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Ok...
i still really love my ex ron. and he cares for me too. but yesterday my friend asked me out and i said yes because hes not good with rejection. i dont like him. hes just a really good friend.
and i dont know how to tell ron because he wants me back but he cant have me because im with someone else...
i wanted to say no but i couldnt. the pain in his eyes would kill me. but ron says he wants me back in his life badly... bu he has one thing holding him back... the fact that we go to different schools. hes a 9th grader and im an 8th grader. i'll be going to the same high school he is going to....
i love him (ron) but i have no feelins for the other guy. so what should i do about ron? forget about him and try to be happy? (link)
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If you really still have feelings for ron then tell the guy your with now the truth....if you dont like the guy your with now then you really shouldnt have said yes to him cuz your just gonna end up hurting someone but the best thing you can do is tell them both the truth and if you really love ron and he really loves you then get back with him and tell the other guy its over
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you know those short-ish black tights that all the 'emo'-ish girls wear under like skirts or whatever.. they're usually black.. do you guys know where i could get some of those?
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you could probly find them in the mall at hot topic i dont shop there but i heard that they have alot of stuff like that...hope i helped
~*~kendal~*~
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okay...i've been on my period for about 3 months now. ( i started like 3 months ago..i mean ) i've used pads b/c i was afraid to use tampons. well i tried to use a tampon the other day and it hurts to put it and i got it half way in and pushed up the aplicator but it wasnt in all the way so i pulled it out and when i did it hurt. wut should i do? is that bad?? should i see a doctor?? should it hurt, i kno it's not suppose to, is there something i can do? i rate high for good answers. someone plz give me advice!! (link)
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tampons really arent that bad...you just have to get used to them.....it only hurt coming out because it wasnt filled with blood....when its filled then when you pull it out it wont hurt at all....another reason why it could have hurt is because you had it in wrong....you dont need to see a doctor....hope i helped and if you wanna talk feel free to IM me at xoblueyedchicxo
~*~kendal~*~
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my mom won't let me get a thong...she's says im too young but she won't by one for me and i dun wanna get one behind her back...how do i convince her to let me have one? (link)
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how old r u? just tell her that the regular underwear u have isnt comfortable if she doesnt believe u then tell her every1 u know wears them and maybe she will give in sooner or later.
~*~shannon~*~
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What would you say is a good 'diet' type of deal to go on? One that might actually work and wont make me die cuz it aint healthy or w/e. And, what do you think would be a good exercise routine, as far as like things to do everyday and such. Any help, comments, w/e are appreciated. Unless you have the 'get off your butt and computer and do something' comment, i didnt ask for smart remarks! :) (link)
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There is this patch that u put on ur belly u can find out about it on the internet i will try looking up some info for u but i heard it works really good. But if u wanna do a normal diet then u should be active meaning go for walks go for jogs whatever is keeping u moving. And eat healthy like aplles oranges nothing thats has to much fat and nothing thats junk food. if u have a gym near u then maybe u could go to the gym that helps to. I hope i helped.
~*~shannon~*~
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i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel? (link)
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Yea u definatley did the right thing by tellin him how u feel. its good to be honest with people and if hes in an awkward position then give him time and see how he feels in a week or 2 hope i helped
~*~shannon~*~
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Hey everyone, I need some advice on a situation I'm in. So me and this kid went out on and off for about a year and I was madly in love with him. I had never loved a boy that much in my entire life. So after the last time we broke it off, I was obviously devistated. I turned to one of my best friends to help me through it, and for some reason she wasn't very supportive of the whole deal. A few days later the two of them were all over each other and hanging out on a regular basis. It killed me to see them together. So I pulled my friend aside and had a long talk with her about it. She promised me on our friendship that she would never ever go out with him, because she knew how much I loved him. I was so relieved, but not convinced. By the end of that month they were going out. I was rippin mad at my so-called "friend" that I wouldn't talk to her or look at her for days. We finally talked about it and she apologized, but it didn't change my feelings. Now, about 2 months later, they have broken up, but I still have so much hate for her. I consider a friend someone who I can trust, and I have lost all of mine for her. I don't even feel the need to talk to her anymore ever again because of what she did to me. Am I overreacting? I'm not gonna lie about how I feel, but I don't think I should be friends with a lying bitch. Should I let this ruin our friendship? Or was it never even there ..thankss (link)
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Im sorry that ur friend did that to u. U arent overreacting cuz ur friend shouldnt have done a thing like that to u. If she liked him she could have told u to begin with instead of lie to u. If u still wanna be friends with her then go ahead and be friends with her but if u think she would do somethin like that again then i wouldnt be friends with her bcuz u cant trust her.
~*~shannon~*~
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My friend is a suicidal massicist. She cuts her wrists. She was molested when she was younger. She also does drugs and gets drunk a lot and likes it. Her mom is suicidal and her dad is a pot head. She went to a therapist before but stopped because he was annoying and cost too much. I think her life is taking a large turn down into a huge pile of shit, but I don't know how to help her. She is insecure, clingy but outspoken and is willing to fight anyone who makes fun of her, and that is admirable. She is also bisexual which has caused other probs. Can I do anything?
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If u really wanna help ur friend try talkin to her and b there for her all the time even if she doesnt want u there. U should probly tell someone so she can get help b4 she goes to far and hurts herself even more then she is now.
hope i helped
~*~shannon~*~
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
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For some girls its a turn off but for others its a turn on.
