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OKAY i just got the sims 2 game and im like sooooo confused!!! when i want to buy items it will let me do it except it won't let me click on the appliances icon and the plumbing icon so therefore i can't have food in a refridgerator and i can't have any bathroom stuff! yea i really need that in its house!!! so if you have any idea why it won't let me click that icon that is like faded just tell me please! im pretty much desperate now!!! I"LL RATE ALL 5's FOR ANYONE WHO HELPS ME OUT!! thanks a bunch! P.S. i don't think my game is messed up or broken so don't tell me that (link)
maybe you don't have enough money and so you cannot buy anything in that category.. otherwise redownload the game.. simple as that


hey on sims2 my water is always red............does anyone know how to change this? (link)
i noticed that on my friends but its not on mine.. idk what to do tho sryy.. try redownloading the game


How do you minimize the Sims 2?? (link)
ahh thats an easy one.. alt ctrl snf esc.. it might take a couple tries but it works!
hope i helped


People say I'm skinny, but I think I could lose weight. I'm 13/f, and weight 108 pounds. Is this a little overweight? (link)
omg you are no where to overweight.. depending on how tall you are.. im 13/f and im 5/6 and weigh 125.. don't worry hun!



15/f
I no some people might think I am gross for say this but I am afraid I am a lesbian... but I am not sure. I like this one guy (from the inside out) but then I see a girl and think she is hot. I sometimes even have dreams about me making out with a girl. If I am one, I am afraid my close friends know by the way I act and maybe even my mom. Please help me to find out if I am one, and I don’t think it is an identity crises. and maybe give me a website to do some research. Thanks
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your not a lesbo!! omg everyone goes through this phase.. you cannot comntrol your dreams and all girls judge girls .. even when i see a girl i say shes pretty or i wanna be like her shes hott... don't worry about it let it pass..

hope i helped you "little" problem..


I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!

Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!

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trust me your not a lesbo. When u are nervous around guys that means you got a thing for them. If u think u like girls don't worry.. its a stage EVERYONE goes through..

JeSs


i really need help see i can't get in front of people to present a project in front of my class i start sweating and feel like throwing up and i can't breath and everytime i go up to present a project everybody could see that i am nervous because the way my voice sounds if anybody could give me good advice i really really need it or i will be stuck like this forever. i rate high help a person that is in need PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!! (link)
I felt the same way as you when i ran for vice president of my school. All you need to do hun is practice your speech over and over again. Do it in front of a mirror. Then take it a step farther by doing it in front of your parents and family. that way when u get up there u know what to say and u will be less nervous... hope i helped you

JeSs


can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old? (link)
OMG YESS.. thats illegal!


ok I like this one guy named Ben and he likes me also and weve been friends since the first day of school and Ive liked him since then well it slowly turned into love. And I still am in love with him. Sounds like nothings wrong right>> Problem I just got asked out by this guy named Ryan and I dont like him because most of my feelings are for Ben and Ben and Ryan are friends and Im going out with Ryan. Ryan is so much different from Ben. Ryan smokes pot, hes weird to hang around with, and im never happy around him
On the other hand Ben hes cute,funny, and Im happy when im around him, gives me hugs all the time!! And is such a sweetie. So this should be easy but its not!! I dumped Ryan yesterday (thursday) and got back together with him today OUT OF GUILT and then before 6th period I felt like I made the biggest mistake of my life!! AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I was planning on telling Ryan that I dont want to be his girlfriend because I dont know him all that well and WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY O i dont want to go out with you because Im in love with your friend even though u say you love me Ok bye! what should I do and I would like guys to answer this but girls are fine TOO!1
please dont delete this I really really need help
LOVE Ash (link)
you got yourself into this one deep. Wait three days or so.. dump him say its not working out.. and then in a week ask out ben.. i know its hard but u got to give it space or else it will seem like your a player... don't want that


Jess


i have two best friends. one i've known since middle school...so that's about 4 yrs now. and now i also have a new best friend...whom i met in high shcool. they're both wonderful and i'm so glad i have them but there's one problem. they can't stand each other for anything! when i'm with one, she's talking shit about the other. and when i'm with the other one, she's talking shit about her. they both want me to take their own sides and be more loyal to one then the other. ahhhh! what do i do!?!??! HELP! (link)
Ha, i was in this situation before. Just say uh huh sure to each other them. If it comes down that they ask u when the other one's around just say its between you two and walk away.. there is nuttin else you can do sorry to say

Jess


okay i was just wondering if it's normal that i 14 and dont have my period....i was at the doctors and he said that hey will have to investagrate to see wuts wrong if i dont start sooner but then again in my eyes hes a gay doctor and i dont like or will ever listen to him. but from experienced ppl and everything is it normal that i haven't started? i will be 15 soon in january. thank you guys in advance. (link)
Don't worry, or listen to your gay doctor. My mom was telling me a story and she did not get hers until she was 17. I got mine at 12 so it all depends on when your ready, not when your parents get it or anything else. It will happen DO NOT be in a rush


