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Hey!I'm Kendall, i go by Kenda, and I'm 15 years old. I love to hang out with my friends, party, go shopping, read, & write. School isnt really challenging to me, so I really don't try all that much & still get all a's. I like to do alot of wild & crazy things because, hey, you only live once so why not try it? I don't spend too much time with my family, so I'm not quite good at answering 'how do i apologise to my parents?' questions, but I can help you with family problems. Ask me anything x3333

Im a sophomore this year at NCHS so i've delt with tons of problems over the past few years. I love to give advice to anyone and i hope i do a good job at it too. You dont have to put your name on the message if you dont want. Ask me anything, so dont be shy or nervous! :D I respond pretty fast to questions!

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advice

ok so right now im listening to a layout site that has i guess its the cover cd or whatever when they re make a song but its the same lyrics but just a different artist singing it.. but the original song is i wanna love you but akon but does anyone know the re made song????? PLEASE!!! helpppp

does it sound like an alternative band?
if so, it's 'i wanna love you' by the Maine.
you can search them on myspace.

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Kendall... I dont know anymore! I cant take it. I my boyfriend and I have been fighting alot lately and I dont know anymore! He gets jelouse and he doesnt trust me and I hate it! What can I do... I do what he wants me to do and I tell him everything and I would do anything for him! What do I do! I dont know anymore! Help me please!

Ask him what his problem is! Tell him that if he wants to keep this relationship he needs to learn how to trust you AND respect you. Fighting doesn't help anything between you guys, it just tears apart your relationship. He should know that. Little fights are normal but if your guy's fights turn into big ones where you're constantly yellin at eachother then you might want to re-consider this guy! Tell him how you feel about him and that he's the only one for YOU! Hope i helped!=)

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well lets see i have a girlffrind she is pretty hot and i want to make out with her but i think she doesn't want to what shall i do

Just ask her if she wants to. If she doesn't want to then back off a little and maybe ask her next time. If she wants to then just go with it.

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ok this guy that i use to date sent pics of someones boobs to alot of ppl saying it was me when really its not! how can i stop this person..cause i know that its not me but no one else does!

Talk to the guy, one on one. Tell him what he's doing is WAY immature and that if he has to use a fake picture to brag to everyone about your chest, then he's LAME! If he still keeps showin everyone that picture and sayin it's you, then all you have to do is ignore it. Laugh along with it and say stuff like "ha yeah..that's me...NOT" or something like that, but with sarcasm. You're better than this guy, he just has his mind in the gutters right now and is jelous because he can't see the real things! lol Hope i helped!=)

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my is not real big and im very scared about showing it to my friend. weve been going out for about a year now and we need to move on. im very scared tho. what do i do?

Don't be nervous about it, most girls dont care about size;)

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

definatly. it's illegal.

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My mom has lost her trust in me...she thinks im slutty and everything...because my brothers friend caught me kissing a guy..and told my brother..and he told my mom..and she got all pissed off at me...i just want to earn her trust back and be able to hang out with guys..even guy friends! How can i earn her trust back ?

Try doing some chores around the house and sucking up. that always works in my house=) If that doesnt work then stay in for a while on the weekends and do your homework like right in front of your mom to show that you're responsible. Oh and when report cards come out and you have good grades then that will really show her how hard you're concentrating on your school work and not just boys. She should loosen up soon and at least let you hang out with guy friends, then your boyfriend=) Hope i helped!

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The problem is he isnt the only guy that has done this, everyguy i end up really liking, starts to like my sister, and she just flirts and makes them like ehr more.

Talk to your sis about all this and how you feel towards her doing that stuff. If you tell her that you REALLY REALLY like the guy then maybe she'll back away a bit and let you have this guy. If she still doesn't do anything about it and continues to flirt with them then just invite them over but leave the house with them when he gets there, that way she can't interrupt you guys=)Hope i helped!

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Everytime I start to like a guy and he likes me back everything ok. Then he comes to my house and we hang out, and he meets my sister. Then I find out he doesnt like me any more but he likes my sister! I dont know what to do and im sick of it! im thinking of doing something things that arent good, but i just cant take it anymore.

