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Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!
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trust me your not a lesbo. When u are nervous around guys that means you got a thing for them. If u think u like girls don't worry.. its a stage EVERYONE goes through..
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Don't worry about it! A lot of girls are like this and it probably is just a phase... And if you feel nervous around guys that might be a sign you like them... Girls are always more comfortable around other girls! Plus, I've liked guys for only a week before, it doesn't mean a thing..
Hope I helped!
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ok well how old are u?if ur like 11-13 its prolly just a phase...u might not have the hormones that triger to guys yet and ur just used to being around girls. its not that big of a deal u might just not have matured as fats as some others....NO BIGGY!!
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well a lot of people feel that way at some point in their lifes, i think its just because girls are used to being with girls all the time, and their more comfortable with that. It could be a phase. i dont think youd be lesbian, if you do like guys. But you could be bi maybe. But since the thought of marrying a girl makes you sick then it might just be a phase.
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Well it could veRy well be a phase! Just do what you'Re comfoRtable with foR now! You'll figuRe it out in time!! I wish you the veRy best!! Hope I helped!! =D
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Alot of girls go through a phase when they are questioning their sexuality. It's normal. There is a slight possibility that you might be bi-sexual, but it's too soon to tell. Just be patient and you'll be able to figure it out for yourself.
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It could possibly just be a phase! But you could also be a lesbian.. i dont relly think their is anything wrong w/ beiing a lesbian ((although im not :P)) Just give yourself time.. if u develop stronger feelings then i guess you might be a lesbian..
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No, i don't think you are. If the thought of marrying a girl instead of a guy makes you sick ... and a ot of girls go through this faze. It's just right now, girls are always there for you, when i guy isn't. Look, if you really, wanna know, experiment with it.
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I'm pretty sure its just a phase. Girls are naturally nervous around guys anyway &are gonna feel more comfortable around other girls.
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It might just be a phase. Like if you think its gross to get married to a girl, and if you think its gross to make out/have sex with a girl, then its *probably* just a phase.
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ok i dont think u have anything to worry about cuz EVERY GIRL gets nervous/emberrassed around guys its like an instant reaction or something usually that means u like a boy when u get nervous around him and ur like o man should i of said that stuff! lol dont worry and u feel more confertable around girls because u are 1 u kno i mean u can talk to them and tell all ur secrets and do girl stuff like hair make up and stuff thats all i think it is!! well i hope i helped bu bye
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Alot of teens question their sexuality (secretly, usually not outwardly) because it is a confusing time in your life and your hormones are all messed up. Girls get embarassed in front of guys, and vice versa. Its normal. It doesn't mean youre a lesbian or gay. In my opinion, you choose youre sexuality. So if you think youre a lesbian, its because you have chosen to be. But I dont think youre a lesbian. I think youre probably just confused and not sure what you're sposed to be doing in life right now. Hang in there, don't worry!! Everything will turn out okay, doll.
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It could mean your turning into a lesbian but also it may not. I feel nervous around guys and thats just becuz im shy around them but i still like 'em (not all of them though!! hah) give it time and dont be afraid of it if you are theres nothing wrong with being gay. hope i helped ya.any other questions feel free to ask, or IM me at JustASweetKiss76
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Probably just a phase.. =/ id stop hanging around girls a lot for a lil bit and hang around wit guys more =) i get nervous around guys too! dont worry about it! =) it'll be okay!!!
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you could be but the again it might be a thing your going through to determine your sexuality. you might not be a lesbian you might be bisexual.but think you should explore a little and soon enough you will figure it out. i hope i helped. **Tink**
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hey...i kno wut u mean i say that it is just a phase and once you get older u will get over it n if u dont then u might be but good luck
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how long as the feeling been going on for? I think its only a phase. When you meet a great guy and start talking to him..the other feelings will go away. I think you just really want a relationship right now..dont worry..mr. right will come along. Your feeling comfortable around girls because their your friends and every girl feels a lil more comfortable around girls. If it keepss up with you..then theres a chance you may be a bi or a lesbian..but thats ok! People are much more accepting these days of gays then ever before..so i think you`ll be fine.
-dont worry about it..just keep living your life and you`ll naturally discover if you are or not
hope i helped!
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You might think that you're liking girls more if you feel weird around guys. Most girls do.
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it could just be a phase where you dont like guys for a while it just depends on how you are:P but if you really like girls and if you like guys you could be bi or if you really do like girls only and not guys then your gonna have to find out and if you do find out your a lesbian you could either change how you are or you can just accept the fact your are a lesbian and go with it but if it makes you feel sick and if you turn out to be bi then marry a guy and get a girlfriend and such:P im sure the guy wont mind much(A) lol i hope i helped
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Ok.... u feel like you like a guy for a week? well if ur a lesbian,u'd feel like u want to make-out w/ girls.. i wont say nething else (i will) u can im me an AIM at :ATINARAT4ever and yahoo at: KirksSkater
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Umm, I think there is a chance of you being a lesbian but it's probably just a phase. You probably think you are more attracted to girls because you know what girls think. It's hard to explain but are you getting it a little bit? But don't worry, you are bound to escape this phase. I hope I helped and if you have any other questions, feel free to drop them in my inbox and I'll be glad to answer them :)
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