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best friend that i like, but she feels were to good of frien
i have just turned 16, well i have liked this girl for i dont no about a year and a half, shes one of the most amazing girls i no, shes perfect, strong chrisitian, volleyball player, straight A student, beautiful, wonderful family, but she uses the esxcuse to good of friends everytime i want to talk about us dating, we are best friends, and by that i mean extrmely tight, im really lost right now, because i think about her constantly, should i stick with her, or should i try to move on, by the way we have never actually been together before
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i wouldnt just move on, its always better to be friends first anyways but maybe ask her more about it, dont let her use the excuse of to good of friends. but also think that friends last longer then relationships...(in most cases) give it some more thought and ask urself if u seriosly want it this bad, and if so, keep trying uve got nothing to lose. good luck man!
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I think maybe she maybe scared that if the relationship didn't work out between you guys than that would hurt the friendship.
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maybe she just wants to be relly good friends and nothing more. maybe she feels that once you guys go out and break up your friendship'll be ruined so maybe being friends is all she wants. ive had that feelin be4...lyke sum1 fur a long tyme but cant get with them....its hard i dont knoe how i got over well i went out with sum oter guy but yeah okay good luck on this xOxO
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Well, there's a lot of things that could be wrong here. First off, have you ever tried to look at things from her point of view? I mean, maybe she's scared that if you guys try dating and it's not right then your friendship will be ruined. I'm really not quite sure what to tell you, but I do know that this is something that you're gonna have to tell her face to face you wanna talk about!!
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well i h0pe this helps =]. From a girls point of view..let me tell you exactly whats going on in her head. She feels that she knows you too well..and in every relationship..if u kno someone too well before u start dating..things end up not working out. The best part of a relationship is finding out new things about the person day-by-day...its m0re exciting. Plus...girls become attatched to there guy friends very easily..and they know..or assume..that if they end up going out, and things crash..it will be weird being friends again in the end. If a guy starts off as a really good friend... it`s best for US..if he remains just a really good friend...good luck tho...d0nt give up if u have faith..that's all that matters sometimes. hope i helped..`1
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