Hmm..maybe this guy isnt good enough for you! i think you deserve better if this guy is just gonna go and try to get with your sister. Don't let him come back over, because chances are he'll start asking you if he can to "hang out", but in reality he's just playin you to get with your sister. I'm sure that you can find another guy who will treat you right, and like you for YOU. I know this all sounds like corny and stuff but that guy must be a jerk if he drops you and then goes for your sister. If you want you can i.m. me on OMFGITSKENDALL and give me more details so i can figure this all out! Hope i helped=)

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are yoo sinGle?

nope=)

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hey kendall, whats up? i was just wonderin how ur school years goin and stuff. ttyl. bye.

hey! n2m lol, school's goin good=) Homecoming week is coming up!! yey! that'll be fun! How's yours? Well ill ttyl! Bye!

*kendall*

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ok, what's "7 minutes in heaven"..i know its a game, but what do you do? hows it played? rules? etc? =)

7 minutes in heaven is a game where a boy and a girl go into a closet and they can do anything they want but only for 7 minutes. When your times up, you're outta the closet. Hope that helped!=)

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Anyone know websites for homecoming dresses? I've checked jcpenny's, macy
s nordstroms and those department stores..but anything else?

Debshops.com!! They have reaaaally nice dresses for cheap prices! That's where im gettin mine=)Hope that helped!

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ok
i have a problem
my x bf who i havent seen in like 3 months came ovr the other day and he has abused me b4 but he still likes me..what should ido

It really depends on what YOU wanna do. Maybe he's changed for the better to be with you. But then again maybe he hasn't changed and still thinks that he can hurt you. Watch his temper and what he does when he gets mad. If he constantly throws things or hit things, then he's probably still a threat!=( But if you do love him maybe you can change him for the better. But if you can't, then he's probably going to be like that for a very long time. Try to find somebody else that will treat you with respect, don't let this guy keep coming back to you. You deserve alot better than abuse hun!=)Hope i helped
*kendall*

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my ex-boyfriend is into guys and girls, and we just broke up not to long ago and i haev another friend who is into guys and girls too, and they like each other and they are both my best friends, but i still really like me ex-boyfriend so it is a little weird for me, and i talked to my friend about it, but i dont know how to handle it.

*very confused*

Well there's not much you can do really, but support both of them no matter what their sexuality is. Maybe you could hook both of them up. Your ex could just be in a stage for a while of trying to experience both sex's, so MAYBE he might stop having feelings for guys, but then again maybe not. Just stick by him and be a really good friend to him during this. Don't push your friends TOO much into dateing or just hanging out, it could be uncomfortable for both of them, especially if they just found out that they are Bi. Hope that helped hun.
*kendall*

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My bf and i are 16 and his penis is not real big
and he's a bit worried about it he s my first boyfriend so im not sure what is the average size?

Well i think the average size is around 6 inches and up. Tell him not to worry too much! Not alot of girls care about the size! Hope that helped!

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Hey, skewl just started back ^ and i dont have like any money to go shoppin! Well i have about $30 but thats not alot! I get to go shoppin tonight and i dont kno what i can by w/ $30! I shop at AE, Aeropostal, Limited Too, and Claires!! HELP PLEAZE!

Yeah $30 isnt alot but you can still buy a few shirts and some jewlery with it!=) AE have some nice graphic t-shirts on sale for like $8, Aeropostal has really nice polos and off the shoulder shirts, i dont know about Limited Too since i dont shop there. But Claires as some cute bracelets and earings for under $4 each i think! Hope i helped=)

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my bf never really talkes to me that much..unless were sorta alone which never happens!! if we aren't alone..then he just kind smiles if i say something..or is just like ok.. i realllly like him!! what do i do..??

-talking concerns

He's probably shy! Most guys are! Try and set up a date on the weekend so you guys can be alone. He still likes you, so dont worry! But he's still probably warming up to the fact of having a girlfriend. He's probably nervous that he might say something wrong in front of you or something. Dont worry about it!

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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!?

Tell your friends that it was ONLY a dare, and they're the ones who made it up! If they keep making a big deal after you tell them, then they're being really immature. To get them back just dare one of them to kiss some random ugly guy! ha that'd be funny! Hope that helped!

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hey i have gotten my hair highlighted a couple of times. It is a golden blonde with lighter blonde highlights. Well in the winter im thinking about going to a light brown. Does anyone know of a pretty shade of brown/light brown that you have tried? shade? brand?
Thanks

Yep, like the others said, Loreal-Honey brown, if that brown is a little too dark for you, you can always use that brand that's on comercials to lighten your hair. I think it's "Go Three Shades Lighter Without Going Red!", Hope it works out for yah!=)

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