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~15 female~
me and my best friend are really close...i was w/ her when she lost *it* and the sad thing is she didn't even know the guy..she only new him for a lil bit! and then she had sex w/ this other dude but shes kind of dating him...and i told her she shouldn't be doing that bC shes always going out to have sex w/ some other dude...and then i was staying the nite w/ her one nite and we snuck out and she had sex w/ these 2guys that she hardly even knew...and she still talks to one of them she goes overto his house and stuff...but she doesn't need to hang out w/ him either cuz his a lil man whore! well then she had sex w/ this other dude...and then another (but she knew the last one really well)...well last nite me and her sunk out again w/ my boyfriend and one of his friends...and she had sex w/ him...i mean i haven't even had sex w/ my boyfriend yet...and i didn't even have sex w/ him that nite...well my freind has had sex w/ at lest 7guys...how do i get her to stop...i want her to wait till shes dating a guy before she starts haveing sex again!...?? what do i do? (link)
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i think your friend could make her own decision..your a great friend for trying to help but some things they have to sort out! if its really bothering you tell her.. itll make the world of differnce hope i helped xO nicole
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^15, female^
iight...i was w/ my firend and we were hanging out w/ some dudes all weekend...i knew one of them for a while and i had jst met this other 2 dudes and i only knew this one guy *Sam* for bout 2days and i lost *it* to him...i mean there where no feelings no nothing...i mean i don't even care that he hasn't called me or anything...but i feel like it's wrong..and that it makes me look like a whore cuz i did that...but i mean when ppl ask me i'm like yeah i knew him for 2 yrs(but i really only knew him for 2days)...cuz i don't want anyone to think bad of me!...but i did tell myself that i'm not going to have sex till my next boyfriend that i'm serious bout...so does it make me seem like a whore that i lost it to some guy i hardly knew?..and is it tru that you can go to hell for have sex w/ someone you don't love? (link)
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wow you poor thing.you might just wanna forget about the past and move on to your future. Next time think about the circumstances before you let yourself out! i hope i helped xO nicole
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i am very self consious on how i look because i am not the prettiest girl but everyone tells me that i am cute. i dont like how i look and i want to loose some weight too. i can sometimes be very confident but at other times i am not. what can i do to stop being so self consious? (link)
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When your self consious things look bad..and gloomy! if your confident you'll find the better side of yourself and maybe even start to love yourself. If people tell u ur cute! use that as a confidence builder and go from there. xO nicole
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Hi I'm 14 and I'm 5'2ish. I weigh 110. I wear a C cup and I think around a 3 in jeans. (Not sure maybe a 5) But the problem is, I look at everyone else and I feel that I should weigh 100 or 105. I was going to do chrunches and things to loose weight. But I'm always too lazy. (lol) I used to dance and do gymnastics ever since i could walk. (not gymnastics, I just started that) But I quit. Um..what's your advice on, if I should not worry about it, since I'm still growing or be more cautious because I seriously don't want to gain too much weight. I want to be considered skinny, not in the middle, which I am now? Also, I love to eat! (lol) I think it's kind of an emotional thing for me. I'm definitely not fat or anything like that but I don't think that I could give up food. Thanks for your help! (link)
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girl..u are tiny. you eat your foods as needed and dont worry about weight as much..if you still worry maybe think of doing more active sports.
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I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.
Thnx,
Ana (link)
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i have had like a bizillion kisses and i remember my first time! there is no possible way you can mess up! i promise xO nicole
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ill be on the road tomorro.. and i just wnt to know some serious good ways to block out the rest of the world.... i need a couple of days to myself... i mean.. my heads spinning.. is there anything wrong with just shutting down for a few days.. or is it like non social... (link)
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This is a great idea! Now maybe you need to buy some soothing tapes like maybe hawaain and lisen to those. They always relive me from my stress.Drive somewhere were thers no civilsation but make sure you have full gas and money incase you need a towtruck! and remember buckle your seatbelt! xO nicole
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whats a good and inexpenicve way to make ur teeth look whiter ...i brush everyday with colgate or crest but does anyone kno a really good toothpasate or like thing to make ur teeth whiter?? {crest whitestrips are like 30 bucks and im only 13 how can i afford that?
teeths (link)
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okay! my friend had that problem! there is a new thing on t.v that has that cool jingle rip slip brush ah! it whitenes your teeth up to 50 percent more! those are 5 dollars a pack of 3 ithink and i use those and there is a differnce.. or maybe your not brushing long enough. I brush for 2 mintues and there great teeth maybe spend longer on them and it doesnt matter what ur teeth look like anyway! its about you! and if your adorable your teeth wont matter! xO nicole
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In school, i've always been called names like "gay" and "fag". i think its because
#1) i have a high voice and...
