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is he worth it??
im 15 and my bf's 18 n my parents are cool with it...Well weve had sex alot and i actually live with him because of certain issues that happened while living with my dad...Well i know that he loves me and weve been together for almost 2 years. But we had this one conversation not too long ago about a friend whos bf wont dump her cus they have sex all the time..Well thats sort of my issue..I have sex like everyday and he told me he would dump me if we stopped having sex (over a long period of time)the thing is is that i want to have sex and that isnt a problem but its like at first when we went out it was like all about love and building our relationship now that thats established its about our love and then sex then building a life together..Im confused because i live with him and depend on him so its not like im gonna leave him but im worried that If i stop having sex he wont be with me ne more-so far after a year and a half of having sex (he devirginized me) Im still into it totally But sometimes i feel like im on his schedule like its all about when hes horny and then sometimes when i actually am hes asleep or something...But anyways he is the only person who has ever loved me for me..and he treats me like a queen but sometimes i just get confused..if anyone could give me advice it would be great..also if anyone has ne sex tips for me it would b gr8tly appreciated( i rate ) thanks alot!!
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If your boyfriend is all about sex it is probaly a shallow worthless relationship. I'd stay away from that and find a guy who is with you because he loves you, not because the sex is good.
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Sex,Sex,Sex...I mean ur relationship with this guy is bcoz of sex.He values ur body n not ur love.How can u ever live with this guy? He's using u illegaly.He's not treating u as a queen he's treating u like a whore!!I'm sorry but u may not like this at all but u need 2 clear this out with him and tell him that u need a relationship which is based on love and sacrifice and not pussy and dick!!Hope u cum out of this situation.
*~~Kariena~~*
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okay, first I wanna say that Ive gone thru a one year relationship and at the time I was 15 and he was 17. We had sex on a regular basis just like u and ur bf. I always "knew" that he was totally inlove with me and he would do anything for me,etcetc, but i only "knew" that because I loved him and I was blinded by that love to not see the other side. Look, he probably REALLY does love you, thats not a question, and its not like he is using you for sex, but you said yourself that he said that he would DUMP u if u too stopped having sex. If u 2 were older, like in ur 20's or 30's and if u 2 were living together and loved eachother, its much more understandable about having sex on a regular basis and its basically a given for adults who are dating to have sex, but 2 ppl who are 15 and 18 to be living together and having sex on a regular basis is a totally different story. I know how it is when ur with some1 for that long and u wont believe some1 when they say that ur bf is using u for sex, but all i can say is DONT be BLINDED by "love"..u needa stop having sex with this guy, no joke, because the way I see it, he knows he can get it from u netime he wants, u want it to be like that? youre the only person who can change that. STOP having sex with him,TRUST ME!!! if i knew what i knew now about relationships,and if i could change nething about my one yr relationship with my ex, it would be no sex. dont make the same mistakes i did, stop now be4 its too late.
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-kristin
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Oh shit. It's obvious to me that he's in the relationship for the pussy that you give him. This is also highly illegal. You're not even close to 18. You mention that he wants it on his schedule and has no regard for yours. He's using for sex when he wants and you mention the relationship will end if the sex stops. He's too old for you anyway. At 15,it's not surprising he's the only person who has "loved" you. You're only 15 and not even halfway finished with high school. Give life more of a chance and don't tie yourself down. The sex might be great now,but it won't be forever. You better really really love this guy.
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your relationship is one based on you and him, if hes the one thats deciding when to have sex, if its his schedule, then somethings wrong, you have every right to talk to him about any concern of yours if he loves you like he does and you love him the same way, dont let him push you around no matter how much you like the sex, if you have a problem, confront him about it, tell him how you feel.. ii really hope that i helped and that things work out for you two. -Anqel
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