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Boyfriend


Question Posted Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:02 am

Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

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ixsAveDxmYsELf answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:33 pm:
that was the same thing that happened to me. but it was that i saw him too much. i'd go a little longer to see if anything changes, but if it really is painful for u, and you dont like him anymore, then break it off.

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MizAdviceGurl_04 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:02 pm:
okeyz well juzt let it go a lil while longer. if u still dont feel ne thing. then break up w/ him.

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snowboardbum answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:40 pm:
well id say you should see how u feel when you are with him, if you are happy and felt like u used to, then i would stay with him. if u dont feel the same brake it off easily, just be like "im sorry but i think we should just be friends" well i hope this helped

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xrlchicka07x answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:31 pm:
hey hun! the only reason you are feeling like this is because he's away on vacation and you don't get to see him as much as you would like to. i'm sure though that one you see him and your with him again all of those feelings will come back! i would keep the realtionship! and if you're with him and the feelings dont come back then i guess you should break it off! <3 ~Nikki~

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Tori_Dori answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:10 pm:
I think you should break now, cause you're not being honest with him if you don't feel the same way for him as he does for you.But hey~ that's my opinion.Hope I helped, 'n I hope it works out!*rate*
-tori

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XoCrYsTaLoX answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:08 pm:
hey shug! i really think you should go ahead and call it off because the longer you wait the more hes gunna feel for you and it will be harder on him! so juss go ahead and call it off so in the long run yall can still be friends and if you feel you have made a mistake by breakin up with him then just tell him that you have made a mistake and ask for a second chance! *good luck*

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LaxPlayer45 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:44 am:
What you should do is break up with him right now. b/c if u dont, ull only feel worse about yourself.and then the more he'll like you. U dont want to hurt him so you should break up now.

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xo_Meg_ox answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:41 am:
i wouldn't break it off if you plan on meeting him on vacation because then that might be a vacation from hell! lol if you still feel the same way at afterwards, then i think it would be unfair to both of you to pretend, but i do think that if/when you do break up with him that you should tell him why so that you can get his reaction to it

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pinkdevilx answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:38 am:
If you don't feel anything at all, you should probably just break it off, because its not fair to you or him if you stay in a relationship where you don't feel the same way about him as you first did, and if you break it off with him you have the chance to meet someone new that you could have strong feelings for...

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charmed-cherry21 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:25 am:
I would give him a little longer...

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xevilpenguinsx answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:15 am:
well when that happend to me i just taked to him and told him and b/c with me he was in love with my best friend so just talk to him.DO NOT BRAK ^ WITH HIM b/c if you do it will be a mistack and you will never forgive yourself

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Geenie_Baby answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:14 am:
stick with him and when you guys meet up make that a tyme for you to get back that feeling that you've lost for him. give him another chance youve got nothin ta loose an hang with him an do stuff together lyke go out ta tha mall er somethin jus lyke chill. thats happened ta me i stuck with him and we ended up goin out fur another lyke 7 months lol hope i helped and good luck xOxO

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MissJ1414 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:13 am:
just follow your first instenct [sp]. like i wouldn't hold on if you feel like letting go because that just means that your holding on to something that's not there then you start to show your true feelings and things start gettin nasty. then yall have a really bad break up.

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jbdreamer answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:10 am:
If you don't feel a connection after two months, you probably never will. A relationship can't be forced. If your in a good relationship it will feel natural. I think it is time to let him go.

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