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plz help
i have been with my boyfriend for 5 months but we are not together officialy itis supposed to be a flig but i realy like him and he admitted he has slepted with other lasses since we have been together i want to finish it but dont know how to or what to say but i realy like him and dont want to loose him but i dont him making a fool of me any longer plz help i will rate.
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You just have to get rid of him now before you get too much further into it. I know you may like him alot but it's better to get out in the beginning then to let yourself get hurt more.He doesn't deserve to have you. It's bad that he was dating other people but even worse that he's sleeping with them.. I really think you'd be better off without him. I know how hard it is to walk away from someone you really want to be with..I really do from personal experience but it's better in the end for you.
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What a situation the one you got there.Let me get the picture.
You were in a relationship with this boy,it hasn't gone official,you really like the boy,but while you got out,he dosn't only date other girls...he sleeps with them...three important factors here: 1.He saw the fling as an adventure,and if he slept with other girls that means he didn't want anything serious
2.Someone that has so many relationships is a player.You would probably get more hurt
3.Apparently,his head is not settled,you appear to have a difference with him,you like him enough for a relationship,but he likes being with alot of girls.With a difference like that is hard to have a long lasting relationship.
You are not making a fool of yourself,but sometimes even if it hurts its better to accept that is not ment to be,and move on.
You deserve better,and a relationship with someone like him will hurt more than not having one at all,since you would grew to love him and be attached.In my opinion,you should talk to him and tell him staightly that you want a serious relationship,that you understand you guys can't have one(if that is the case).Tell him that you are really liking him and that you should end the fling here and move on.
If he dosn't understand that would mean that he's not even worth to talk with.
Good Luck hope it helps
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hey, okay he isnt treating you right! you need to put your foot down and dump him. he must be really low to admit that he slept with other girls. i mean really how low can you get? thats my advice to you. cait ♥
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he isn't worth your time. if he's been with other girls while you're dating, he obviously doesn't respect you enough. you deserve better...dump him. don't feel bad if he's sad because he's being an idiot. i doubt he'll even care that much though. i mean, look at how he's been treating you.
♥ lAuRa
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Your flig ends here. You want to end this, or you want it to become a serious comitted relationship, and that's a tough decission in this situation. You can make the decission to end this yourself, but to turn this thing into a serious relationship you'll need his input.
I think the real question is if you will be able to trust him in a comitted relationship. If you think you can, and he wants to be in that kind of a relationship with you, why not giving it a shot? But if you think you can't, just tell him the truth with care.
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why put your self through this kinda pain??? if hes told u and admitted to sleeping with someone else that isn't fair on you. if anything your the fool get out of the relationship! hes not worth ur time!!!
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