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i dont think im fat
hey my name is kate and i have a problem ...okay well i ride horses and this gives me alot of muscle in my legs and my stomach and arms and muscle is heavier then fat ..so ne ways i was at my friends house well call her "Jenna" and she saw the scale and it was kinda high for our age so she started calling me fat and stuff and i told her "jenna" look its all muscle frum riding my horse ! but she wont listen ! wut shud i do ?please help
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You are not fat!! Muscle is good but too much isn't. You should just try to run every day or something to tone the muscle down. Don't listen to " Jenna " she is defenitely wrong.
I'll pray for you.
Tonie.
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Kate-
If you know that when you ride your horse that it builds muscle, then it shouldn't matter what your friend thinks. Ignore her or just don't bring it up and if she still makes fun of you then you should know that you are better than that and shouldn't have to take it from her. hang out with other people or just talk to her or someone you trust and tell them your concerns, but ultimately just follow what you think is right.
I hope I was of help,
Cecgogirl
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just ignore her dont listen to what shes saying the only thing that matters is what u think and how u feel about urself. try telling her that u dont appreciate her calling u that and it hurts ur feelings and she should stop if shes a good friend im not sure exactly how to word that part but i think u get the idea cuz im not trying to say shes not a friend or anything but i hope i helped some
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slap that bitch..hah no umm i would either tell her to stop cause she isn't so perfect her self ORRRRRR i would just not be friends with someone who can't except who i am i mean comon if shes ganna treat u like that you really think shes a good friend? GOOD LUCK WITH THAT
BB
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Okay kate i am 15 and i weigh 140 pounds because i am a cheerleader and alot of my weight is muscle. You probably don't even look fat like my friends say i look like i weigh 120 but i weigh actually 140. Kate it is only numbers and who cares what your friend "jenna" says? she is probably jealous because you have more muscle then she does!
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She must not be a good friend. If your comfortable with how you look, then screw her. If she doesn't understand the idea behind.. muscle = heavier than fat... then she just isn't very smart, now is she. So, when she tries to make fun of you for being fat, make fuck of her for being stupid.
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if you dont have any problem w/ your weight then why should she? that sounds like the meanest thing a friend could do to you. talk to her about it and just say- i dont think im fat and it really upsets me when you say i am. anyways dont worry about your weight- worry about what you look like because your right- muscle does weigh more than fat
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She's just messing with you. Just tell her to shut up and make fun of her too. It's just having fun, don't get worked up about it.
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try telling her again that it's muscle, and if she doesn't listen, don't listen to her. you know you aren't fat and that it's muscle. you don't need her approval. you might want to find a new friend. no friend should be doing that to you. good luck!!! send me a message if you need more help.
xox Kristen
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if she keeps calling you fat and calling you names thats not really nicee of a friend to do......so tell her if she keeps calling you names dont be her friend
.....hope i helped....
ToRiE ~mwah~
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