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Question Posted Sunday October 10 2004, 12:17 am

can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

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Additional info, added Sunday October 10 2004, 12:17 am:
in florida.

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KaTeLiZaBeTh answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 9:07 pm:
yes...especially if you have done something even kiss this person. if you've done more, its considered satiatory<---sorry im a HORRIBLE speller:-)...rape...
<3.kate

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marchingbandbaby answered Sunday December 26 2004, 2:01 pm:
i was talking to my friends about this subject, if your 18 and you date a 15 year old, its fine, but 18 year olds can't date people under 15. stupid i know, but thats what the law is here in GA at least...

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LostCanadian23 answered Friday December 24 2004, 4:44 pm:
yes.

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loochalo answered Friday December 24 2004, 2:22 pm:
well when your 18, your an adult now so you could get sent to jail, so yes you probally will get in trouble.

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gcfreakadoodle answered Sunday December 19 2004, 1:26 am:
yes once you reached 18 anyone under 18 you cant date sry

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xoxbreexoxo answered Thursday December 16 2004, 8:48 pm:
yes

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xplayb0ycutiexx answered Tuesday November 16 2004, 1:55 pm:
yeah.. and that's nasty.. u can go to jAiL!

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PinoyBoi answered Monday October 25 2004, 5:25 pm:
hey..HELL YEA! thats illegal..you should watch out you could go to jail for sagitory rape! run!
plus thats just pathetic.
--Pinoyboi

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xoWiLdnPiNkxo answered Monday October 18 2004, 10:58 pm:
definatly. it's illegal.

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niinax3 answered Monday October 18 2004, 8:37 pm:
just think... r kelly

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kissablefunk answered Saturday October 16 2004, 3:21 pm:
it is just wrong...

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jazz82289 answered Saturday October 16 2004, 12:58 am:
YES! THAT IS SOOOO ILLEGAL!!!!!!!!!

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Jersey_Blonde_16 answered Friday October 15 2004, 10:54 pm:
OMG YESS.. thats illegal!

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l0vEeyAhH answered Friday October 15 2004, 8:52 pm:
yes...a major (18 year old)and a minor (13 year old) cannot be together...well they can, but its illegal...and if u try doin anythingg with the kid thats called saturation rape or something, lol...soo be careful

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diva answered Thursday October 14 2004, 9:15 pm:
yes he minor. he 13yr under age and u 18 stay away for ur sake.

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oxtopperbabiexo answered Thursday October 14 2004, 9:21 am:
hell yah!! thats just wrong!!

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Jordan answered Thursday October 14 2004, 2:40 am:
I dunno....But i think thats realy gross....I hope you dont make out w/ her..

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futuredrkirpas answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 8:53 pm:
yes

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Katiesays answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 12:30 pm:
no, not unless you have sex with her..but if you do have sex with her, it could be considered rape bc you are an adult and shes a child..so its probably a good idea to stick with someone your own age..xox hope i could help

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Laura answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 10:51 pm:
Yes. And if you have sex with her you could go to prison. You're an adult, and she isn't, making her a child which is like making you...a pedophile. Yeah. Don't do it.

~Laura~

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Magic answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 4:36 pm:
no unlless theres sex but just stick wiht ur own age

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xo_dream answered Monday October 11 2004, 7:23 pm:
If there's sex involved & people find out, than yes. But for just dating, no.

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SullysGirl answered Monday October 11 2004, 7:14 pm:
Yes, it is called stagitory rape, even if the 13 year old wants to be with you, if their parents don't aprove, watch out.

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charmed-cherry21 answered Monday October 11 2004, 5:58 pm:
No. Its not a very good age for two people that are together but no you can not get in trouble.

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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lil_blondie123 answered Monday October 11 2004, 5:53 pm:
yeah lots.its the law

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PhatAzz_4life answered Monday October 11 2004, 3:01 pm:
yea you can but people do it all the time so don't all like no i cann't go out with you if you reallly like this person

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pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Sunday October 10 2004, 4:08 pm:
yEsSs oNlY iiF u GeT cAuGhT

x33*bRiiTzee

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xostripped answered Sunday October 10 2004, 3:43 pm:
Besides being totally immoral, it's against the law. It's called statutory rape. The 18 year old is considered an adult, while the 13 year old is still a child. Even if you both are willing to be together, the law considers the 13 year old too young to make responsible decisions. If this is a personal question that is happening to you, think about this: Why is a 18 year old considering going out with a 13 year old? Why can't this person be with someone closer to his/her age?

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mizzthang91 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 2:56 pm:
well i myslef live in Florida and yes you can get in trouble...but you can do it in private .but if your mom knows and she doesnt like this boy she can get him put in jail.

hope i helped
x3 Ari*

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xbrunettecutiex answered Sunday October 10 2004, 1:59 pm:
Yes its satorty rape and for him not to get charged with rape. The 13 year old's parents have to sign all these papers in order for them to be able to date and then more papers for them to be able to be like to kiss or have sex.

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jeanine278972 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:46 pm:
Well.. i dont know about in Florida..but here in Illinois.. is pretty much against the law. MY best friend got into trouble for dating an 18 year old when she was 15.
So to answer your question... YES! An 18 can actually be sent to Jail if he/she has sexual contact of ANY kind with the 13 year old. I'm pretty sure it includes kissing and stuff like that too. (it does here at least!)

Hope I helped!!

