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Should I tell them?


Question Posted Wednesday July 28 2004, 4:55 pm

I have a boyfriend but my parents don't know! I'm only in 7th grade so I don't know if they will be angry. I'm the only girl in my family so my Dad may make me break up with him! Should I tell my parents?

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xo_Meg_ox answered Thursday July 29 2004, 1:03 pm:
talk to him on the phone and stuff and then your parents will find out you're talking to a guy and they'll realize that you're getting interested in dating...if your parents are okay with you talking with the guy and spending time with him, then they'll probably start to assume that you guys like each other more than just friends ~ it's like slowly letting them kno so u don't have to tell them flat out

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fishmonkey45 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 2:49 am:
your dad shuldnt make u break up with him, 7th grade isnt that young to have a bf, but neways..they shouldnt be angry with you, maybe introduce him later on if u think its gonna be a half ass relationship and not a one weeker or something. make sure it will work, and then talk to ur parents. dont sneak around with them for to long, theyre gonna find out. yup good luck

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xbella_47 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:20 pm:
same thinq happened t0 me, i kept it a secret f0r a few m0nths, but my m0m eventually f0und out and t0ok it really well..and my dad didn`t rly care either..s0o i say g0 f0r it..and if w0rse c0mes t0 w0rst then y0u just have to break up wiTh him* h0pe i helped* <33 mariia

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:40 pm:
be honest with your parents. They'll appreciate it, and know that they can trust you.

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:37 pm:
break it to them very easily... my first boyfriend was in 6th grade... you can tell your dad... ESPECIALLY your dad that you met a really great guy and you both like eachother alot and that you'd like for him to meet him. maybe on a weekend or on a friday night have him over for dinner... tell your guy to be himself and if he's really that great of a guy your dad might like him. but keep in mind... daddies are VERY protective of their little girls... just like mine is and your dad will be a pain in the ass because he's just afraid to see his little girl get taken away but you have to explain to him that you like him alot and you'd like to hang out with him outside of school... at first your dad might tell you that he doesn't want you to see him... maybe go to the movies with him and a group of your friends, have him over your house for a couple of hours and maybe your dad will see how much you guys like eachother... hope i helped! if you need anything else just email me =D

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LaDiixDeE4Ya answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:35 pm:
Yew shuld ask yer parents , " what wuld yew say if yew knew i had a boyfriend?" or sumthyn like tht and if they ask why say ,"no reason". Depending on their answer they give yew , yew shuld noe wheter or not to tell them. Hope i helped =) xoxo DeE

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aCciDenTaLlYInLoVee answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:26 pm:
i can understand where your coming from .. you dont have to tell your parents unless you want to .. in this case you sound like you want to tell them .. they should be able to accept the fact that you have a boyfriend .. its your life you go and do what you believe is right .. but i dont see whats wrong either way .. good luck!!

<3 alyssa

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MizAdviceGurl_04 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:17 pm:
idk itz totally up 2 u. wut i think tho is that u shud prolly juzt ask him. 7th grades pretty young. im going 2 8th and lotz of ppl arent allowed to go out. maybe u shud juzt wait to tell him if things like r more serious and stuff.

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole

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Anarchilist answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:12 pm:
Wait til you have your first period, it'll probably scare him away and then you'll have nothing to worry about.

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Sexybabii9095 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:08 pm:
ask your dad simply if it would be alright if you start dateing, if he says yeah then tell him whats up, if he says no, i dont want you to lie andall, just wait till he would understand

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iPlayTheAirGuitar answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:06 pm:
Nah. I never tell my parents about that kind of stuff. If they find out, you can simply tell them it`s nothing serious and you can just explain too them that nothing sexual will happen and insure them that they can trust you.

megan.

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