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alriitee..i`m c0nfused ab0ut my boyfriend..he says he l0ves me, but i haven`t talked to him in a while...we`ve been q0inq 0ut f0r ab0ut a year n0w and he d0esn`t call me..hardly ever unless i tell him t0. we talk 0nline and stuFf and we`ve d0ne s0me stuff 2qether and its qreat..but i d0n`t kn0 if he`s shy 0r what. but whenever i d0 talk t0 him he`s always happy t0 talk t0 me and stuff, and i`m always happy t0 talk t0 him and he say`s he l0ves me and all, but wh0 knows-- s0meone help. thankS in advance*
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You should probably tell him to call you. If he loves you he'll understand.
-Kayla
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first of all..cute letter haha back to business. He obviously doesnt know you want him to call you so much! so tell him you enjoy him calling you every so often and tell him you love him and just be affectonate! it will make a difference i promise you and GOOD LUCK! xO nicole
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First of all, talk to him, talking can do wonders. Tell him that sometimes it seems as if he doesn't love you as much as he claims, hopefully if all goes well and he really DOES love you he'll call you more and you guys can hang out more.
If he doesn't, if it doesn't work. Don't stay in the relationship, this is coming from experience, I'm in almost exactly the same dilemma, and I've fallen so deep that I can't get out...There are guys out there that you'll date who you won't have to question their love for you and who will give you the attention you need...You're worth more than a guy that won't call you =)
But talk with him first, don't give up yet
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If you're worried about your relationship, tell him about it.
I always tell my boyfriend that we need to have an honest relationship and he needs to tell me if anything's bothering him, even if it's something little.
I think everyone should communicate more than they do. Ask him what's going on in his head. Does he love you? Does he just not like to talk on the phone? That could be the case. I mean, I hate to talk on the phone, but I talk anyway.
Just find out what's going through his head, and this might clear itself up. ^_^
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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tell him that you want to talk to him more on the phone, tell him that it shows more effort and the more effort he puts into the relationship, the more hes gonna get out of it, that will definitely strike more of an interest.. tell him that you would like him to call you more often then he does, and tell him that you shouldn't have to remind him, because you shouldn't, ask him if hes shy or scared but you need to get your point across either way, hope i helped. -Dr.Anqel
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It could be he's shy, but Sometimes Guys get busy, but they shouldnt be too busy to not call or talk to their GF at all.
i would stick to calling him, and try asking him about it. For now that might be all you get, things should heat up. if they dont then maybe it wasnt ment to be.
Hope i helped
XoXo Becca
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Call him up, and ask him what's been going through his head .. tell him how you are feeling about the whole situation. Maybe he just doesn't want you to be the center of his world. Not to be harsh, but he might not be the kind of guy that drops everything just to be with his girlfriend. But i'd for sure talk to him about it.
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