hey peeple! i need some help BADLY! my boyfriend just broke up with me last tuesday and we have been going out for 4 months and he hurt me really really bad... he sayd he doesnt wana go out with me agen and he hurts me feelings alot... i stil kinda like him, i dont miss him, i miss the person i thot he was. he hurt me so bad, and now im actually KINDA starting to get over him, i like this guy and he likes me and we are going to go out and i think this is a really good choice because this boy is WAY WAY WAYYYY nicer then my old boyfriend was...except now i have a bad reputation for going out with this guy because he has slept with a few thousand girls and every1 thinks im a slut so b4 i had friends and then i just had my boyfriend and now it feels like i have no1... but maybe if i go out wityh this guy then things will get better, i dont really need aton of advice but im just having problems in my life ...
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advicegiver789 answered Monday September 27 2004, 5:59 pm: sure just go out with this guy but dont go out with him if its just to get friends back but ask him out and hell most likely say yes so just go out with him
hope it works out
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xXxpinky615xXx answered Monday September 27 2004, 5:44 pm: sweetie, you sound JUST like me when my ex broke up with me. it was pretty much the same situation. He treated me like complete shit (sorry for language) and he cheated with any chick and every chick he could get his hands on. He cheated on me with a 17 year old chick (We were both 14) and from what i hear, he got her pregnant. My reputation got so messed up because of going out with that guy. He embarassed me so bad, i'd be sitting in the hallways crying my eyes out because of what i'd hear about him and he'd just walk right past me and not give a damn. He told everyone that we had sex (which we didn't) he told everyone i gave him head (which i didn't) he told everyone all these things that never happened and now i have a reputation of being the slut of my school. Don't listen to what other people say. You know it's not true so that's all that matters. And i DO think that if you start going out with this guy things will brighten up for you. That's what happened with me. I found a new boyfriend and i couldn't be happier. I hope you get over this asshole (sorry again for language) because you don't deserve to be treated like that. No one does. Hope this helped! Good luck hun! if you need anything just drop one in my box.
Jersey_Blonde_16 answered Monday September 27 2004, 5:35 pm: Don't worry about what your friends think. Talk to them and tell them how ou feel about it and tell them that you are not a slut and that you are not sleeping with him. I mean if they were really your friends they would believe you. But if that boy tries anything on you, break it off with him idimitally, unless thats what you want
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