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My boyfriend and i havn't been getting along lately. im also pregnant with his kid. He broke up with my twice over the name. although i told him i dont want to talk about the name until we find out if its a girl or a boy. Also i think he is mad because i dont want to have sex with him because i think the sex is boring and not fun. We fight like every day. he says i talk alot of shit but i dont. he left a mean comment on myspace saying i talk alot of shit. his dad spoils him so he always gets him way.

Yeah, he sounds like a spoiled guy. Anyway, girls have all the right to be bitchy when they're pregnant, & it sounds like you're not being bitchy at all. Sounds like he's the woman. The fighting is probably mainly over the sex, no offense, but that's what guys like the best in relationships. He's missing out right now, so he's taking it out on you. If you guys don't stop fighting, I say ditch him, but not the baby. Surely someone will help you out with the baby, whether it's him or not. You shouldn't have to deal with more emotional stress while you're pregnant.♥

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ok so i always get the stupid guys who use you and cheat
but a couple weeks ago i met this one guy who was like totally nice and not an asshole and he likes me so i heard
but now i dont know what i should do
because this weekend my freinds parents are going to be gone and were inviteing him over
should i make a move
or something?

HELP
i want to date him so bad.
and i want him to be mine so bad.
but i cant really act myself in front of him.
please
help me.

Mm, don't make a move right away! Just try sparking up conversations & having fun with him. Get him more interested in you, & if you think the day/nights going well, then sure, make a move. Ask him if he wants to hangout again, or something. I'm sure he'll say yes. :]

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i like a girl and she cant make out good how can i help her out with out herting her feelings?

Hmm, just casually try to teach her! Don't go right out and say 'you suck at making out' or anything like that. Try saying stuff like, 'you should use more tongue' or whatever you want to her while you're making out. Just be casual about it, & she'll never know you think she sucks. :]

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how do i get my boobs to look bigger im 5'0 13, 110 ilbs, D. but they dont look like a D, and i want them to be like round like and you know like most girls boobs are mine kinna sag? how do i get thme like this?

You have to buy a reallyyy good bra! A supportive one, it'll help you not sag at all. If you want your boobs to look bigger, just get a padded bra. You can get them anywhere, and they help boost your bust SO so so much! They also give you more shape to your boobs, so they look so greatt! Good luck girl! :]

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