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Torture
Hey every1. Um my problem is a little embarrassing. I have this boyfriend that I have been going out with for a while now. I really like him, but he wants me to do all this sexual stuff. I don't want to do it but everytime I say no, he (its pretty embarrassing)tickles me under my arms. I am really ticklish in my armpits and each time i say no, he holds me down and tickles me. No matter how many times i tell him not to, he keeps at it. I really like him and I dont want to break up with him, but I cant stand much more sexual stuff and tickling. Please help me! Thanks!! Jen, 16
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Tickling seems like a friendly, funny thing for someone to do - but it is not. Your boyfriend is trying to force you into sexual acts.
Holding you down and tickling you when he knows you don't like it - that's his punishment for you. He's saying, 'Have sex with you, or I'll keep punishing you.'
You need to have a serious talk with him. Tell him a firm 'no' about the sex, and tell him the tickling has to stop...you don't think it is funny.
If you say these things and his beahviour does not improve, then it's obvious he does not respect you. You'll need to break up with him - having respect for yourself means you HAVE to - and then find someone else worthy of your affections.
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Just tell him if he love you than he should stop.Tell him that you are sick and tired of it. Tell him it is not funny when he do that and say it with a serious face if you can!
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Umm ok ur 16 and U dont want to have sex what is wrong with you?>??
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juss tell him what u think and juss be like "i dont like all this sexual stuff that u do, so can you just stop?" er sumthin. and if he doesn't...break ^ with him.
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I kind of know what your going through. I have this boyfriend that I really like but is very into sex. I don't want to have sex right now because its too early into the relationship, but he keeps on insisting. Sometimes I think he might go to someone else for it behind my back since he wants it so bad. But if I were you, then next time he tickles you just tell him to stop, and be serious. Tell him that you really like him, but your not into doing sexual things with him right now and if he was caring he would understand and let you have your space. I hope it works out!
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tell him what ur feeling, and tell him that if he keeps pressuring u, that u'll do sumtin. i no u don't wanna break up wit him, but he might take it to dat level where it's serious. gooud luk...
flirty:)
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I think that you should just tell him that you are not ready for a sexual relationship and if he doesn't understand that than either have one of your friends or one of his to talk to him about it. Or just let him know how you feel. If he doesn't back off than I think you should find a new boyfriend. «3
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tell him plain and simple that you dont liek to be tickled and that you want to take a break with the sexual stuff right now
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