In school, i've always been called names like "gay" and "fag". i think its because
#1) i have a high voice and...
#2) i act goofy alot cause i like to have fun
most of the time people are joking but sometimes people really think im gay. it doesnt make me feel that great:(. i wish there was a way to stop it. please help.
xiiLoVeyOux answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 2:17 am: Well "Gay" and "Fag" most perople DONT KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS! Its just a name that theve picked up over the years and like to say. Just ignore them! you should have more pride then to know your that. and most guys like girls with high voices so just stick with ur pride and things will turn around xO [ xiiLoVeyOux's advice column | Ask xiiLoVeyOux A Question ]
DrAnqel answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:24 am: tell them that you don't appreciate what they say and explain to them that you're not homosexual and that there wouldnt be anything wrong if you were, people shouldn't be calling you derrogatory terms because of the way you act or talk, if they see you with guys rather than girls, then they may have a reason, but there is nothing wrong with the way that you act. if you cant stop it just by asking nicely, then talk to someone that WILL stop them by any means. hope i helped -dr.anqel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
Geenie_Baby answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:16 am: well tell them that yer not gay if they dont belive you thats their prob youre jus bein you if they cant accept that then hey what do they knoe they could've been your friend an now they're missin out on all tha fun stuff that you do. lol me and mai friends act lyke dorks an ppl think we're weird but hey we dont care we have fun and each other we gots nothin ta loose. jus ferget them an chill wit yer real friends. [ Geenie_Baby's advice column | Ask Geenie_Baby A Question ]
blueyedchic answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:16 am: Well im not sure if there is a way to stop it. But give it time and maybe ppl will forget all about it. But u shouldnt care about what other ppl think of u. U know the truth about yourself and obviously no one knows the real u. So just give it time and hopefully people will forget about the whole gay thing.
xo_Meg_ox answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:15 am: do you have any guy friends? i'm assuming that the people calling you these names are probably male (sorry if that's sexist of me) but if you became friends with a few guys and they got to know you then i think it would stop...overall though, as long as your true friends know who you are then screw those other people! [ xo_Meg_ox's advice column | Ask xo_Meg_ox A Question ]
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