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Question Posted Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:15 pm

I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 7:59 pm:
wait why are you having sex with someone when you like someone else...anyhoo it might push her away like she might think you will want it from her...or she might think that your like a man whore lol or something i wouldnt care if you did

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fishmonkey45 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 2:52 am:
i think shell be alittle shocked or wait she already knows, so maybe shes kinda iffy about it, but whether your a virgin or not, you gotta take things slow, and if you really want this girl then youll respect her decisions, and ur a little boy, stds are a NONO. to late i guess, but just talk with her about it, let her know that u gotta pace yourselves, so yeah gl.

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 2:23 am:
I don't think it will bother her. She might think all you want is sex OR you will push her into having sex and tell her that, make sure she knows you won't make her have sex with her or something. Because she might be scared about that. But, she shouldn't worry about if you've had sex or not before. Just talk to her and let her know you won't push her! Good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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blackmamba answered Thursday July 29 2004, 1:38 am:
it all depends on the girl. if she really likes you, then it shouldnt matter. the most important thing is to NEVER push her into doing something she doesnt want to do. she may feel a lot of pressure because you have more experience than her.

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hismndrismxO answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 9:35 pm:
It wont necessarily push her away from you , but if you start going out with her you should wait a while before mentioning anything to her about sex because she might think you are pressuring her into it and then she might not want to date you nemore . hope we helped !! rate us please =))

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Sexybabii9095 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 9:10 pm:
if she likes you she might think you exspect sex so you could just get close to her and simply have a converstation with her if its unconfortable for her that youve already had sex

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hotcheerleader answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:50 pm:
If she really likes u then it wont matter to her if u had sex already sooner or later everyone has sex so it shouldnt really matter ask her to go out with u and see how it goes. good luck. hope i helped

~*~shannon~*~

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xaDvIcERsAiRx answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:48 pm:
if you had sex with the girl, and your crush already knows, then there's really not much you can do about it, and if you deny it, it wont help... just dont push yor crush towards it, and you may develop your own relationship (even though 13 is kinda young to have sex anyways, which i'm sure you've heard a bazzillion times.)
hope i helped,
xosarahox

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soljette answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:45 pm:
what are you doing having sex at 13? like.. what can you actually satisfy at 13?

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Hello180 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:37 pm:
It depends, if you want her to have sex with you too, then yeah, it will probably push her away, but if your really interested in a relationship and don't want to push her, then, as long as she knows this, it shouldn't make things any harder.

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LilMia811 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:28 pm:
13 is too young to be having sex anyway, but since you are remember to use protection. You wouldn't wanna get some little pregnant. but as for your question... It may push her a way because she may think you are too advance for her and probably wnat to have sex with all of your girl friends now.

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HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:24 pm:
I think you should talk to her.. But sweetie the fact that you had sex at 13 is amazing! Seriously thats no good i'm 15 and STILL a virgin! my boyfriend is 17 and STILL a virgin... but its your life. Try talking to her and see what she feels.
-holly-
hope i helped

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MizAdviceGurl_04 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:22 pm:
idk, it could be. but maybe she got frieked out. like b/c u 2 did it and duzzent know how 2 act. 13 is a little young for sex dontcha think? ne wayz i hope that helped a little. maybe try talking to her about it.

NiCoLe

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mxpimpette26 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:20 pm:
hun! ur 13 ur not suppose to be haveing sex! omg!! it depends most likely yeah~bC u are 13...but if she doesn't mind that...don't go haveing sex w/ her cuz she might not be ready for it yet! cuz YALL ARE ONLY 13!!!

~b

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