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Still In Love With the Ex
My ex and I were friends before we got together in March. We talked a lot and got along great but I never really found myself interested in him until one night when we were flirting over AIM and he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend.
Anyways...As we went on, he seemed less and less interested in me until he, finally, broke up with me. It wouldn't have been that bad had I not fallen in love with him. And he had, in turn, told me that he loved me. He would send me emails signed 'Forever Yours' and 'Love You Always'. And his dumping me made me feel gullible.
After he dumped me, I stopped talking to him. Recently, he told me he wanted to be friends. And he also told me that he's loved me ever since he broke up with me but that he didn't want to hurt our friendship. But a friend told me that he LIKED me but didn't want a RELATIONSHIP with me.
I have a boyfriend that I'm happy with but I find myself still having feelings for my ex. Who doesn't want anything. What do I do?
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Stay with the guy yuo are with now. The other guy is jsut playing too many mind games. Not worth it.
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well hun i was the same way and the same thing happend to me like just exactly wat u said happened to me and when my bf broke up with me he said i hated u and stuff like that and then he cam back saying i want to b friends and so i said ok but then i realized that ireally didnt want to b his friend and i told him that i want to wait awhile to b friends again so u might want to do that. and its obvious he must not really like u ( im not sure ) but do yall talk like at all? if u dont thats ok for awhile then like after like 3 - 4 weeks after the break ( or whenever ur ready) up u can say to him that ok i want to b friends now then u can wait a couple of months and see if yall still want to go out go out and about ur new boyfriend well if u love him too i guess go out with him until u kinda get sick of him (i didnt mean to say that in a mean way) then u can build ur friendship back up with ur ex and then lets see if he wants to have a relationship and if not well yall will b just GREAT friends.
lyl hope i helped
xoxo
sweetheart00
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i, myself, seem to always feel more for bf's and the men who hurt me, but when i break up with them it doesnt effect me. if hes hurt you once before, hell probably do it again, and if your happy with the man now that dont hurt him at least. this X must have not even been that good of a guy if he broke up with you, you gotta think of it like that, and thoses feelings, are there probably because he hurt you, and because you werent able to break up with him on your terms
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