 2!! and he mite be a lil shy about it. but idk.
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yes, i believe that you did do the right thing by telling him. otherwise you would have kept your feelings inside and it would have hurt you more if you found out he didnt like you. you may not have put him in a akward position, he may be thinking about what to do, or if he likes you also.
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It was pretty brave of you to go and tell him how you feel up front, good for you for having the guts. Did you tell him because you felt the same way, or maybe because you want to start a relationship? He might have felt akward because he still thinks of you as just a friend. Give him a while for it to sink in, and don't act differently around him than you always have. You don't want to ruin a friendship because your feelings got stronger.
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yes u did the perfect thing ti is just he probly do not know he likkes u yet and he is still trying to find out wweather to love a prettty girl like u or to turn down a pretty girl like u
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Of course you did the right thing. You'll never know how somebody feels about you until you tell them. You may have put him in a bit of an akward position since you are friends. But if he likes you back, he'll snap out of it quick and everything will be fine.
<3 Amber
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hmm... well thats very strange. cuz thats the same at my church. I like this guy name Mike and this other girl liked him as well. And i would get very jealous. Well one of Mike's friends Jeff knew that i liked him and he wanted me to go out with him, so he told Mike. So mike finally knew about it and i was so embarress. but nothing changed between us. he still acted the same around me. Well then one day with our church we went to Kings Island. he asked me to go on the rides with him. I was so excited. So i went on all of them and he held my hand everytime. But still nothing happened. Then the next week the fish fry came. I worked with him at every game. Then that Saturday I found out he liked me. Then Sunday nite at Bible Study he asked me out. And we hav been together 4 a month now. See, if u kno any of his friends... and ur friends with them too. tell them how u feel. and maybe they can get something to happen with u and this mike.
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yes you deffinitely did if you didnt then you would be keeping a secret from him and it would drive you crazy wondering if he likes you or not you took the first step which was good
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First of all, you should never, EVER keep your feelings to yourself. It's not healthy to bottle things up, no matter what they are. So my answer to your question is yes. You did do the right thing by telling him how you feel. It is better to take that chance by telling him that you feel more than friendship for him than to go on wondering what could have happened.
I think you should talk to him and let him know that if he isn't comfortable with taking on a relationship that goes further than friendship, you're okay with that. I'm sure that you would rather risk him not liking you in 'that way' than risk loosing him as a friend by trying to pressure him into liking you.
I've been under similar circumstances before. I've developed feelings toward friends and I've told them, before, that my feelings were somewhat deeper than friendships usually have. Just talk to him. :) The worst thing that could happen is that he could tell you he doesn't share your feelings.
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omg this is so fReacky..muh guy fRiend's name is mike!..omg lol..and last yR..i told him how i feel! and then it was awkwaRd so0o i just staRted talking about otheR boiiz tu make him think im ova him! plz Rate!
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hey! i think u did do thr rite thing by telling him. you cant keep your feelings bottled up inside you forever...but you mite hav shocked him. give him some time to think about it all. has he ever showed any signs that he likes you too? does he flirt w. u? write back to mi page and give me some more information about his personality xbellaxobambinax69
xox Emily
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yeah! if u didnt tell him ud regret it...n at leas the knows now so theres no secrets. gl w. the whole thing
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