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okay this guy i like only likes me as a friend and he knows i like him soo what should i do but he is like a year older than i am so plzzz some 1 help!!

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confused-gurl (link)
"confused-gurl" sup umm since he knows you like him, and he just likes u as a friend FOR NOW, i wuld ask him to go chill with you like see a movie/mall just go hang out or something, maybe once yall do, he'll realize 'u kno, whoa i culd like this girl' and all, whether or not this works, its best that you guys are friends first, and yeah it doesnt really matter about ur age difference, its the point of maturity...i think u kno wat i mean so yeah good luck and later


I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me (link)
i think shell be alittle shocked or wait she already knows, so maybe shes kinda iffy about it, but whether your a virgin or not, you gotta take things slow, and if you really want this girl then youll respect her decisions, and ur a little boy, stds are a NONO. to late i guess, but just talk with her about it, let her know that u gotta pace yourselves, so yeah gl.


I have a boyfriend but my parents don't know! I'm only in 7th grade so I don't know if they will be angry. I'm the only girl in my family so my Dad may make me break up with him! Should I tell my parents? (link)
your dad shuldnt make u break up with him, 7th grade isnt that young to have a bf, but neways..they shouldnt be angry with you, maybe introduce him later on if u think its gonna be a half ass relationship and not a one weeker or something. make sure it will work, and then talk to ur parents. dont sneak around with them for to long, theyre gonna find out. yup good luck


i have just turned 16, well i have liked this girl for i dont no about a year and a half, shes one of the most amazing girls i no, shes perfect, strong chrisitian, volleyball player, straight A student, beautiful, wonderful family, but she uses the esxcuse to good of friends everytime i want to talk about us dating, we are best friends, and by that i mean extrmely tight, im really lost right now, because i think about her constantly, should i stick with her, or should i try to move on, by the way we have never actually been together before (link)
i wouldnt just move on, its always better to be friends first anyways but maybe ask her more about it, dont let her use the excuse of to good of friends. but also think that friends last longer then relationships...(in most cases) give it some more thought and ask urself if u seriosly want it this bad, and if so, keep trying uve got nothing to lose. good luck man!


I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.

Thnx,
Ana (link)
just think of it as an activity not as something that you can either score at or lose. the more you do it, the better you will get. dont get me wrong, i was nervous to, but once its done, its great, ull love it. just kno the more u do it the better your at it lol. later, good luck too


ok there is a guy i used to like a whole lot. and i dont realli like him much ne more. but i still feel like crap, he broke mi heart pretty much. and now i dont even talk to him. cuz like he alwayz blocks me. itz soo annoying and it hurts cuz he used 2 like me and now he iz such a jerk. but when we r like inperson with each other he is nice and stuff. and it almost looks like he still likes me. but like tha same day online, he blocks me. i hate this!! aargh plz help me!! how do i stop feeling thiz way?
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this guy seems way to immature for you, hes like bein real cocky to you. i say ignore his ass and just try and not talk 2 him for awhile. it seems like you have some feelings for him still, but if u just tried staying away from him, it would all be better, find someone new who actually cares about you, and isnt so immature.
good luck tho

-lindsey


I talk to this guy all the time and he wants to date me. I kinda like him to...The problem: everytime we talk he only seems to be interested in what im wearing. Im not sure if he really likes me or just wants to get with me. Could he just be making conversation? What do I do? (link)
if he asks u what you are wearing online, maybe hes just tryin to get a convo it depends if he just bluntly asks that, if u really confused/curious i would say , do feel the same way about me, just get an honest answer before you rush into things...anyways good luck


IM MIKE! Im a nice guy and alot of girls like me. i have a pretty good life except ONE THING..puberty. my voice is still a little high and there is no sign of cracking. im 13 years old and i turn 14 in the begging of january! Is there something wrong with me?! (link)
no ur just fine, people just hit it at different times, youll be okay, it shul dbe happening soon, and if not maybe talk to rents or something, see when ur dad or brother did.


I'm 14 goin on 15 here soon and the same with this guy I like. We've been best friends ever since I've moved to Texas which is about a year. Our relationship didn't really take off until spring break of 2004. He was the first guy I met in Texas that I had a crush on him and he told me the first time he saw me he wanted me. So we finally told each other this spring break. Since, spring break we've been keep the fire goin, but we haven't kissed or anything like that. The most we've done is flirt big time and hug tons. What should I do to really get this relationship off?? (link)
hmm well maybe you could just hint him some, if ur in a movie or something just grab his hand and hold it, then edge ur way over, hell prolly get what your saying...just slowly show hints that your okay with something more.

hope i helped a lil bit! good luck


I'm 13, and my boyfriend is too. we've been going out for an exact week, and we've already kissed. I know all guys a pervs, but he shows it more. Him and his friends always make stupid jokes on how he wants "a whole can of me" or how he thinks im so hot and he wants to have me for breakfast, lame stuff like that. but they also say he wants to stick me, and sleep with me, like how theres a "room in his queen sized bed". but he still always says im hot, and not how he likes my personality. so now im not so sure if he likes me for me. errrgh. what the hell should i do?! (link)
i would just sit down and talk to him, see whats up, maybe hes just trying to be "cool" with his friends. if u still dont feel right then maybe you shuld just be friends, but i wouldnt rush into that, just sit down and talk to him.

good luck


okay here's the situation. my parents are going through a divorce. my dad has a good job, but my mom is only part time. to spite everyone, my dad refuses to buy groceries for the house and my mom cant really afford to either. so i have just been accustomed to rarely eating ( i usually only eat at work). now whenever i get hungry, i eat only a little of something and i feel really full.. like sick full. whats wrong with me? am i anorexic? im not skin and bones or anything, but i think im underweight ( im 5'2'' and 110 lbs.) ugh i think im broken :( help fix little old me (link)
maybe you should go see a doc about that




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