OMG...i really need to help my friend she needs help fast! she is 14 and she had sex with her boyfriend and she just found out that she iz pregnant. please dont leave advice like "oh she shouldn't have done that because she is a slut" and stuff because we really dont need to hear that and she isn't a slut because she really loves her boyfriend! she doesn't know how to tell her mom and she has no clue what to do she is just crying and crying and i'm trying to comfort her but what should i say (link)
There is nothing to say. Acually, you cannot hind this fact from her mother for very long because when you are pregnant you don't look fat u can tell you're pregnant. SO tell her now before it gets crazy so that an abortion can happen idmetially! I def. don't agree with abortion but in this situation it has to be done unless your mom wants to care for the baby while you finish school. Also an abortion would be good now because the baby can turn out deformed because of your age and you coudl harm yourself giving birth. Also the sooner this happens the sooner your friends will not know about it and the people in your town so your rep. stays clear.


i dont like my bro he is soo annoying.I love him but he always wants to copy me.He steals my cds and everything else of mine. PLease don't tell me he is looking up to me because I've heard that advice before. When we're in the car he'll do anything he can to annoy me i hate it. Please help me get this kid under control! (link)
I am the youngest of two older brothers, like your brother when i was younger i always wanted to do everything exactly like them. I thought they had the coolest life. They got to go to the movies by themselves and then they got to do everything. I would bug them sometimes just to get attention. Maybe he just wants your attention. Now tho my lil cousin follows me around and does everything i did to my brothers to me and i can see why they and you don't like it. Next time he does something make it seem like it doesn't bother you. That always got me mad when my brothers ignored me. GOOD LUCK!


Okay I got The Sims 2 and like where it is supposed to show you the picture of your family and then also where it is supposed to show you the picture of the sim you are playing as it doesn't show it. My friend has the game too and it shows up on hers. Does anyone know how I can get it to show up? That'd be great.

*-*Haleigh Ann*-* (link)
I have that game too.. ITS SOO AWESOME. if the thing does not show up then ( i know how long and borning it is) try redownloading it. If that does not work bring it to the game store where you bought it from and say there is a prob. Ask your friend also if she cna help you figureit out.



ok so my 2 best friends are on the country team along with the rest of our "group" well i wasnt bcuz i got hurt so i couldnt, well now im better and the coach asked me why i was runnin and i told him that i wanted to but i was hurt so i couldnt, well now i really wanna, but i would feel bad that if i did join, not only would i be terrible, but i would be joining about 1/2 way through the season...so i dont know if i shoud join or not...help me plz! (link)
Well, why would you feel bad for joining. its not like if u join someone gets kicked off. Try joing and if the coach says no then just lay off for the rest of the year. You have nothing to lose!



15/m
I'm having trouble with my step-mother because she makes it painfully obvious that she doesn't want me around. I've got one brother one step-brother and two step-sisters, and me and my real brother always get put down and have to do all the work in the house.She always complains at me and blames me for everything she also treats me horribly and she makes me feel sooo depressed...

I know this sounds like a whole lot of complaining but I am a sensitive person and I need to sit my dad down and have a talk with him about my step-mother. Her complaining has gotten me to the point of attemped suicide a couple of times. But I can never see him because he is always at work and when he is home I can't build up the courage to sit him down to talk. :( (link)
This sounds like a CInderella Story to me. Either she is reading to many fairy tales or shes's just plain wicked. Maybe you and your "real" brother should BOTH sit down with your dad and if he is not willing to listen do what the Brady Bunch did and have a whole family meeting and see where that goes. Remember suicide isn't the answer. You feel the pain for a short period of time but everyone aroudn you feels it for much longer. GOOD LUCK!



hey peeple! i need some help BADLY! my boyfriend just broke up with me last tuesday and we have been going out for 4 months and he hurt me really really bad... he sayd he doesnt wana go out with me agen and he hurts me feelings alot... i stil kinda like him, i dont miss him, i miss the person i thot he was. he hurt me so bad, and now im actually KINDA starting to get over him, i like this guy and he likes me and we are going to go out and i think this is a really good choice because this boy is WAY WAY WAYYYY nicer then my old boyfriend was...except now i have a bad reputation for going out with this guy because he has slept with a few thousand girls and every1 thinks im a slut so b4 i had friends and then i just had my boyfriend and now it feels like i have no1... but maybe if i go out wityh this guy then things will get better, i dont really need aton of advice but im just having problems in my life ...
thanks Xox0XoX0!~ (link)
Don't worry about what your friends think. Talk to them and tell them how ou feel about it and tell them that you are not a slut and that you are not sleeping with him. I mean if they were really your friends they would believe you. But if that boy tries anything on you, break it off with him idimitally, unless thats what you want





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