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ex bf and his fuck buddy


Question Posted Monday August 2 2004, 10:17 pm

okay, my ex bf had sex with this girl like 3 yrs younger than him about 6 months ago, she gave it up to him really easily, they werent even going out or nething..then he asked her out like 2 months later..but then he broke up with her after like acouple weeks..now i hear that they are back together as "fuck buddies"..do u think he really likes her, or is just using her?

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PepeLePew answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:17 pm:
"Fuck buddies" isn't a good idea. In fact, it's gross. If they aren't ready to be parents, they shouldn't have sex, and from what I read, they aren't.

They could get a disease...

Anyway, it's wrong and he is just using her because "she easy." Talk to her about it.

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evilgogeta answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:48 am:
Fuck buddies =/= caring about someone. Just leave them be, it's not your problem.

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Mel answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 12:59 am:
sounds to me like he's using her. oh well, it's their mistake not yours, don't get caught up in the crazyness.

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Fish answered Monday August 2 2004, 11:25 pm:
Do you even have to ask? Of course he's using her. Otherwise, he would pursue an actual relationship and not just the friends with benifits deal. Nope..he's just using her.

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AllyKnows answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:26 pm:
now from what i can see, yes he is definitly using her. guys are some strange people i'm afraid that play with girl's minds. it's very sad but true. i'm sorry to say that some guys just act like they like a girl for sex and once its over they throw them away. but its not completely him, these girls are deciding to just throw away a precious thing they could never get back. if sex ever comes across your own mind you need to think: is this the person i would want to spend the rest of my life with? if yes, then im sure it would be alright to have sex with him but having sex before marriage in my opinion is very wrong.

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rustyshackleford answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:25 pm:
he is using her.

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Jane answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:24 pm:
*Using her of course. They're both using each other for pleasure. That's why there's "buddies" in fuck buddies.*

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CheerMMS24 answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:22 pm:
What do you think? "fuckbuddies" should pretty much explain it, Hes using her!!

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cheerchic2009 answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:20 pm:
i think he's using her. i mean who has a fuck buddy? it could be possible that: he's going through a tough time and just is having a hard time dealing with it. *Good Luck* ~sam~

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Mercy_x_Me answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:20 pm:
I TOTALLY think he was using her. He wanted nothing but a good piece of ass. In which case you should hold like ZERO respect for the child.. just ignore him.. and move on.. or better yet talk to the girl and tell her how degrading it is to be used just to screw around ((make sure thats if you know some more details and have things to back up your lecture))

or if you dont know her well enuff to do that.. you dont have to do anything but give him a dirty look and walk away with the thought that you just looked at the most disgusting guy that walks the planet...

but good luck xoxo

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LoViny0ux914 answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:20 pm:
i think a lil of both...bc he seems like he jus wants casual sex..but he DID ask her out..but im kinda leanin toward him usin her..

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iLjaG answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:20 pm:
Well, if he admits that he and her are just "Fuck buddies" then its probally not too serious. Find out what the girl thinks about her relationship with him, if she shrugs it off, then you will know that they are not serious at all.

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LilMia811 answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:20 pm:
he is most likely just using her

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citychicka04 answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:19 pm:
sorry if i seem rude but WHY THE HELL DO U CARE!?
hes ur ex honey its no longer your problem let him do his thing and if he gets in trouble NOT UR PROBLEM let him go AND MOVE ON!!!


sorry dont mean to be blunt


good luck
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