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Im blonde but im smart haha i no but its cool i love to help others im very cultured lol i love all things indian haha yea im just cool lke that

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E-mail: citybabe292@yahoo.com
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Location: jersey
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Age: 16
AIM: indiechicka04
Yahoo: citybabe292
Member Since: July 28, 2004
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Last Update: January 24, 2006
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i have been with my boyfriend for 5 months but we are not together officialy itis supposed to be a flig but i realy like him and he admitted he has slepted with other lasses since we have been together i want to finish it but dont know how to or what to say but i realy like him and dont want to loose him but i dont him making a fool of me any longer plz help i will rate.

why put your self through this kinda pain??? if hes told u and admitted to sleeping with someone else that isn't fair on you. if anything your the fool get out of the relationship! hes not worth ur time!!!

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i have this boyfriend. but hes black. i really really like him and we`ve been on and off for like a while now im just afraid my family wont approve..they arent racist they jus dont exactly approve of this kind of thing maybe because the only black man brought into out family happened to be involved with drugs and violence pleasee help me i dont want to listen to my family bcause i care for him so much isnt that what counts?

you shouldnt care what your family thinks...i no how you feel but really if you love this guy then what your family thinks dosen't reeally matter

good luck

BB

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Okay, this might sound stupid but here it goes: My friend is obsessed with the fact that I have a lot in common with her boyfriend. Whenever she brings up the subject, she'll call him and ask both of us what things we like, and if we say the same thing she'll scream and say that we're going to fall "madly in love." I've told her hundreds of times that he's going out with HER, and he obviously LIKES her! I've spoken to her b/f once, and I don't like him that way, but she's obsessing that he's going to break up with her for me.. whom he's never even met. She's mad that she has NOTHING in common with this guy, and that I do, and I don't want to lose her as a friend.. and she won't listen to anything I say!

Sorry for the long post, but any ideas on what I should do?

hahah i feel for you its kinda like that with my friend but the opposite see she was goin out with this guy and i became good friends with him *me and her are best friends anyway lol* so yea and we do have a lot in common now see since they broke up she thinks he likes me now its total chaos haha but everyone thinks i like his soooooooooooooooooo yea lol! well all i can say is prove to her that u dont or idk lol

sorry
good luckers!!!

B

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I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.

Desperate for my life back and confused!!

i feel for you...i think u have to options one give up the baby i no its horrible to even think that but u have to think of her first if u can't even support her then give her up to give her a better life that way u can also have a good life i mean yes u made her and shes ur resposiblity but you have to think for her not your self if you know that you cna't take care of her then you have to give her up or you can jus tuff it and work ur butt off and make it...

good luck!!!

BB

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For blonde hair and blue eys what is usually the best color to wear in clothes .. i just want a little adive because my school starts tomrorow and i need some ideas .. THANKS

well depends on ur personality more then ur hair and eyes i would say if ur HAPPPY HYPER chick then i would go with bright colors and sooo on lol good luck with that!!


BB

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For the past few months, I have had a very uncomfortable pain around my tailbone.

It's mostly when I'm sitting a certain way. And I'm not entirely sure why and when it started but it bothers me.

I'm afraid this could mean something awful. My uncle told me that it could be cancer and, although he was 'joking', I was scared. What if it is?

Anyways. I'm afraid to go to a Doctor because I'm very uncomfortable with people touching me and, of course, he'll have to see my...butt. (Yes, I said butt...XD) Anyways...It makes me really uncomfortable to have someone, even a professional, touch me. But I'm afraid that if I don't go to the doctor, and it's something serious, I'll end up getting really sick and/or dying.

Thank you, in advance, for your help. This may seem silly, I know. I understand that I will get a lot of 'Just go to the freaken doctor, dumbass' but...it's really not quite that simple.

Thanks, again.

WOAH!! i have the same thing...but mines a little off to the right side and it hurts me when i sit for a long period of time....its weird...hmm...my grandma thought it would be a kidney infection 0_0 but i dont think it is cuase my friends mom is a doc and said i might have pulled something...hmm idk good luck with that and trust me i'm mad scared of going to the doc too!!!


hope u feel better shorry i really couldn't help this round!

