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I no some people might think I am gross for say this but I am afraid I am a lesbian... but I am not sure. I like this one guy (from the inside out) but then I see a girl and think she is hot. I sometimes even have dreams about me making out with a girl. If I am one, I am afraid my close friends know by the way I act and maybe even my mom. Please help me to find out if I am one, and I don’t think it is an identity crises. and maybe give me a website to do some research. Thanks
Beccers_boo answered Monday November 22 2004, 1:14 am: holy curd i know so many peopel who haeve had this problem. I dont htink it is gross at all. You might be bi... where you like girls and guys... and there is nothing wrong with that. I thkn some girls are pretty... but not in that way. but i am not a lesbian. I tell all my friends pretty i mean it is a confidence booster. Just becuasr you think someone is pretty doesnt mean you have feelings for them. you really nned to ask your self woul dyou feel comfortable dating a girl kissing one? also i recamed
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FleXxY_SeXxY answered Sunday November 21 2004, 9:59 pm: well
the funny thing is that i look at girls too sometimes and well i think there pretty and u know ...but believe me sometimes its just hapends and that DOES NOT MEAN YOUR LEZBIAN [ FleXxY_SeXxY's advice column | Ask FleXxY_SeXxY A Question ]
Ryan_10 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 8:19 pm: well, only if you actually have sex wit her, or kiss her then thats how you become a lesbo...................y you give me a one! Just becuase you dont like that your not a lesbo dont meen you have to take it out on me.....anyway a web site is www.ask.com you type in Are you a lesbian( i sware it works) [ Ryan_10's advice column | Ask Ryan_10 A Question ]
Jersey_Blonde_16 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 5:11 pm: your not a lesbo!! omg everyone goes through this phase.. you cannot comntrol your dreams and all girls judge girls .. even when i see a girl i say shes pretty or i wanna be like her shes hott... don't worry about it let it pass..
xolilabbs214ox answered Sunday November 21 2004, 5:05 pm: hey,
i have read in a book, that everyone has crushes of the same sex. i dont think u r gaye.... but if u are .... thats okay. if you like guys, then ur not gaye. you just mite like a gurl.
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HunniBunni answered Sunday November 21 2004, 5:00 pm: I dont think your a lesbian per say but your probably bi sexual, don't have a heart attack that your a bi. I'm not one though, but everyone changes and it just shows that your finding the real you. But yeah I'm pretty sure your bi sexual don't go crazy on your self though. Hepe I helped !
-Bianca [ HunniBunni's advice column | Ask HunniBunni A Question ]
neanduryn answered Sunday November 21 2004, 4:58 pm: I think maybe fifteen is a bit young to be considering your sexual identity, I think maybe you should wait a few years before attaching a label to yourself. If you feel you must have to label yourself; mark it down as "Experimenting." Now, don't get me wrong and think that I am saying you should go out and "try" something. I am simply saying that you should entertain the ideas that come into your head, and really think about how that idea makes you feel, how it would affect you, and how it would affect the people you love. You may still be too young to understand that when a person makes sexual decisions, it will affect almost every part of your life; for good or bad. [ neanduryn's advice column | Ask neanduryn A Question ]
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