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Member Since: September 27, 2004
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Hey every1. Um my problem is a little embarrassing. I have this boyfriend that I have been going out with for a while now. I really like him, but he wants me to do all this sexual stuff. I don't want to do it but everytime I say no, he (its pretty embarrassing)tickles me under my arms. I am really ticklish in my armpits and each time i say no, he holds me down and tickles me. No matter how many times i tell him not to, he keeps at it. I really like him and I dont want to break up with him, but I cant stand much more sexual stuff and tickling. Please help me! Thanks!! Jen, 16 (link)
I kind of know what your going through. I have this boyfriend that I really like but is very into sex. I don't want to have sex right now because its too early into the relationship, but he keeps on insisting. Sometimes I think he might go to someone else for it behind my back since he wants it so bad. But if I were you, then next time he tickles you just tell him to stop, and be serious. Tell him that you really like him, but your not into doing sexual things with him right now and if he was caring he would understand and let you have your space. I hope it works out!


Ok theres this guy lets call him,um, "todd"... well "todd" is in my science class..today he was like ur really quiet n i was like not all tha time he was like yeah i know i saw you at lunch today laughin n talkin n smiling n stuff..n we kept talkin..n then he was like "ur so sexy,perfect for me" i kno its a song...but he sings it everytime we talk...is he tryna tell me something? does he like me?
Sry its long ill rate good if you answer (link)
It sounds a lot like this kid likes you. Especially if he only sings it to you. Talk to him and ask him why he always sings that song...does he show any other signs that he likes you?


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I'm having trouble with my step-mother because she makes it painfully obvious that she doesn't want me around. I've got one brother one step-brother and two step-sisters, and me and my real brother always get put down and have to do all the work in the house.She always complains at me and blames me for everything she also treats me horribly and she makes me feel sooo depressed...

I know this sounds like a whole lot of complaining but I am a sensitive person and I need to sit my dad down and have a talk with him about my step-mother. Her complaining has gotten me to the point of attemped suicide a couple of times. But I can never see him because he is always at work and when he is home I can't build up the courage to sit him down to talk. :( (link)
This is a difficult situation. You need to get the courage to sit them both down together with your brother also, and confront them. Have your brother by your side to help you along. Don't say much to your step mother just to your dad. Don't let her yell or walk away, and show your dad that his wife is hurting you in many ways. Maybe bring a small tape recorder with you and record one of your conversations where she is being mean to you to show to your father. I hope I helped.




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