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hey!! my names nikki!! i LOVE to go shopping!! and i love the color pink! you could *def* call me very girly!! i love hanging out with all of my friends! I love the beach i think its the best place to be! I love just laying out and tanning, which means i LOVE summer! prolly because my birthday is august 4th! nething else you wanna know feel free to im me! Xrlchicka07X or email me! xrlchicka07x@aol.com
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im a 15 year old girl...ive only had 2 boyfriends and i havent gotten further than just kissing. i feel like i keep myself from getting too clse to people cuz im scared ill be bad at making out, etc.. i also think i havent done much with guys cuz i havent found the right one. i just want to be a little more experienced..any advice on what to do/how to do it? (link)
hey hun! dont be scared at all!! just go with the flow is what i say! hehe! just do it and it doesn't matter what the guy will think beacuse if he truly cares about you he won't care about lil things like that! everyone has to be experienced sooner or later and right around now is the age! just dont be scared! its fun!! a lot of fun!!!


I'm almost 17, and I've never had a boyfriend, Its not that theres something wrong with me, except for the fact that I'm shy, and now I kinda feel like everyone has someone except for me, and it gets lonely...
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hey hun! you have nothing to worry about! if your shy, that might be a little part of the problem! just get out there and be yourself! and have fun and don't care what anyone else thinks because if you do then you're not living your life to the fullest! there is a guy out there for you he will come sooner or later!


Hi i'm 14 years old. I'm going to be straight foward about this lol. Sometimes when I go to the bathroom there is a white liquid that appears in my underwear. What is it? And what does it mean? Thanks for your advice. (link)
hey hun! you have nothing to worry about! its a normal thing that happens to teenage girls! it just means your body is adjusting to different things and is becoming more sexual from things you see or hear!


does anyone know a good way to get your jumps better in cheerleading? i practice everyday and nothing seems to be working. help! (link)
hey hun! a good way would be to go yoga!! it *def* helps! it will make you more flexiable which will make you be able to jump higher!


K well there is this guy i like ALOT, he lives on my street and well he used to like me. he is 15 and im 13. Im moving in 3 days and everytime i ask him to hang out he doesnt want to. or he has something else. i dont know how to get his attention and i really want him to like me again. what should i do to get him to come here or him to invite me over. I know its maybe not as big of a problem as most ppls but well i never got a boy to lik me before and well this is one of my only chances.. how can i get him to like me in 3 days and to make him hang out with me today or tomorrow.?? PLEASE PLEASE HELP! (link)
hun, he's a waste of your time! if he doesn't want to hang out with you or do something with you its a his loss! not your's!! and if you're moving in 3 days then what is the point in getting him to like you if you aren't going to be able to see him as much anymore! I would say wait until you move to where you're going and find a nice guy there!


ok, well, before i go to school i want to look really good for the first day, and im scared because lately i have been gettin pimples on my face (not for the first time) and i want to know if anybody has any tips on how to clear your face, or products that work over night (and actually work) plz tell me!

second, i want my teeth to be white, but the white strips are like 20 dollars, does anybody know tips about that too! thanx alot! bye!

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hey hun! ok to look good for school, everyone gets pimples! its a normal thing that happens to every teeneager at some point in their lives so dont think you're the only one! but the best thing to do is in the morning when you get a shower use clean and clear in the shower and when you get out use the clean and clear lotion that comes in a tube and put it on your face! I would do that every other day because if you do it to much it could dry out your skin! and at night, if you wear makeup take off all your makeup and wash your face with the clean and clear that you use in the shower! to get your teeth white intsead of spending so much money on whiting that doesnt work just brush your teeth when you wake up, after lunch, after dinner, and before you go to bed! it will keep them very clean and helps to get them white!


Whenever i meet a new guy we always end up being pretty good friends. we get close and i feel so comfortable around them. this constantly happens and i can never get a boyfriend. what should i do? (link)
hey hun! Just be yourself! the right guy will come along sooner or later! there is somewhere out there i promise you that! when you meet another guy for the first time just talk to him and have a good time and ask him if he has a girlfriend and just talk to him about dating, ask him if he would like to go to the movie sometime or go to the mall!


ok. i dont smoke. But alot of people in my grade do. im only going into 8th grade and i turn 14 in january! alot of people that i know have at least tried smoking. recently i have been having these dreams that i smoked and i liked it..then i'd wake up. is this bad? should i have already tried it. i think want to. thx for any advice! (link)
hey hun! smoking isn't that great as people think it is to tell you the truth! so what if everyones tried it i mean, if everyone wanted to go jump off a cliff would you want to ? lol, i dont mean to sound rude or nething but do you get my point! smoking is just bad for you and can cause problems for you in the future! you could try it once and then you may not have those dreams anymore but then maybe you shouldn't because you could become addicted and that would not be very good! smoking is bad for you and you shouldn't wanna do it beacuse everyone else is!


Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

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hey hun! the only reason you are feeling like this is because he's away on vacation and you don't get to see him as much as you would like to. i'm sure though that one you see him and your with him again all of those feelings will come back! i would keep the realtionship! and if you're with him and the feelings dont come back then i guess you should break it off!


umm this is kinda embarrassing. so im just gonna let it out...i always get a boner for like no reason..(im a guy)...ill just be sittin there and all of a sudden..ITS THERE! i dont like it. sometimes it can show. is this a problem? is it normal? im cinfused! >>ILL RATE (link)
hey! well its a totally normal thing! you must just be a very sexual type of person and thats ok! when things like that happen in werid places just try and thing of something else and cover it up the best you can hun!


i know its early, but i already got my homecoming dress (GOOD sale) .. i dont know if i like it or not tho, im gonna decide today if i wanna keep it or return it. but one of the prblms is, it has a really low back that kinda like, laces up, but its open .. u know what i mean?? wat kind of bra can i wear with it .. its too low for a strapless one (but it would hafta be strapless) .. and the "backless" styles come like all the way down to your belly button and are kinda constricting, and i dont wanna be like that for homecoming .. so do you know of any other types that would hold up good for the whole night but still be comfy??
thanks TONS
xOxO*
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hey hun! to tell you the truth you dont haev to wear a brea with your homecoming dress! as long as its not to see throu it or nething like that! last year i know a ton of people that didnt wear bra's because they have backles dresses or it wouldn't look right with their dress! so it would be fine if you just didn't wear one! just be careful though that nothings going to pop out or nething! hehe




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