i still really love my ex ron. and he cares for me too. but yesterday my friend asked me out and i said yes because hes not good with rejection. i dont like him. hes just a really good friend.
and i dont know how to tell ron because he wants me back but he cant have me because im with someone else...
i wanted to say no but i couldnt. the pain in his eyes would kill me. but ron says he wants me back in his life badly... bu he has one thing holding him back... the fact that we go to different schools. hes a 9th grader and im an 8th grader. i'll be going to the same high school he is going to....
i love him (ron) but i have no feelins for the other guy. so what should i do about ron? forget about him and try to be happy?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cynicalladvice answered Sunday September 18 2005, 1:22 am: No, it isn't fair to your friend to string him along like that, and no man is worth sitting around miserable for. I know it's hard, but you have to dump your friend, and yes, no matter how easy you try to go on him (please go easy on him, he didn't do anything wrong) he's probably going to be destroyed, there's not much you can do about that. As for "Ron" what did he do to have you split in the first place? If it was something really bad, and you think he's likely to so it agian, don't, if you think he's really worth the possible heartbreak, go for it. [ cynicalladvice's advice column | Ask cynicalladvice A Question ]
XoBaByLoVEoX answered Saturday September 17 2005, 11:13 am: Hiya! Well I think you probably shouldnt have said yes to him in the first place. That just leading him on, and will make the rejection now harder than it would've been before! Rate high!
hotcheerleader answered Friday September 16 2005, 8:23 pm: If you really still have feelings for ron then tell the guy your with now the truth....if you dont like the guy your with now then you really shouldnt have said yes to him cuz your just gonna end up hurting someone but the best thing you can do is tell them both the truth and if you really love ron and he really loves you then get back with him and tell the other guy its over
TheTeenGirl answered Friday September 16 2005, 7:33 pm: The best thing you can do is tell him the truth. Even if it really hurts him, he'd rather know now than waiting until he gets more attached and happy with this and than getting bad news later. And you can't forget about him because you feel guilty just lewaving things with him happy not knowing your true feelings. You better just call him and tell him that you made a mistake and didn't want to hurt you.
t0xicParadiSe answered Friday September 16 2005, 7:30 pm: You should tell your friend ( the other guy) how you really feel about him.
Being in a relationship with him if you dont even like him is not the best way to go you are just leading him on.
You have to be honest with him.
If you really want to be with Ron then go for it because opportunities like these are lost in a blink of an eye that is why you have to go for what you want before it's to late.
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