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did i do the wrong thing?
^15, female^
iight...i was w/ my firend and we were hanging out w/ some dudes all weekend...i knew one of them for a while and i had jst met this other 2 dudes and i only knew this one guy *Sam* for bout 2days and i lost *it* to him...i mean there where no feelings no nothing...i mean i don't even care that he hasn't called me or anything...but i feel like it's wrong..and that it makes me look like a whore cuz i did that...but i mean when ppl ask me i'm like yeah i knew him for 2 yrs(but i really only knew him for 2days)...cuz i don't want anyone to think bad of me!...but i did tell myself that i'm not going to have sex till my next boyfriend that i'm serious bout...so does it make me seem like a whore that i lost it to some guy i hardly knew?..and is it tru that you can go to hell for have sex w/ someone you don't love?
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n0 yer n0t a h0e. unless y0u d0 it al0t of timez. but y0u 0nly did it 0nce and y0u have bad feelingz ab0ut it s0 y0ur def. n0t a h0e. y0u w0uld be a h0e if y0u did it agen th0ugh. ab0ut the hell thing idkk..l0l..rate meh plz x0*DeE <3
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lousing your virginity's an extremely personal thing and a lot of people wish they didn't do it like they did but what's done is done and just has to be accepted. However how, when and why you have sex the next time and every other time in the future is in your control. Personally I have to feel I know, like and trust someone to sleep with them, I have to know they feel the same and neither one of us feels remotely uncomfortable. As for 'going to hell' I certainly wouldn't worry about that its just the typical garbage that falls out the mouths of deluded bigoted Christian fundamentalist lunatics
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theres no way you would go to hell. if god is really what we say, isn't he the one that chose you to it? I mean, maybe this guy could end up being the one for you, or either its just another lesson learned. and there's no way you're a whore, thats just childish for people to call you that.
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No, it doesnt make you a whore. But *losing it* is suppose to be one of the most important things to a girl! But if you didnt feel that it had to be special and with the right person then that was you choice, no one else's! SO i hoped that helped!!
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Ok, People your age are going to be mean and when someone does something that they might not understand then they are going to try to make that person feel bad. High school does suck, but don't listen to people when they try to make you feel like a whore. It's good that you realize that you made a mistake, but just remember that your human and everyone makes mistakes.
I don't know what you believe, but I don't think your going to hell because you slept with someone you weren't in love with. You seem like a good person, so just remember that and you'll be ok. A lot of people go through this same situation, but most people don't learn from it at all.
life is hard isn't it? I'm also going through a time where I have made an unimaginable mistake and feel like a horrible person and am afraid that people will see me as a whore.
and trust me, what you have done is not that bad. Your young and still learning.
But, you did use protection, right? If not then I would get tested for everything from STD's to pregnancy.
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wow you poor thing.you might just wanna forget about the past and move on to your future. Next time think about the circumstances before you let yourself out! i hope i helped xO nicole
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You only seem like a whore if you think you do. I don't think it makes you seem like a whore, nor do I think you can go to hell for having sex with someone you don't love.
That's a matter of opinion, entirely.
If you feel that it was wrong, there's nothing you can do about it. The past is the past. You can't change it, so don't dwell in it. ^_^
If you feel uncomfortable with what you did, change your ways and learn to feel better about yourself.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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I'm sorry you gave something as precious as your virginity to someone you didnt know... accidents and mistakes happen but dont dwell on it. Put it in the past and dont tell people about it. The only reason you go to Hell is if you dont ask Jesus to come into your heart, you should had tried to wait til a serious relationship or even marriage but just pray for forgiveness.
If someone asks you if youre a virgin, dont say yes or no. Just say what would you like to know? Just blow off the question unless they are a good friend. I wouldnt consider you a whore unless youve been sleeping around... Good luck!
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