ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help
kevin1986 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 2:33 am: It's not too fast and if you're alone with her,do it. She'll get that look in her eyes and just do it. They like you to take initiative anyway. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
xiiLoVeyOux answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:58 am: Well you need to ask her if she feels comfortable with you.. and if she replies yeah then ask her whats troubling you.. say why havent we kissed yet! most likely she'll now you want to kiss her and she'll kiss you. [ xiiLoVeyOux's advice column | Ask xiiLoVeyOux A Question ]
BaBii_Dancer answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:33 am: Aww...it sounds like a cute relationship. I think that it should keep going the way it is going. You shouldn't rush it. Girls don't really like that. However, when you do kiss her try to make it romantic. She'll LOVE it. AWWWW!!
blackmamba answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:31 am: try and make a "romantic" moment because first kisses are always good in a moment like that. take her out for dinner and complement her, then maybe try to lean in and kiss.either that or you can just ask her if you can kiss her, but its better when its all "in the moment".. trust me [ blackmamba's advice column | Ask blackmamba A Question ]
xo_Meg_ox answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:22 am: if you're too scared to make a physical move then maybe try to make a move of it socially by bringing up the topic of kissing [ xo_Meg_ox's advice column | Ask xo_Meg_ox A Question ]
goodgurl answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:20 am: just go up to her and give her a pop kiss on the lips
DrAnqel answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:03 am: no its not just your fault, talk to her about it, if shes not ready, then shes not ready and you need to respect her for that, if shes ready than have lots of fun, hope i helped. -dr.anqel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
cougarbabe11 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:01 am: course u dont wanna rush it but most gurls are prolly thinkin when are we gunna kiss i have been in the same position they want u to kiss them trust me u jus need to find the right moment dont do it when she is uncomfortable or is in oublis or somethin jus kiss her if she tells u otherwise sry that gurl is kinda dif cuz most gurls cant wait til u kiss them [ cougarbabe11's advice column | Ask cougarbabe11 A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:00 am: Oh no its not your fault. If your scared just to make the move and your scared to get her reaction maybe you should talk to her about kissing first and see if shes comfortable enough with it. Its to moving to fast believe me! Good luck
-holly-
hope i helped [ HollyAnn2282's advice column | Ask HollyAnn2282 A Question ]
snowboardbum answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:59 am: dont worry, dont rush it tho, if i were you i would just wait it out, mabye kiss her on the cheek, if she is ok with that then u can try on the lips, but try to give her a hint that u want to [ snowboardbum's advice column | Ask snowboardbum A Question ]
beCca_bOo answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:53 am: Ask her what she think about kissing. If she is willing to, then go for it! ITs not ur fault, dont worry, she could be thinking the same thing too! Or she could just be waiting for you to make the first move.
JSuburb answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:53 am: Ok. It's been a month and your thinken you really like this bitch. It's been a month and u shoulda already had a blow job or two outta the deal...if she dint give out yet you mine as well just forget about her cause she aint worth hitten the skins....just suckit up and quit bein a pussy kiss the bitch or leaver,
j suburb [ JSuburb's advice column | Ask JSuburb A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:52 am: Aww, honey.
A month probably isn't too soon to kiss her. Just go for it. She may be shy, so you might have to make the first move.
It's probably a communication thing - but in this case, don't communicate, kiss. ^_^
Good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
LaxPlayer45 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:52 am: HEY! its only been a month! and maybe she doesnt want to kiss yet! u should see if she wants to and if ur not the type to ask..then just get close and kiss her! who knows..she probably wants to kiss u too but to scared. u should always make the first move! [ LaxPlayer45's advice column | Ask LaxPlayer45 A Question ]
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