I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.
BaBii_Dancer answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 3:17 am: Aww...my first was when I was 14. I was nervous and I didn't know what to do...lol...because it was my first. It was at night time and he picked a special spot. Aww...he was just so cute about it. Now, whenever I pass by that spot it reminds me of him and how much he hurt me. I mean he told me he liked me a lot and then 3 weeks later, he called me up and told me he hated me and never liked me at all. And then 2 months later he calls me and tells me the whole story behind it. I'm just telling you this because your first kiss should be memorable and not horrible as mine. Don't fall for a guy like the guy I fell for. Still, to this day he is a player. Like everytime one of my friend's or I see him, he is always with a different girl and he keeps calling me saying, "Your so cute. I want you this time...FOR REAL. NO JOKE" and its like NO, it's over. Please don't make the mistake that I did. Don't rush it either. You will be 16 soon...SWEET SIXTEEN. Maybe you'll get your first kiss then. Who knows?? Or 17? I don't think that you should worry much. You'll get it sometime. And don't be nervous. It is a piece of cake. Just follow him. You can also tell him it is your first if you want too. Just don't be nervous and don't worry.
DrAnqel answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:30 am: there is no wrong way to go when kissing, just roll with whatever they do, dont be nervous because IT SHOWS, you wont suck if you just relax about it, your first kiss will come, and it will be perfect. hope i helped. -dr.anqel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:28 am: Ana,
You don't have to worry about not having kissed someone yet. You're young! I know someone who's 21 and just got her first boyfriend.
It's normal to be nervous about first kisses, but you need a guy to kiss first! ^_^
However, you don't really NEED to be nervous. Kissing comes kind of naturally. It's doubtful that you'll suck at it.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
miSScxoxo821 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:22 am: Dear Ms. Hot Lips,
Your really scared about your first kiss right? Well, I think the only way it could go wrong is tense up and kiss him. Kissing you normally do with someone you really care about, unless your playing a game or at a make out party. But if you can't get the butterflies out of your stomach, just take a deep breath, but not too loud, and when the moment is right, kiss him. If you dont know when the moment is right, then make sure your in a place where no1 is around, unless you dont care if people see, but its more romatic alone, have small talk, and ask him if you can kiss him. Or after the small talk, and the awkward silence comes, kiss him on the cheek and maybe he will turn his head and kiss you. But if your at home and before you see your date, make sure you brush your teeth! even if you two dont kiss. lol.
Hope that helps! You can rate me if you want!
That would help me a ton. Thanks!
~miSSc~ [ miSScxoxo821's advice column | Ask miSScxoxo821 A Question ]
xo_Meg_ox answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:19 am: i totally understand where you're coming from, but here's something that might help your nerves: by giving and looking at advice on this site, i've realized how many people ask similar questions - you're not alone!! almost everybody gets nervous about this kind of thing, but yet the world is still full of kisses...so it can't be that hard lol and i think you'll be fine when the right moment comes!! [ xo_Meg_ox's advice column | Ask xo_Meg_ox A Question ]
Geenie_Baby answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:09 am: well its not a bad thing that you havnt kissed a girl that kiss will come one day and theres not relly a need to rush it. a first kiss is somehin ta be remembered and its prolly just waiting for tha perfect person an place and styll hasnt happened yet. it'll come. =D [ Geenie_Baby's advice column | Ask Geenie_Baby A Question ]
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