BB

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Im think im soooo fat and no matter what I do nothing seems to work. Im 105 pounds 5'1 and 13 years old. isn't that really really over weight?? any ideas what i can do to loose weight before school starts?!

oh my fuckin god ur kidding right? u omg i dont even no how to explain this to u with out yelling first UR 13!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ur body is ok i no this is surprising and all BUT ITS STILL GROWNIG!!! adn 105 pounds?!?! honey pls ur like skinny as hell omg GET over you self ur fine if u said ur 205 then i would be like aww im here for u BUT i'm not ur 105 UR FINE UR GROWING UP stop worring about wat teh scale says and what the magazines are saying and go out side and play and be a normal child have fun DONT WORRIE ABOUT IT UR FREAKING SKINNY UR PROB ALMOST UNDER WEIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


ok i'm done


BB

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I don't get it. Disco is cool! If you don't know how to dance, chances are Disco works. Does anyone know how and why it died????

like everything dose it gets old and something better comes along....lol


later


BB

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I have dirty blonde-ish/light brownish hair and its a little bit passed my shoulder. Last summer, I used Sun In only once and when I went in the pool, the chlorine made the highlights stay in. Now you can see the highlights growing out. I really wanna dye my hair but I dont know what color I should dye it. I don't want to go dark. Can someone please help me with my problem?

Thanks

i totaly agree with teh other chick but make sure u go with somethin that fits ur style and skin tone cause if u get really tan or are really pale and u go dark its ganna look a little weird i think u should def go starwberry blonde its def cute but wild or u could do that with like a few lightish blonde hight lights i think that would look really cute


good luck

BB


*wish i had the guts to dye my hair but i wub my blonde hair LOL*

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hi. im 11 years old and the last time i weighed myself i was 120 lbs i dont know what to do! every summer i gain weight! please help! school is starting soon and i dont want to seem weirdly uneven by weight.i dont know if i can join a fitness club because iam too young. please help, ill rate you!

HONEY UR 11!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UR GANNA GAIN WEIGHT AND UR GANNA LOSE GET OVER IT ADN LOVE YOUR SELF!!!!!!!!! u HAVE YEARS TO WORRIE ABOUT THAT CRAP PLS PLS JUST LOVE YOUR SELF FOR WHO YOU ARE AND NOT WHAT TEH SCALE SAYS OMG U'LL BE FINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DONT TRY TO GROW UP SO FAST UR BODY IS DEVELOPING STOP WORRING ABOUT UR WEIGHT AND GO HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




AHHHHHHHHH


BB

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Ok.. ill tell you a little about myself .. I need a really cute sn but see what you can come up with.

I like the caribbean, i love surf, i love PacSun and i love roxy and all the lovely brands that exist there, I can be realllly girly, i love switchfoot... hmmm... idk anything original.. anything that some1 wont have....

and you can leave some things that have nothing to do with what i mentioned.. lol.. just be original...


XoXO
muCh LoVe..

surfinchicka04

lol

Caribbeanhoney


umm

underdasunchick

idk i like the first one lol


good luck BB

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okay, my ex bf had sex with this girl like 3 yrs younger than him about 6 months ago, she gave it up to him really easily, they werent even going out or nething..then he asked her out like 2 months later..but then he broke up with her after like acouple weeks..now i hear that they are back together as "fuck buddies"..do u think he really likes her, or is just using her?

sorry if i seem rude but WHY THE HELL DO U CARE!?
hes ur ex honey its no longer your problem let him do his thing and if he gets in trouble NOT UR PROBLEM let him go AND MOVE ON!!!


sorry dont mean to be blunt


good luck
BB

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hey my name is kate and i have a problem ...okay well i ride horses and this gives me alot of muscle in my legs and my stomach and arms and muscle is heavier then fat ..so ne ways i was at my friends house well call her "Jenna" and she saw the scale and it was kinda high for our age so she started calling me fat and stuff and i told her "jenna" look its all muscle frum riding my horse ! but she wont listen ! wut shud i do ?please help

slap that bitch..hah no umm i would either tell her to stop cause she isn't so perfect her self ORRRRRR i would just not be friends with someone who can't except who i am i mean comon if shes ganna treat u like that you really think shes a good friend? GOOD LUCK WITH THAT


BB

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tall people scare me.... what should i do?





LOL OLA BRIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hehehhehehehehh anyadvice?


HAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH ROTFL LYL

yes tall ppl are scary just give em a quick kick in the jewls and u'll be fine becky lol unless there girls lol



**THIS IS A JOKE*** ALL TALL PPL DONT HURT ME LOL

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