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backstabber "friend"
Hey everyone, I need some advice on a situation I'm in. So me and this kid went out on and off for about a year and I was madly in love with him. I had never loved a boy that much in my entire life. So after the last time we broke it off, I was obviously devistated. I turned to one of my best friends to help me through it, and for some reason she wasn't very supportive of the whole deal. A few days later the two of them were all over each other and hanging out on a regular basis. It killed me to see them together. So I pulled my friend aside and had a long talk with her about it. She promised me on our friendship that she would never ever go out with him, because she knew how much I loved him. I was so relieved, but not convinced. By the end of that month they were going out. I was rippin mad at my so-called "friend" that I wouldn't talk to her or look at her for days. We finally talked about it and she apologized, but it didn't change my feelings. Now, about 2 months later, they have broken up, but I still have so much hate for her. I consider a friend someone who I can trust, and I have lost all of mine for her. I don't even feel the need to talk to her anymore ever again because of what she did to me. Am I overreacting? I'm not gonna lie about how I feel, but I don't think I should be friends with a lying bitch. Should I let this ruin our friendship? Or was it never even there ..thankss <3
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There is no reason why you shouldn't feel how you do. You're friend is a liar. If she made a promis on your friendship and broke it, then she obviously thinks shit of your friendship. There is no point in becoming friends with her again because there is no way you can trust her. If she did this to you once she will probably do it again.
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Im sorry that ur friend did that to u. U arent overreacting cuz ur friend shouldnt have done a thing like that to u. If she liked him she could have told u to begin with instead of lie to u. If u still wanna be friends with her then go ahead and be friends with her but if u think she would do somethin like that again then i wouldnt be friends with her bcuz u cant trust her.
~*~shannon~*~
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You are definitely NOT over reacting. You feel like you were dumped twice, once by your ex boyfriend and then blatantly betrayed and lied to by your best friend. No matter how much you try to forgive her for what she did, it will always be a shadow on your friendship. Also, there is a good chance she'll betray you again. Don't give her the opportunity.
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welll this is a tough situation but yes i thinnk u should not b friends with her (my opinion) b/c if she new u liked him then she went out with him wat kind of friend is that? ya know? and even if they did break up that doesnt mean they wont get back together u better lose that friend fast b/c she obvious isnt a true friend b/c she went out with ur ex that u still like LOVE!!!!were u and this friend friends along time? if not then lose her b/c shes a bitch like u said and no ur not overreacting i would b the same way and it looks to me that ur friendsship was never there well if u need nething else send me sumtin to my inbox!well lyl!
hope i helped
xoxo
sweetheart00
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no friend would have let herself gotten that attached to someone that you were in love with, and even after you talked to her twice. me myself, would probably not talk to her for a long time, since yo udo need trust for a relationship. maybe im over reacting to but i think you were right with what you said
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