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butterfly99808 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:27 pm:
I dont know but that is really wrong unless they both love each other and their parents allow it

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rainbowcherrie answered Sunday October 10 2004, 11:58 am:
Yes, they can. Especially if they are having sex.

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MummuM answered Sunday October 10 2004, 11:30 am:
Yes, you'll so get in shit for that. That's kidda gross to, no affence. I know sometimes you can't help who you like, but I big age differents like that - is wrong.

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crazyassmuthafuka7 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 11:11 am:
ARE U GUYS SICK?? In florida, broward county, mi dad is a probation officer..he has a kid who is 18 and the grl is 16 and hes going to jail for 3 months becuz of that...DONT DO IT

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blondebombshell33 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:56 am:
YeA.... for sure. well sort of 18 year olds are considered legal and 13 year olds are considered underage. its only illegal if they have sexual relations... but i would suggest waiting till the 13 year old is legal... people get in lots of trouble for it!
xOxO, aLeX

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Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:51 am:
yes, its illegal anywhere!!

gl xoxo

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:45 am:
Yes especially if you're sexually active. It's called sagitory rape and the 18 year old can get arrested for it. It's 150% ILLEGAL. Hope this helped.

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mysticpixie05 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:43 am:
Heres the scoop:
You cant really get in trouble for dating. But you most definatley can get in trouble for having sex. Since you are not the age of consent, which is 16, then your parents must have given legal consent for you to have sex. I doubt they will give consent for their 13 year old child to have sex at your age, let alone with an 18 year old. But if by chance they would consent and give permission, then you would not be able to charge the 18 year old with statutory rape but with corruption of a minor. However if your parent will not consent they can take the 18 year old for both statutory rape and corruption of a minor. I hope this helps. And this is all the information that you should need for the answer to your question. But if you have any more questions just leave one in my inbox.

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GroverTheStoNer answered Sunday October 10 2004, 9:59 am:
Yes, that is illegal.
*Randy*

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S_C answered Sunday October 10 2004, 9:43 am:
Well, depends, it's illegal to have sex, and I'm pretty sure in Florida it's illegal to date.

It's also considered pedophile.

I think it's kind of wrong to date somebody 5 years apart, unless you are both in you 20s or something.

But yeah, an 18 year old can get into trouble for that.

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UnluckyWishes answered Sunday October 10 2004, 8:49 am:
Yes they can.18 is when your legal but the person your with has to be 18 or older also unless they younger person has permission from thier parents but even so if anything romantic were to happen and the parents knew , they could change thier mind and press charges.

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cordchick15 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 3:31 am:
dateing???no i dont belive so ur safe..

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sweetpinkgiggles3 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 2:45 am:
Yes you can get in trouble for dating a 13 year old if the 13 year olds parents say that you tried to rape the 13 year old. Or if you ever get caught doing a sexual act. Well be careful. Good luck.! Thanx for the question. hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

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chocolatekissx answered Sunday October 10 2004, 2:39 am:
I'm pretty sure if there is any type of sexual contact it is illegal. I'm not sure if that includes kissing, though. You should ask the other person's (assuming your the 18 year old) parents if it's ok.

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justagirlxo answered Sunday October 10 2004, 2:11 am:
Here in Canada, yes. you CAN get into trouble if you're dating a 13 year old.

Actually, i know of this guy who is OUT of highschool [graduated] so he's like 18, maybe 19.. and he was dating this girl who was going into grade 9.. she was 13.. her parents found out, and told him they'd contact the police if he continued to see her.

Of course, there are many married couples who are years apart, but they're also OLDER. A 18 year old with a 13 year old, in my opinion is just wrongggg.

Sorry. ;x

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Sunday October 10 2004, 1:39 am:
as far as i know... you can get in trouble for it... but theres is NOTHING wrong with that... i know married couples who have a 10 year age difference... age is a number... & if wanna be wit sum1 thats happens to be 10 years older than you... thats who you wanna be with... who u are happy with is ur business.. is there anything wrong wit being happy...

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xOmAnDaH answered Sunday October 10 2004, 1:29 am:
you cant get in trouble..but thats wrong.....

xoxoxo
mandah
xoxoxo

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MFS answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:56 am:
define "trouble"...<br>

yes, they can legally date each other. No, they cannot have sex, unless the minor's parents consent to it, and even then it is ill-advisable (instead of nailing the 18 year old for statutory rape, then can charge them with corruption of a minor).<br>

Generally, I think most parents would be unhappy to find out their 13 year old is dating an 18 year old, regardless of the gender of the younger person involved.

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MissIiVannaH answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:44 am:
yes that is 2 young.

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lauren212 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:40 am:
yeah its wrong!!
are u the 13 or 18 !! its greta if u wait to get some untill the other it 18 or older

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Sweetie2oo4 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:37 am:
you cannot get in trouble for "dating" them, you can only get in trouble if someone 18 or over has sex with the minor (any1 under the age of 18)

xo`lexi

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Rachel_McAdams answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:33 am:
Omg, yes. Especially if you get caught making out, or having sex. You'll probably also be teased for dating someone so young. I mean, holy fuck.

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Michelley answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:30 am:
I don't know about getting in trouble (*but you can for sex), but people might think you can't get a boyfriend/girlfriend you're own age or they might thnk you're using the younger person and you are in two different points in you're lives (*assuming you are almost in college and he/she is just starting high school)...just smthn to think about

=) HoPe I HeLpEd

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Sherry answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:25 am:
Yeah, if they do anything like sex..or if police catch you makin out in a car at night or somethin..then it wouldent be good

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