#2) i act goofy alot cause i like to have fun
most of the time people are joking but sometimes people really think im gay. it doesnt make me feel that great:(. i wish there was a way to stop it. please help. (link)
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Well "Gay" and "Fag" most perople DONT KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS! Its just a name that theve picked up over the years and like to say. Just ignore them! you should have more pride then to know your that. and most guys like girls with high voices so just stick with ur pride and things will turn around xO
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alriitee..i`m c0nfused ab0ut my boyfriend..he says he l0ves me, but i haven`t talked to him in a while...we`ve been q0inq 0ut f0r ab0ut a year n0w and he d0esn`t call me..hardly ever unless i tell him t0. we talk 0nline and stuFf and we`ve d0ne s0me stuff 2qether and its qreat..but i d0n`t kn0 if he`s shy 0r what. but whenever i d0 talk t0 him he`s always happy t0 talk t0 me and stuff, and i`m always happy t0 talk t0 him and he say`s he l0ves me and all, but wh0 knows-- s0meone help. thankS in advance* (link)
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first of all..cute letter haha back to business. He obviously doesnt know you want him to call you so much! so tell him you enjoy him calling you every so often and tell him you love him and just be affectonate! it will make a difference i promise you and GOOD LUCK! xO nicole
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i have a problem of keeping a thought during class, i often daydream and get off task, and im always forgettin himework, is there anything i can do to fix this? (link)
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well most everyone has a semi short attentation span! if you forget homework i suggest a planner or maybe just talking to your school nurse or doctor about it. You might have ADD but it can always be helped with medication! xO nicole
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ok..see, i put in sub posts about being through puberty and being called names and stuff and theres another thing bothering me! i dont really have guy friends..like i have friends that are guys that i say hi to like every 2 weeks. i really only have about 3-5 guy friends that i can actually talk to. all the rest are girls! i dont know why i dont have guy friends. maybe its because they all think im gay (im not though). (IM A GUY BY THE WAY) (link)
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well it sounds like your more open to girls. A "hi" works both ways. If you see a guy and wanna hang you go up to him and say hi! dont always make them break the ice. Or maybe there jelous of you because you have so many girl friends! you might wanna try spliting with the girls for a little and seeing how that is! i hope i helped xO
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im 15/F and lately ive been like peeing alot and not being able to go to bed AT ALL!! i dont know if its cus i drink before i go to bed or what but i cant sleep and i have to pee like every 30 minutes, me and my boyfriend have alot of sex and im on birth control and have been for a year or so but i got my period last week another signidicant thing is ive gained like 20 lbs but i have been eating more which is another sign of pregnancy so all im hopin is im not so if anyone has been pregnanyt or if they know what it could be then please help me im freakin out and i have no one to talk too.. (link)
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I personally was pregnet and it was the biggest mistake of my life.. if your birthcontrol wasnt working you need to find a new one(obviously) but when your weight gains 20 pounds that is a tad unusaul.. but it also could be hormones changing in your body and you should talk to a doctor, your mom or anyone you can! doctor is most likely the answer for this! xO nicole
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latley i have been doing a lot of different things to my hair, ive spiked it and been using colored gel, but im always getting looks from people, i dont know if they are good or bad, i love my hair being this way but i dono if i feel comfortable with everyone lookin at me, wut should i do, i have red and blue colored hair and ive been gettin mroe and more creative latley. what should i do? (link)
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Your unique and thats awesome! if they give you bad looks just dont lisen.. you know you look cool and your really friends know that too! so you do your thing with the hair and you just be confident and no one will give you those bad looks! xO nicole
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okay..for the past couple of days ive started eating two meals a day and excercising..ALOT i feel soo guilty eating..im 5'2 and before i started this stuff i weighed 92 pounds ive got a lot of advice a lot to like not become anorexic or whatever no matter what but i dont no i feel so guilty about food.i need advice!! (link)
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wow..this sounds like my little sister. all you need to do is know that annorexia isnt good for your immune or any part of your body. you must eat your 3 main foods a day breakfast(a biggy) lunch and dinner ..exercising IS good but too much can hurt your body. xO nicole!
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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help (link)
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Well you need to ask her if she feels comfortable with you.. and if she replies yeah then ask her whats troubling you.. say why havent we kissed yet! most likely she'll now you want to kiss her and she'll kiss you.
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