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GUY FRIENDS
ok..see, i put in sub posts about being through puberty and being called names and stuff and theres another thing bothering me! i dont really have guy friends..like i have friends that are guys that i say hi to like every 2 weeks. i really only have about 3-5 guy friends that i can actually talk to. all the rest are girls! i dont know why i dont have guy friends. maybe its because they all think im gay (im not though). (IM A GUY BY THE WAY)
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know who you are, know what you like, and do them. you will find others just like you if you partake in the activities that you like to do.
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Well im kinda the same way, but with girls... I seem to hav more guy friends than girl friends. And thats ok.. Its a good thing that u have a mixture of friends. Im sure they dont think ur gay. I hav the same problem i always think that girls just dont want to be my friend bcuz of my Rep. but just dont let it bother u. Go on in life and just try to meet more guys to be friends with. *Jennifer*
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I don't hang out with anyone but my friend Matt.
I'm a guy.
Every other damn friend of mine is a chick.
It's alright to have a lot of girl friends.
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I think it is totally normal. I'm a girl and I have like 5 girl friends that I can actually talk to and then I have other girl friends that I only talk to online or at school. I have many guy friends that I talk to and I just don't talk to them in school, I talk to them outside of school too. Some are such girls. I can talk with them for like hours...you know...but they are not gay. They can just make a conversation out of nothing and its so cool and I love it. My situation is like the total opposite of yours. It never bothered me that I only have 5 friends that I can talk to. I think that it hasn't because I know that my other friends, the ones that I talk to at school or online, are still there for me. I'm not going to ask them big questions or huge favors, but the stuff that I will ask them for, they will answer back. Hope I helped you...LOL!
**[Ania]**
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well it sounds like your more open to girls. A "hi" works both ways. If you see a guy and wanna hang you go up to him and say hi! dont always make them break the ice. Or maybe there jelous of you because you have so many girl friends! you might wanna try spliting with the girls for a little and seeing how that is! i hope i helped xO
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maybe the guys are mad at you because you have so many friends that are girls, but if youre concerned then try to talk to your guy friends more, and especially talk to your girl friends, because, girls know best. lol. no because they can also help you and they're your closest friends that you trust rather than random strangers on the internet. i hope i helped and i hope you talk to your guy friends more good luck! -dr.anqel
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maybe you just aren't into the things most guys are into (sports, video games, etc...) and if you aren't then you shouldn't feel pressure to change, but if you do have similar interests with guys you know then try to become involved or hang out with them and hopefully that will help you bond!
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ok 1st off, im the same way, i have a few guy friends but mainly girls. the guys who call u gay are jelious, u are the type of guy who girls like, they propbally think u are attractive (dont worry im straight as can be its jsut the same for me) just dont let them get to u, if u want more guy friends just hang out with the guy friends you have, their friends will get to know u and u will have more of them but its fine how u r. i know the situation, and it will work out just fine
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