Question Posted Saturday September 25 2004, 3:04 pm
i dont like my bro he is soo annoying.I love him but he always wants to copy me.He steals my cds and everything else of mine. PLease don't tell me he is looking up to me because I've heard that advice before. When we're in the car he'll do anything he can to annoy me i hate it. Please help me get this kid under control!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Jersey_Blonde_16 answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 1:15 pm: I am the youngest of two older brothers, like your brother when i was younger i always wanted to do everything exactly like them. I thought they had the coolest life. They got to go to the movies by themselves and then they got to do everything. I would bug them sometimes just to get attention. Maybe he just wants your attention. Now tho my lil cousin follows me around and does everything i did to my brothers to me and i can see why they and you don't like it. Next time he does something make it seem like it doesn't bother you. That always got me mad when my brothers ignored me. GOOD LUCK! [ Jersey_Blonde_16's advice column | Ask Jersey_Blonde_16 A Question ]
~AshHedgepath~ answered Sunday September 26 2004, 12:58 pm: well.. you cant really do ANYTHING about it. he probably thinks its cool to listen to music that older kids listen to so he will be "cool" among his friends. theres seriously nothing u can do but hide your cds. [ ~AshHedgepath~'s advice column | Ask ~AshHedgepath~ A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Saturday September 25 2004, 5:03 pm: Honestly, he probably does copy you becasue he looks up to you. And as for him doing everything in his will, to annoy you, well thats just what brothers do. he will grow out of it. but it won';t hurt to pop him in the ehad every now and then when he really gets to you. :) [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
Laura answered Saturday September 25 2004, 4:17 pm: I used to do that to my older sister. She's 6 years older than me and I know I annoyed her, but really, I just wanted attention. *shrug* Now, I'm 13 and she's 19 and we're good friends. You just have to be patient and eventually he'll grow out of it, and won't care about your attention.
Courtney answered Saturday September 25 2004, 3:25 pm: Well, I can only give you a natural answer because, this is a natural question which is a good thing. Naturally, brothers and sisters will annoy each other and naturally brothers and sisters will take things without asking the others permission . You know that when he annoys you that it really bugs you, but you have to above that . You're the oldest, and he probably wants to have a little fun . Ignore him , and I KNOW you've done this before. Be above him, and YOU'LL NEVER BE ABLE TO GET YOUR BROTHER OR SISTER UNDER CONTROL . Thats just the way it is and the way it's always been . One day, you'll be glad and proud that that kid is your brother . Trust me on this you don't want to loose him . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Saturday September 25 2004, 3:13 pm: First all of all, I want to know how old he is because my brother is 8 and if he's older you could try talking to him and telling him that you are bothering him without boiling over. My brother used to have a streak like that. So he will soon grow out of it it might take a while though. :) GL!
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