~*~shannon~*~
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Hey, I REAALLLLYYYY need help! I'm 15/f and I've had the summer to decide between School activities OR dance company. I'm been doing jazz dance since I was 5. I did track last year and I loved it also. I really cant decide, and i have to figure it out QUICK because I have to sign up for something... these are the good and bad things I can think of for both of them:
DANCE: ive been doing it so long, I love it, performing company is AMAZING, they get to travel for competitions, it would take A LOT of dedication since i'm behind, theres no real garuntee I would get in (but theres a good chance), I would have to be dancing a minimum of 6 hours a week, even when I wanna quit id hafta put on a smile and deal
SCHOOL ACTIVITIES: i'd be doing track waterpolo eco club and dragon boat, id be getting really involved in school, lots of pics in yearbook, more chances for friends, ive never done waterpolo eco club OR dragon boat before so theres no garuntee i'd like it, i dont like my feet, I might not be good since I dont have any experience, when I did track I made a lot more friendships
I cant do both because there isnt enough time. My school also doesnt have a real dance team, it's like a drill type team and Im not into that.
PLEASE HELP ME! TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK I SHOULD DO! IF YOU HAVE ANY IMPUT ON POSITIVE AND NEGITIVE ASPECTS OF ONE THEN SAY IT!! I NEED HELP
thanks for reading!!
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If i were u i would just choose what i like the most between school activities or dance. i like to dance and im on the dance team at my school but i also did track and it was really hard to do both for me to. But u should just choose what u like the most.
~*~shannon~*~
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my ex... i miss him... even tho he was such a big jerk... i need tips on getting over him... any ideas? things to do? ANYTHING. please and thank you. so much. bye all! (link)
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hang out with ur friends that should help u get over him. go to the mall get ur hair done or get a manicure or something theres so much to do to get over him.
~*~shannon~*~
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Alright tp start this off, i`m 14/female. For about a year or so, I`ve been so down and sad/angry all the time. I never smile anymore, or things that used to be a blast too me, is no fun anymore. I don`t like hanging out with any of my firends anymore. I just like being alone all the time. Well, a few months ago my mom and dad took me to a conselour because they were concerned about me and such. They just said I needed too be on anti-depressants. I didn`t start using them right away, just recently. Well, I`m cutting myself now. I know its really bad too do and I know how stupid I am for doing it, but It just feels so right when I do it. I really need too stop or talk to somebody about it. My mom asked me what these marks were on my arm, and i told her is was eraser burns ( because they leave scars ) and she hasn`t realy noticed that more and more keep appearing. What should I tell her? I want too tell her the truth. I know she will probably understand but she`ll get really upset ( sad ) because she hates seeing me like this and i`ll feel really bad. What should I say too her? (link)
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I went through the same exact thing as u. i never told my mom which i regreted cuz she was just more upset then she would have been if i did tell her. U should definatley tell ur mom just say to her ur really upset about whatever is goin on in ur life and just talk to her and tell her that cutting urself helps take the pain away. If u feel uncomfortable talkin to ur mom talk to a friend or someone who is really close to u that u can trust. But u need to tell someone b4 it gets worse. Hope i helped.
~*~shannon~*~
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I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me (link)
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If she really likes u then it wont matter to her if u had sex already sooner or later everyone has sex so it shouldnt really matter ask her to go out with u and see how it goes. good luck. hope i helped
~*~shannon~*~
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After all that sh*t happened i called mah bf n asked him to come over & i would explain everything.Everything was going pretty good until like anthony came outta his house n wen i saw him i got up & started to walk to my house.Then he sed and he apoligized blah blah blah,then he sed the real reason he was gunna talk to yesterday was cuz he saw mah bf making-out w/sum other chick!!And at 1st i didnt believe him and i asked him to leave.And then when my bf gott 2 mah house i noticed a hicky on his neck n im all wtf? who gave u that??i didnt give him a chance to explain or nething n i sed maybe i was lucki that anthony kissed me so now im not stuck with a sleezeball! And i went inside n closed the door. NOW i AM so thank ful for anthony! lol But should i go n apologize for everything i need help hurry!! (link)
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If i were u i wouldnt go and apologize unless u think anthony lied to u but if u saw a hickey on ur mans neck then anthony probly wasnt lying so if i were u i wouldnt apologize for what u said to ur bf. But u should apologize to anthony and tell him u thought he was lying abour ur bf. hope i helped.
~*~shannon~*~
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My mom and her boy friend Daniel really have a connection between them. Do you think they might want to get married someday? (link)
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Yea they might wanna get married some day if they have really big feelings for each other or they could just be bf and gf they migh not even wanna get married someday.
~*~shannon~*~
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well sum of u know im 13 n he's 14.So yesterday after i wrote this i went outside 2 get the mail n then i was gunna wait for mah bf cuz he sed he was gunna come to mah house.So when i was waiting anthony came n sat down next to me.(anthony-guy on mah str33t).And i didnt say ne thing to him but then i looked at him nreally quick he kissed me(me not knowing mah bf was across the str33t, so he just walked home)n then i smacked anthony n ran inside.n then mah cell rang, i picked it up n it was mah bf n he sed "i guess i wasnt the only one" n he hung up! Ok NOW WHAT SHOULD I DO!! anthony STILL doesnt get the point!And wut should i do anout mah bf?? plz help!!
XOXOalexiaXOXO (link)
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Tell ur bf that it didnt mean anything cuz u were just waitin outside for him and anthony came over and sat next to u and u looked at him real quick and he kissed u. its not ur fault that anthony kissed u. so just tell ur bf that it didnt mean anything cuz u didnt know anthony was gonna do that. hope i helped
~*~shannon~*~
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